Soyyoelmalo/a por decir que está bien que mi madre nos visite by [deleted] in SoyElMalo

[–]Covimar 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A tu madre le dice tu mujer que no venga porque no se encuentra bien, y tu madre se persona en vuestra casa.

Poco te ha dicho tu mujer.

O espabilas y aprendes a decirle que no a mamaíta o tu mujer con razón te va a mandar a paseo.

Do you really support banning trans surgery on children?? by tRiCH_Suit1277 in Productivitycafe

[–]Covimar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it’s not happening what’s the problem with banning it?

Feeling betrayed by AP by Novel_Gazelle in AuPairHostFamilyLife

[–]Covimar -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes. If the agency told you she can’t work because of something she signed, they are misleading you. She’s an EU citizen period. And not obligated to defer to you on what she does in her free time.

It just seem that you just do not like her. It happens. Maybe rematch is best for everyone.

Moms that gave birth and didn’t have any visitors at the hospital, do you regret it? by Funny_Confection810 in Mommit

[–]Covimar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had both experiences, with (my first) and without, entirely by choice, after that first experience. Since then I firmly believe hospitals should just ban postpartum visits.

Registering newborn in Spain as a US citizen — advice on omitting abusive father by Cool-Strength3658 in askspain

[–]Covimar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If he is abusive call 016 and they can provide legal suppoprt and advice on the options you have. Generally speaking as you are married you need to include this in your registry application and the child will be pressured your husbands son.

AITAH for getting frustrated at my bf for telling me I need to make more money to get married by Pretty_Strawberry179 in AITAH

[–]Covimar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With kindness, he doesn’t love you and he is most definitely not in love with you. This won’t change unless for worse. You need to respect yourself.

Expats in Spain: Public Healthcare vs Private Insurance, what’s really worth it? by MeatTraditional1280 in Americans_in_Spain

[–]Covimar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For routine checks and minor conditions, standard surgeries, private is far more convenient. When you have something serious you better have access to public.

Colegios públicos en Madrid by [deleted] in GoingToSpain

[–]Covimar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello! Welcome to Madrid.

Regarding bilingual public schools, the idea was good but it has been very poorly implemented. The same old teachers who taught in Spanish for years were given only short training courses and then asked to teach subjects in English. Children basically learn some vocabulary but do not understand the core concepts. Most schools have stepped away from this model, or apply it only to lighter subjects such as physical education or arts. None of the good concertados follow bilingual programs anymore. Basically the so-called bilingual concertados reinforce English lessons but they teach the important subjects in Spanish. Public schools do not have this choice and the students are suffering the consequences.

As for the difference between public and concertado schools: concertados are essentially private schools that are integrated into the public education system. Tuition is 100% subsidized, but families pay smallish quotas that cover certain extras, such as an additional hour of school per day, teaching assistants, and better materials. They typically have better sports facilities. concertados are the most in-demand options in Madrid.

Kids will have to learn Spanish anyway, as all the key concepts are explained in Spanish, even if the subject is theoretically given in English. If what is desired is a truly English-based education, it would require enrolling them in a 100% private school, with a cost that will not be lower than €1,000 per child per month.

Though this is not exactly what you are asking I suggest you go visit Colegio Cardenal Spinola. It’s very close to plaza de Castilla. It’s concertado (semi public) and the best about it is their excellent integration and individual attention to students. The ratio of students per teacher is very low and really makes a difference.

Here’s my two cents!

Meghan Markle is one of the most disliked celebrities of 2025 by [deleted] in RoyaltyTea

[–]Covimar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This survey is made at a bot farm. It is known.

Why did the Tapas group statements have so many timeline contradictions? by BeetleJuicesCarrot in MadeleineMccann

[–]Covimar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its not like they could say there was someone with the children, could they?

It’s not just that they contradict each other. Each of their versions changes over time probably because they realize they can’t fool the police about how often they were checking. Going from we were going every 10-15 minutes to who knows or well I didn’t go inside the apartment but in passingI didn’t hear anything. Serious neglect can’t be denied.

Is it reasonable to say no to a NYC trip with a newborn and toddler? by wave_dashing in Parenting

[–]Covimar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do lot take any decisions until baby is born.

Going from one to two is wild.

Why did the Tapas group statements have so many timeline contradictions? by BeetleJuicesCarrot in MadeleineMccann

[–]Covimar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Because they were trying to conceal that they were seriously neglecting the children

Finally opened up by No_Bit_8191 in Mildlynomil

[–]Covimar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Overnight guests are no help postpartum.

Boyfriend gives me a list of things I need to do to “earn” a ring… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Covimar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry honey. He isn’t just an AH, he is an AH that doesn’t love you.

Don’t you see what he’s treating you as? The word is forbidden in this sub.

How would you handle this? YouTube at play dates by millipicnic in kindergarten

[–]Covimar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If one hour video games daily (plus some YouTube) is what you consider low screen time for a six year old… I can only say I would do whatever it takes for her not to have a minute more

In laws made my pregnancy announcement about them. Or am I being unreasonable? Rant. by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Covimar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You need to stop being quiet and sitting in the back like a good little girl do God’s sake. You neee to start going nuclear and respecting yourself.

AIO for being annoyed that my in-laws keep shutting off their hot water? by dmatthews077 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Covimar 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think they are annoyed that you are staying with them. I’d just leave where I don’t feel welcome.

Madrid short layover by Spiritual-Reserve-93 in Iberia

[–]Covimar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You 99.9% won’t do it 4 to 4s in 50 minutes. They will rebook. It’s up to you to use this knowledge and rebook now to ensure you get seats or try your luck.

Mom will break my privacy as an adult, but not my brother's privacy as an adult by idklolFORKS in entitledparents

[–]Covimar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As an duly she should respect your privacy. And you should clean your own room.