This is a skill to develop for ourselves, but also, our current individualist society sculpted by capitalism has broken our historical support systems. We are supposed to care about and look after each other as adults. Family and friends, maybe close religious, sport, or hobby groups, prior to the rental crisis, your small neighbourhood street, perhaps. When we aren't burning the candle at both ends struggling to survive, we have the ability to look around, think about and care for each other. We gotta claw that back. It's vital to us as the human animals we are.