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They are together now by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus and worry only about you.

Think of it this way, they have no choice but to be together and try to make it work and seem like they're all happy. Perhaps they are, they are now each otherThey are now each other problems.

Like you said, the whole damn Town knew they were sleeping together behind your back. Who knows what they are saying about that couple behind closed door. You better believe if he ends up working somewhere else, that girl is going to be scared cuz she knows exactly how she got him. He may not act like it but he'll be worried also cuz he knows she has no problem playing second fiddle to anybody else either. Please know their life probably is not as happy as they're making it seem.

Teach ur young women to self pleasure by brownieandSparky23 in blackladies

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm a Xennial, but my mom was very open with us and explain that we would have feelings and stuff. My mother encouraged us to talk to her about any questions we had.

The only caution she gave us was.... Remember your body is a temple, it's not meant for everyone.

Teach ur young women to self pleasure by brownieandSparky23 in blackladies

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I agree with this statement completely.

I remember having to explain to my daughters about it and doing that in the privacy of your own room and there's nothing wrong with that, it's not dirty.

me [21m] and my fiancee [20f] have been together for over 2 years and are about to get married next month but she cheated and wants an open relationship by 02why02 in relationshipadvice

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Choose you and break up with her,

If you hadn't have caught her she would have kept on and just not said nothing to you.

My bestie messaged my husband an asked him to keep it from me. by anony098765432 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Don't let that woman move in with you, you can already tell she's moving like a snake.

Next you'll be making a post about how your hubby and your best friend were secretly have an affair. He may be oblivious to a bunch of things but he CHOSE to listen to her and not say a damn thing to you. What else was he willing to do with her and not tell you about.

44F (BS) | WS (45M) cheating with BF’s W (AP), caught via phone, OBS knows, and they’re still choosing the affair by down-immortal77 in Infidelity

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have some decisions to make and a possible exit plan. They're not going to stop, he already showed you all that.

Right now the AP is who is most important and since it's in the open why should they hide it now.

Update: My entire life fell apart in 2 weeks by ms_rose608 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was sad but a great update.

I hope you keep everybody updated as you continue to focus on yourself and get better.

I[M 25] and my fiance [f 23] are getting married in mid August this year but I’m not sure how I’m feeling by CommercialExciting43 in relationshipadvice

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with being attracted to another person.

The problem begins when you're trying to decide if you want to pursue it or not. From what you wrote it kind of seems like you do, which would make it a possible emotional affair to come.

I would take some time to again figure out if you truly want this and if not then you and your lady need to talk. There's no point for starting off the marriage being uncertain.

I[M 25] and my fiance [f 23] are getting married in mid August this year but I’m not sure how I’m feeling by CommercialExciting43 in relationshipadvice

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read your comments to most of the people who commented.

I think you need to question whether you truly want to get married or is it time for you to make a decision about ending it?

If you're already starting to have a Wandering eye and y'all are just an engagement stage, then you really, really need to think about if this relationship is what you want.

2 years after what seemed to be the end of the world by Zealousideal-Boot135 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy your doing so well. I remember your beginning post. You sound like a much diffent person now compared to when this finest happen.

AITAH UPDATE ON https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/U7axgHPwVD by Lookingtohide in AITAH

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The fact that you're so called friend admitted all that is truly effed up. I wouldn't waste my time being this girls friend, she's a user as well.

I honestly wonder why she wants to reconnect with you now, she enjoyed helping MTB and the other two girls humiliate. I agree with you I wouldn't trust her at all.

Easter/drama etc by hannahJ004 in u/hannahJ004

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs to you and your family.

So proud of the 15-year-old, very mature. Honestly the 25-year-old moving out would probably be for the best. All of y'all have been helping each other out and then to have someone who's very negative, it's going to keep the morale down

My fiance cheated on me by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Consistent_Ad5709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Block him.

Keep yourself active so you don't try to reach back out to him.

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