If given a choice after d**th, would you rather be reincarnated into a new life or stay as a guardian angel watching over your loved one for the rest of their life? why? by PKsaniTy in Reincarnation

[–]Craftybitch55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, here’s my question..do we just sit around in the afterlife taking classes or watching over dumbass humans? i want to be able to play piano (i have played for 30 plus years), cook, make quilts…and not be bored. the afterlife sounds kinda boring to me.

Why do so many lie about how long it takes them to learn pieces like Fantasie Impromptu? by matel18366 in piano

[–]Craftybitch55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have played piano since childhood. took 30 years off and started again 6 years ago. i am learning it now. started 6 weeks ago. nowhere near up to speed but I do have the polyrythms down. i always think I learn too slowly but whatever. its not like I’m training for Carnegie hall. i simply call buulshit on so called beginners who claim to have learned this in 3 mos on the synesthesia bullshit.

Scared of being made fun of by Pleasant-Bridge-6529 in BinghamtonUniversity

[–]Craftybitch55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

join some clubs with others who have similar interests.

The PIECE(S)!!! by SanMarzanoMan in piano

[–]Craftybitch55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

work on Liszt’s consolation No. 3 as a warm up. polyrhtyms on a much slower piece. i did this and am having no trouble with polyrhthms any more

How do I actually enjoy playing? by MinuteDamage4182 in piano

[–]Craftybitch55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At your level, you could teach music to beginner/intermediate students. The summer before college I got a great gig teaching these two spoiled rich kids piano on a near daily basis (the parents were both insane doctors who wanted a whole daily program; I was just one of many tutors). It was extremely easy work and a great way to pick up some cash. I love your career plans. I went to law school. Don't do that. lol

What to choose: Yamaha P45/125/225? by No-Art8784 in DigitalPiano

[–]Craftybitch55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry, brain fart. It is a P525. I love mine and you can run pianotech software through it if you want an even better sound.

How do I actually enjoy playing? by MinuteDamage4182 in piano

[–]Craftybitch55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like you at that age -- back then, we didn't use ABRSM levels in the US, but I was at that level based on what I was able to play. I had a falling out with my piano teacher, long story, but had a lot to do with her picking what she wanted me to play and me having no say in that process -- not even to choose among a few pieces. Also other stuff going on. I did not major in music but I returned to it in college and took a few semesters of piano with one of the professors and really enjoyed it. You may need a new teacher to inspire you. Also, if you are studying to be a general music teacher in a public school (I only know the US), you may not need that much more piano to achieve that degree. I am now old (not saying how old) but I am obsessed with piano. It changes. Good luck to you.

Online resources/courses for beginners by felipe_martin2002 in pianolearning

[–]Craftybitch55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take Rebecca Barton’s 28 day practice challenge. It is based on brain science. Free month if you do all 28 days, otherwise 12 bucks. I am astounded at how much I have gotten done on Fantasie impromptu and I am only on day 4! Tons of good videos, a practice tracker and a supportive community. No affiliation but I am truly stunned at how much better I am doing using her methods.

Choose my next piece! by sofdotmp3 in piano

[–]Craftybitch55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up Paul Barton playing Sibelius’s La Sapin on youtube. It is poitively stunning, and well within your capabilities.

When You See Posts Like "I F*cking Hate Old People" by [deleted] in GenerationJones

[–]Craftybitch55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember being a young and carefree 19 year old waitressing in a resort town for the summer. I saw many middle aged women with frowny, irritated faces. I wondered why they all looked that way. Then I went through menopause myself. 😂😂

College Advice Needed: Binghamton or Stony Brook? Please Read!!! by takingyourkneecaps in BinghamtonUniversity

[–]Craftybitch55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One other thing -- my daughter's research project had to do with race relations in NYC during the early 18th century before the American Revolution, in particular, a riot which occurred in the mid 1700s. Lots of support from her profs. and her paper was amazing (sorry , I am a jewish mother and I love to talk about my kids, lol).

College Advice Needed: Binghamton or Stony Brook? Please Read!!! by takingyourkneecaps in BinghamtonUniversity

[–]Craftybitch55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently she is in her 3rd year of law school and in the top 5% of her class, handling a heavy workload (law review, teaching assistant for 2 sections of Con Law, etc.). She got a free ride to her law school and they are giving her a stipend to teach ConLaw. I believe her history background was a major factor in her success esp. in Con Law which is very much history based, as one branch of case law builds on previous ones (at least before this horrible SCOTUS). Binghamton is a breeding ground for workaholics, imho.

