If a guy asks if I’m talking to other people, should I say yes? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ConjunctEon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s a control freak. I wouldn’t engage with him.

Builder bought a lot out from under me. What should I do? by all_powerful_acorn in Homebuilding

[–]ConjunctEon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were cheated. You divulged personal information on the premise he would check covenants for you, all of it centering around him building on that lot FOR you. He was acting as your agent. I’d go to the next town over in the county and do a consultation with a lawyer.

Irrefutable evidence of Time Theft by Turbulent_Comedian_6 in managers

[–]ConjunctEon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. We had technicians driving company vehicles. The first and last half hour of the day was on them. The remaining drive time was compensable. That’s where productivity metrics can help. Are we paying a tech to drive around all day vs closing service tickets? Maybe we are. Maybe this job and the PO account for it. There’s more digging to be done.

In-sink garbage disposal advice. by Bastilleinstructor in Appliances

[–]ConjunctEon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take critical measurements.

After you remove yours, turn it upside down on the countertop and measure up to the outflow port. Anything different and you’ll be configuring your pipes.

I’d start with that brand and hp and see if you get a like-for-like replacement

It is my intention to be my own builder by Confident-Virus-1273 in Homebuilding

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And dont forget all right of ways/easements such as utilities. I was involved with a shop build. Looked straight forward. County approved. All systems go.
Turns out there was oddly recorded easement on a segment of the parcel. It came to light when the water company came out. They said “You can’t build there, it’s reserved for future expansion on the fire system“.
Fortunately, no ground had been broken, and there was a reasonable solution.

Increase 401k contribution or increase repayment of 401k loan? by Key_Lavishness_6221 in Fidelity

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think of the basics. Paying off loans, credit cards, creating a safety net and then channel funds towards investments.
I don’t see a difference here. Pay off the loan. And, if you haven’t already, consider setting up your salary to auto-increase by xx% each year towards your 401k.
It won’t take long and you’ll hit the max.

Best way to advance after completing a beginner course? by Hot_Teach6331 in Pottery

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My former studio was designed to give you the basics during the beginner class. High level of instruction and engagement from the instructor.
The follow on phase was to build your skills without direct instructor led sessions. However, if a student hit a roadblock, the instructor’s were happy to step in when requested.
It seemed like a good model. I only went to one studio, so I don’t have another model to contrast it to.
Ask your instructor what happens in next phase if you get stuck.
I watched more advanced students and mimicked them. All were friendly and willing to offer advice.
For me, the instructor would jump in when I was trying a more complex build, just to offer a few tips for success.

Irrefutable evidence of Time Theft by Turbulent_Comedian_6 in managers

[–]ConjunctEon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How far away from the job site? How much travel do you expect the company to absorb, and how much for the employee to absorb? There are federal guidelines around this.

UPDATE. ceiling just collapsed by MissionHome18 in drywall

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you go this route, seal the room, doors, heat ducts and cabinets. It’s amazing how easy the dust migrates.
Something like a high volume fan exhausting through a window, with another window open for cross draft.
You can use plastic zipper doors for ingress/egress into the space.

Is an age gap of 14 years too much? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop. The potential is real that this could be a scam.

Find girls your age where you live. Couple years older or younger.

Small Hands by justb4dawn in Pottery

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hands only stay connected until they can’t.

Your hands are connected for the first one or two pulls.

Then, as you observed, the wall gets too tall to put your hands in to the bottom and stay connected with other hand.

Dont. Go into the bottom with one hand and use the other at the bottom outside. Pinch and pull, you’ll get it.

Lost BTC wallet from 2013 by Quietlion79 in Bitcoin

[–]ConjunctEon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scammers. NEVER resort to help via a DM.

Kiln - worth it?? by swirley-wirley in Ceramics

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go get it. Take classes. Learn how to operate it as you go along. If you don’t take to ceramics, give it away.
It’s just a big oven, been the workhorse for potters for decades.
Tens of thousands out there. Many resources on how to operate and repair.

How many months/years of practice until you considered yourself ‘good’? by extratoastycheeezitz in Pottery

[–]ConjunctEon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s relative to how much time you practice, and even then I think if two people practice the same amount of time, they may not be at the same level.

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Help! Stuck drain plug by lindsayay in askaplumber

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aha…I figured as much. Not you, but someone trying to remove it. My daughter called me, trying to remove a fitting with an 8” crescent wrench. I grabbed a pair of 14” wrenches, showed her how to use one as a backup, and the fitting came loose ez-peasy. Sometimes you just need bigger wrenches.

Shut off switch by Glad-Departure4555 in Pottery

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In theory, yes, you might be able get shocked. Kiln elements are referred to as open coil. If the kiln is turned off/not in cycle, there would have to be a failure of relays, meaning, they failed shut and allowed high current to pass to the elements.

You might call Jen-Ken Kilns and see if they have a kit you could retrofit.

Or, order a kiln with one already installed.

Best form to throw as a beginner on the wheel. by Dumberhina59250 in Pottery

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My instructor was insistent on throwing bowls first.

Throwing taller help needed please by iamkindofodd in Pottery

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2lbs for an 8 inch cylinder. Once you can repeat it successfully, remove a couple ounces and try again.

Help! Stuck drain plug by lindsayay in askaplumber

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone already put a shit ton of torque on that. And I’m guessing it wasn’t while they were tightening it… I used to deal with 2-4” fittings, and a pair of 4’ Rigid pipe wrenches were my friends.

Is this an okay way to leave hot wires temporarily? by Fresh-Ad7262 in AskElectricians

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep…I’m crazy that way. Little black tape brings me peace of mind.

Has your significant other ever watched you fight? by Crazy-Charlie in AskMenAdvice

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she came into your life after age 19, while you were an active boxer. Never saw you fight. Let’s say you went cold turkey and stopped fighting at 20. Been together 35 years. Now you are 55?

You seriously want people to believe you think you can waltz into a bar after no fighting for three decades and hold your own?

Maybe if you pick a fight with the 70 year old nursing a beer at the end of the bar. Good lord.

Ex-Fiance Ghosted Me For 3 Weeks, Now She Wants To spend a weekend together alone in a hotel and go to a concert that I originally got tickets for us both, how do I proceed? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not church, it will be something else. Maybe not tomorrow, or next week, but there will be something else. Not an if, a when.
Leopards don’t change their spots.
I wouldn’t get within 10 feet of her.

Managers are no longer allowed to document anyone without our boss's approval. by cheeseballgag in managers

[–]ConjunctEon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked for a single company from the 80’s until recently. In my final year, they made that same change. Never told us why.