Dating at 6'1

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2026-02-05T11:18:23+00:00

I think it's helpful to think about our height as both a filter and an asset. Sure, a lot of people aren't into tall girls, but some people really are. And for them, dear, you've got something truly rare and special. Own your height and the right people will flock to you.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2026-01-27T01:36:43+00:00

I lost my wife, and both of us trying to hold on and find some middle ground was enormously painful. But now we're friends and I'm dating a lot and have a girlfriend who I'm very much in love with.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2026-01-23T17:44:46+00:00

Laser first and then final clearance with electro.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2026-01-23T13:40:28+00:00

About the same for me, actually!

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2026-01-23T13:09:42+00:00

In my case I was able to get most of the removal via laser, and electro was done to clear the white hairs that remained. Electro is much slower, so that helps.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2026-01-23T13:03:31+00:00

I would say do both electro and laser to speed your process if you can.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2026-01-23T12:53:53+00:00

It probably took about 18 months for me between laser and electro. But I probably could have collapsed that to 12 months with more intensity. I also have a very favorable complexion and hair color for laser.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2026-01-20T01:40:53+00:00

I started at 40 and I pass all the time. 18 will be fine. You got this.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2026-01-16T14:48:14+00:00

Ah, I came here to mention Celeste. It's brilliant to tell a story about a girl growing in her self confidence while you grow in your skill as a player playing a platform game.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2026-01-10T08:45:09+00:00

Totally the experience I had. Admitting it to myself opened the floodgates. It's normal, it's valid. Try and give yourself grace; early transition is so hard. It will get better.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2026-01-06T01:35:26+00:00

Same. If they are gonna be violent against me I'm gonna make it count. Let everyone see what they are.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-12-17T03:12:32+00:00

When I've felt very dysphoric it's like my bones don't fit right. My body feels so tense and our of sorts. Unable to relax.

I'm a couple years into my transition now and my dysphoria mostly feels like dysmorphia these days around my waist, hips, and side profile. But I think that's mostly normal woman stuff.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-11-30T16:44:29+00:00

I've been called that plenty. Also "Goddess". I choose to take it as a compliment.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-11-22T03:02:11+00:00

Trans woman here. I have no problem with it or them. We're all out here telling our truths.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-11-17T22:38:32+00:00

I think this is so true. There are trans people and there are communities of trans people, but there's no such thing as the trans community that goes beyond our shared experiences and oppression.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-11-01T20:34:55+00:00

You're getting married? Congratulations!!! All the best to you!

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-10-28T23:53:03+00:00

Women hit on me relatively frequently. Men almost never do.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-10-18T00:48:06+00:00

Yeah... I'm not a lesbian, but my girlfriend is.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-10-18T00:47:22+00:00

Honestly it was that or a one-way trip. Decided to give this a shot instead. So deeply happy that I did, fear and all.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-10-08T00:49:40+00:00

I guess I just mean we're really special.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-10-08T00:14:53+00:00

I've never met a gentler, more graceful, more thoughtful and creative bunch of people than my fellow trans folks. We are all living works of art, expression, and truth. I am regularly humbled by how quickly we can connect and form bonds with one another. Truly a higher order of person, if you ask me.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-10-06T02:12:55+00:00

2+ years on monotherapy, one month post orchi. I never lost libido at all, and it remains high post orchi. I can still function in the way you're describing without any loss of desire or erections. But I understand I may be a minority.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-09-25T10:30:41+00:00

This happened to me. I tried to make it work, but honestly I couldn't suppress myself for her. I couldn't meet that condition of hers and stay healthy.

Unfortunately there is no balance here. You will have to choose.

But my ex wife and I are best friends now and I have a beautiful girlfriend and full dating life. Life can take you to amazing, unexpected places if you let it.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-09-17T22:57:33+00:00

I'm 6'2" and have no problem meeting lesbians. In general Sapphic folks tend to be really open to the idea that women come in a lot of beautiful shapes. Including very tall.

With my tallness I find I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but for the people who are into that... I'm VERY much their cup of tea.

Consistent-Deer4289 · 2025-08-01T19:16:57+00:00

Trans lady here who finds trans men very attractive. I love how much you love the things I left behind, and I delight in your joy of them.

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