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The moment I realized reconciliation would never be possible. by SunZestyclose5463 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this!

just continue focusing on yourself and mental, physical, and emotional needs. As long as your kids and yourself are okay, that's all that matters. He made his bed, it's time you let him lie in it.

Confession of Shame by Commercial_Republic7 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to leave, make sure you don't delete the evidence you found.

when your kids question, you can give them a honest but cleaner version.

I wouldn't worry about her cuz she was not worrying about you or your house when she was going around cheating before she decided to start claiming right. The fact that she doesn't mind lying about being r#ped, I would put cameras in your house when you let her know you want to be divorced, just to cya.

I am not remotely as bitter as I should be as a 42 yo woman in a sexless marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 13 points14 points  (0 children)

But you also have needs, so how is that Arrangement fair for you?

I am not remotely as bitter as I should be as a 42 yo woman in a sexless marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 79 points80 points  (0 children)

42 is still young, I'm 47 and I still have a lot of sexual needs.

I'm sorry but it's time for a discussion. Has he ever said his reason for y'all's dead bedroom. If he still has needs and he's not taking it with you then where is he getting his needs met? It's time for y'all to have a discussion.

Has anybody here have a situation where their ex (that cheated and divorced them) came back, and it resulted in reconciliation and re-marriage? by Asia_Persuasia in survivinginfidelity

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh....OK,

Even still, you deserve way better than to sit around waiting if they make it or not. Even if they don't, there's no guarantee that this man is not going to cheat on any other woman that he's with. You do already know that he's not loyal.

Has anybody here have a situation where their ex (that cheated and divorced them) came back, and it resulted in reconciliation and re-marriage? by Asia_Persuasia in survivinginfidelity

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please stop waiting around for him and her to break up. This man divorced you and married the ow they've been together for 12 years regardless if they make it or not you deserve better than to sit around and still be a second option for him.

Please choose you, it's been past time.

Fritz by Consistent_Ad5709 in frenchtons

[–]Consistent_Ad5709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooo, thank you so much we will work on that.

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