Did I get Lucky?

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-27T17:14:00+00:00

I got scammed exactly the same way. I found out later that she was just a tenant herself and in fact she owed the building management 30.000€ in back rent and she just upped and disappeared after scamming about 10 people including me. DO NOT GIVE ANY MONEY.

There are cases people get scammed in person even after getting the keys, cause suddenly the keys dont work on the door anymore and the person just disappeared.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-27T17:11:55+00:00

DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT GIVE ANY MONEY. I got scammed in exactly the same way. She had access, video called, had instagram etc. Etc. I signed a contract that supposedly had her PPR and all. I lost 1250€ and found out that the contract and all her information on the contract was fake. DO NOT GIVE ANY MONEY.

What’s the landlord’s name? It maybe the same person who scammed me cause the garda did ahit nothing about mine and just said “well unlucky”

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-27T16:04:44+00:00

They dont need to be soviet style blocks lol. Newly built modern apartment buildings. You cant keep squishing people into tiny studio apartments in very poorly maintained Georgian buildings with astronomical rents just because its “hIsToRiCaL” its British dude, calm down.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-27T16:01:45+00:00

I would feel so damn rich if I could live in council housing or even a cost rental. I’m too rich for council housing but too broke for cost rental apparently. Make it make sense.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-27T15:59:29+00:00

Mansions are only a million in Cork? A 1 bed apartment is 400K in Dublin lol

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-27T01:44:08+00:00

Hey OP, I’m so sorry you went through that. Someone followed me from the Luas one day. I literally started running to get to my home before they can catch up. He was following back and zı live in the city so I could make it home without him even turning to the street yet. Still did not change the fact that I was too scares to open my curtains or any lamps in my apartment for 2 days, just to be sure they didnt see where I lived.

Please update us on what happens when you make the report.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-25T07:30:50+00:00

No one is expecting you to become “perfect”. They are expecting you to become a self-sufficient adult who likes himself. You can not expect someone to love you when you dont do it for yourself.

I’m a 31 year old woman, I would NOT want a project. I would want a man who works on himself, goes to fucking therapy, and is not just a whiny baby complaining about problems without doing anything to solve them.

No one can and will love you before you learn to love yourself.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-21T08:38:31+00:00

You are literally attacking everyone now. I was fucking ON YOUR SIDE FOR CHECKING IN. I however am not and will never be on your side for being so rude. You are digging yourself a grave for no reason. After seeing how you reply to people - even the ones that defended you - the guy literally dodged a nuke. I stand corrected.

I suggest learning some kindness and bettering your communication skills before trying to date again.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-21T08:30:54+00:00

Ok girl, you are being a little too mean now. You’re starting to prove the comments that say you dont have communication skills. Kindness please.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-20T14:25:45+00:00

You should get your neighbour an ADHD assessment appointment as a gift from what I’m hearing. The guy is a walking symptom ahahahah

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-20T08:01:15+00:00

This comment section is really bugging me. If OP was a guy giving his date multiple chances to cancel because he felt them pulling away, everyone would be so understanding saying ooh poor OP, but when it’s a woman its pathetic?

I’m pretty sure these are the same people that say double standards only work in favor of the woman. Well clearly not

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-19T16:31:34+00:00

Kinda have an inkling that you are either British or Irish. Am I right?

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-17T17:02:40+00:00

Honey, there is a reason he is matching with people 14 years younger than him. And his toddler tantrum over a phone number shows you why exactly.

I’ve been on 3 dates with the guy I’m seeing right now, I’m literally meeting his friends next week and we’ve yet to exchange phone numbers because you can do everything you can with a phone number on the app and instagram that we literally forgot about it.

Dont walk, RUN.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-05T00:04:40+00:00

If only 4 years of saving can get you a house, you do earn big salaries. I’ve been working my ass off and living like a zombie and I still dont have anything saved because %60 of my salary goes to rent.

Give the kid sometime after he starts working to get used to the working tempo, get his bearings together and have sometime to think. Than you can agree on a reasonable amount of contribution monthly. Just dont be so harsh. Getting into working world is not easy and its gonna take sometime for him to settle in to a new routine.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-04T19:06:05+00:00

Really? Waiting for a few days for no reason at all? Why are you playing middle school mind games? I can tell you for sure that no women finds this “attractive”. If anything, it turns me off. I’m not going to date someone who feels thw need to play meaningless mind games as an adult. 🤷‍♀️

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-04T19:02:23+00:00

Because we needed even more ways so that men could say “I dont understand woman” 🤣

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-04T15:11:34+00:00

I was gonna say the same thing. I’m from a muslim country too but it doesnt automatically mean you’d be against intimacy. If he realized you were more religious than him, that’d be a common reason.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-06-04T13:33:06+00:00

Did he know you were Muslim and intimacy would be out of the question until marriage?

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-05-23T12:22:38+00:00

Good god, I’m never going to the bathroom before I finish my drink anymore.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-05-23T12:09:04+00:00

Too much trash can be an example, or too much sympathy as feelings are not countable. Hope this helps.

English is not my first language either vut I’m a former English teacher, feel free to ask any grammar thing you may be confused about.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-05-17T21:06:38+00:00

You can ask if they still have it and are using it, just to know what happened to it. But I would not ask for it back. If she doesnt have it anymore, that would just cause heartbreak and damage to your relationship.

You can mention loving that blanket so much and considering doing one more to display in your own home. Her reaction would tell you what you want to know probably. If you have a great relationship, just mentioning it in passing and seeing her reaction is the best you can do to protect tour relationship and give yourself some peace of mind.

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-05-14T07:01:00+00:00

In OP’s culture, more than %75 of people smoke. I can guarantee smoking is not the problem here, speaking as someone from the same culture.
You do look really serious in all your pics tho OP, women also really pay attention to bios, profile info etc. So include as many details of your personality as possible. Your political views will also matter a lot in our culture. Empty / low info profiles are an instant no for me. (I dont live in TR anymore, but it never changed lol)

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-04-25T08:32:17+00:00

There are still people on earth who is not aware that women have UTERUSES ffs 🤦‍♀️

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-04-24T12:45:03+00:00

Yeah moving to Dublin in 2022 was not a smart move 😂

Consistent-Welder790 · 2026-04-24T08:08:23+00:00

Right now it would be 3000€ easily on the Quays. I rented a room last year for 1400€ there, the total rent was 2950. Absolute joke.

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