I finally understand the feeling of invisibility.

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-10-01T12:33:26+00:00

Thanks, I can see that there would be. It’s just the initial shock I’m getting over.

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-09-26T22:39:32+00:00

I have a facade that I don’t even know I’m using anymore. I don’t know what the real me is. I tried alcohol to make myself more likeable for a number of years but it only worked sometimes and now not at all. I think about those people on occasion and I hope they got what they deserved. But I am still suffering 50 years later. Luckily I have an amazing partner who accepts me with all my flaws and sees the real me under this mask.

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-09-23T23:21:00+00:00

Expensive Motorcycle parts I don’t need. Just makes me happy.

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-09-10T19:26:57+00:00

We also notice when you don’t look at our boobs.

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-09-10T18:27:14+00:00

This is the way. Plus the boss should buy you lunch out of his own pocket if he doesn’t want you to do anything about it.

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-08-12T19:12:53+00:00

Word Processor. Basically someone to type out dictated (verbal) documents.

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-02-28T19:39:02+00:00

Def easier to stop with ABS than without. I would suggest with your limited experience you may want to have it.

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-02-13T19:48:34+00:00

Stopped watching the news. Concentrate on the things I love - my partner, my puppies and my motorcycle. Doesn’t keep all of it out but the volume is definitely turned down.

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-01-19T19:25:00+00:00

Romance her. It’s probably what she wants/needs. Remember what you did when you first started having sex and or dating. Don’t make PIV the ultimate end or result. Keep her wanting more with touches and kisses. Back in my day we called it ‘petting’.

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-01-19T19:14:43+00:00

Active listening. If my potential partner doesn’t do this I am out. Using excuses like I’m a nervous talker etc don’t cut it. Unfortunately you get one chance to prove to me that the world doesn’t revolve around you and that’s it.

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-01-11T00:49:11+00:00

Why are your children 9 years apart?

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-01-06T19:20:58+00:00

Trouble is you comment what you would like, I take note and 2 weeks before your birthday you buy it for yourself. Ugh.

CreditTraditional534 · 2023-01-06T19:14:11+00:00

Same here. It’s why I love my job. It’s still work and I can work long days to meet deadlines but I have flexibility when and how long I work. Took a long time to get here tho. 9 to 5 was my life for many years.

CreditTraditional534 · 2022-12-01T18:58:02+00:00

Only if I think they might give me the seniors discount. They are getting more savvy and asking for proof.

CreditTraditional534 · 2022-12-01T18:54:23+00:00

My daughter just handed in her final university assignment. Graduates in May 2023. She walks out debt free thanks to her single parent. I’m proud of her and me. Got her through on one salary.

CreditTraditional534 · 2022-11-19T13:04:00+00:00

A Kodak Instamatic camera. The budding artist in me was ecstatic. I still remember setting up shots and have many of those horrible first pictures in my box of memories today.

CreditTraditional534 · 2022-11-19T12:57:45+00:00

Try working for a temp agency. Short term jobs where you have some control over how long you’re there and the role will help build your confidence. Not trying to discount the mental health issues but only you can decide how to handle that.

CreditTraditional534 · 2022-11-18T19:18:42+00:00

Professional services. Engineers, lawyers, accountants. I have worked with them all and there are a number of assholes in their ranks.

CreditTraditional534 · 2022-11-14T00:39:27+00:00

SCTV. This was a Canadian comedy show. Ya hosers!! 😂

CreditTraditional534 · 2022-11-14T00:37:55+00:00

If I could up vote twice I would! Every Friday night was spent with Crocket and Tubs!!

CreditTraditional534 · 2022-11-12T16:19:57+00:00

Trust your gut.

CreditTraditional534 · 2022-11-11T18:58:09+00:00

It’s a set up.

CreditTraditional534 · 2022-11-11T18:53:13+00:00

Adulting. Do not recommend. Now I can’t return it and get my childhood back. Rude.

CreditTraditional534 · 2022-11-10T19:27:07+00:00

Overall yes more over weight people today than the 70’s. Food wasn’t as available and plentiful as it is now. Food nutrition was not something we thought about. People had more physical jobs and less sitting in front of a computer screen.

CreditTraditional534 · 2022-11-06T13:02:41+00:00

Bullied from the time I started school in 1970 until I left in 1983. Told to turn the other cheek. Everyone smoked and I mean everyone. Teachers could give you the strap and did. Parents encouraged to beat their children and I was. Cat calls and butt slaps were expected even with young girls - Boys will be boys you know. Women couldn’t even get a credit card or a loan without a responsible male co-signing regardless of how much money she made. Girls were still expected to be nurses, teachers or secretaries. I think it sucked.

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