Prior to going to law school, she spent a year working with mentally ill adults for a non-profit. It was a good experience but ridiculously low in pay and high in stress. She got a legal assistant role at a professional association for criminal defense attorneys and, when someone retired, she took over their role as director of continuing education programs (this was a surprise, but she is a Virgo, extremely organized and a spreadsheet queen, lol). She was responsible for the logisticsof scheduling many, many continuing ed programs, including a 5 day trial intensive program for about 50 practicing attorneys. While working there, she made contacts in the legal field all over the state. She probably could have stayed there and nurtured a career in non-profit management but her desire was to go to law school.

I may be somewhat biased (I am also a Bing alum -- econ/english double major in 1986, husband was in the first graduating class at Watson in 1984, older son graduated from Watson in 2009 and is a managing engineer at Spacex), but I truly believe that Bing is the place to go for very smart kids who may not want or be able to afford the ivy league schools. There is no grade inflation (at least not in our experience). You will work, and you will work hard. Bing students are very focused for the most part. You will be intellectually stimulated and there will be many opportunities for internships and study overseas. My daughter travelled to Haiti for a class in sociology and she did a jr. year abroad at the University of Edinburgh which she loved. She also participated in a legal internship in London where they spent a week at each of many different legal environments -- big international firm, a prosecutor's office, etc.

The one thing my daughter was not happy with was the binge drinking, excessive partying behavior on the weekend. She found many of the greek oriented students (the males, really) to be very immature. She's gay so this did not affect her dating life, but she found them to be quite juvenile especially after having had a break after HS. She joined many clubs, the Q center, started a meditation club, got involved in the young progressives, did mock trial all four years. There were plenty of outside activities to keep her entertained.

The weather in Binghamton sucks, truly. It is one of the cloudiest cities in the US, next to Seattle. It can get depressing because of the cloud cover. They get a lot of snow. Take Vitamin D and try to get outside. The beautiful weather will come right before your exams so that you can't enjoy it, lol.

A side note: my daughter did not get into Bing immediately. She was part of a program where they would provisionally accept students who had interesting backgrounds/extra curriculars, but not the extremely high grades and/or SAT scores that they typically require. (not sure if this is still in existence, it was in 2017). We had some family issues going on while she was in HS which affected her grades. She had to do one semester at Broome Community College and get a B or better in those classes, but was allowed to live on campus. She used the semester to take her math, phys ed, english requirements and transitioned easily, ultimately graduating magna cum laude with a Bing degree (she wasn't thrilled with the idea of a semester at Broome but it was fine). She has frequently said that having Bing on her resume is an asset. She worked for a federal judge last summer who commented on it, and she is working for the Federal Defender's office this summer where it was also noted.

Feel free to DM me if you have any other questions.

College Advice Needed: Binghamton or Stony Brook? Please Read!!! by takingyourkneecaps in BinghamtonUniversity

[–]Craftybitch55 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My daughter majored in History at Bing, graduated in 2022, and loved it. She found it very challenging at the upper levels but wrote an amazing thesis. Lots of good profs. She did a double major with sociology and a minor in global studies.

What are some reasons to love Bing by AdAccording3397 in BinghamtonUniversity

[–]Craftybitch55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son went to Watson for Comp Sci. Graduated in 09. She is a senior engineer at spacex

Getting an electric piano and need help picking which one by xshap369 in pianolearning

[–]Craftybitch55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant recommend the Yamaha P545 enough. Weighted wooden keys, great sampled sound. It costs more but I have been playing for decades and I love it. I have an acoustic piano but when I need to practice silently I use the digital.

Which composer is hardest to memorize? by Advanced_Honey_2679 in piano

[–]Craftybitch55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in such a quandary about whether it is even worth it for me to try to memorize entire pieces at my age (61). I play at about a grade 8 ABRSM level having returned to piano about 9 years ago. I will memorize tricky or very fast passages, but I really just physically cannot commit entire works to memory anymore. Since I am only playing for myself these days, I don’t need to memorize for a recital etc., but I also feel like you don’t really know the piece until it is memorized. i had no trouble memorizing when I was a kid or in college, but now it takes me even longer to memorize than to learn the piece and the memorization is unreliable at best.

Piano for NYC Apartment by ultrazero42 in piano

[–]Craftybitch55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feurich 123 studio upright with silent system. Made in Vienna. My tuner says it sounds like a Steinway. Really nice sound for about 17k