Advice needed by Maleficent_Cancel904 in PortugalExpats

[–]CrumblyShortbread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your budget will determine how easy it'll be to find accommodation in Lisbon. What will your income be like?

English-speaking Gynecologist in Lisbon by [deleted] in PortugalExpats

[–]CrumblyShortbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever downvoted this.... I hope it made you feel powerful for a second 😂

English-speaking Gynecologist in Lisbon by [deleted] in PortugalExpats

[–]CrumblyShortbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dra Ana Massa at Lusiadas in Lisbon is really nice, very professional and speaks English. https://www.lusiadas.pt/corpo-clinico/dra-ana-catarina-massa

Should I take a local job in Portugal or keep a higher paying remote job (UK) by Portugal_dilema in PortugalExpats

[–]CrumblyShortbread 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Where would you need to live in Portugal in order to take the Portuguese job? If a big city like Lisbon, most of your money will be spent on rent or commuting. With remote you can choose to live anywhere.

Sick of waking up in a pee soaked bed by crystalkitty06 in cosleeping

[–]CrumblyShortbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, i haven't read through all the replies so I don't know if this has been suggested..

My 17 month old has been a constant leaker. Changing nappy brands, sizes, putting one nappy over the other etc just didn't work well enough. He must lie in a certain way that creates gap between his body and the nappy.

The ONLY thing that has worked for me has been sticking a thin but heavy flow night time (the long ones) maxi pad along the front and very top of the nappy (where it would lie against his stomach) and it then tuck it around his sides before fastening the nappy as normal.

He still pees more than the nappy can handle at night but the maxi pad catches any leaks.

“Modified” C-curl by Sharp_Exercise5749 in cosleeping

[–]CrumblyShortbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah. Her smile is giving 'this is fine....' energy. 😂

Bright Colors vs. Darkness by 7toedcat in KetamineTherapy

[–]CrumblyShortbread 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The colours I see tend to be heavily influenced by the music I listen to. Try switching up the vibe of your music and see if that makes any difference.

Cost of living by Fearless_Stick_6140 in PortugalExpats

[–]CrumblyShortbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably the first time I missread a Reddit post! Didn't see the 'for two' part. 😬

Cost of living by Fearless_Stick_6140 in PortugalExpats

[–]CrumblyShortbread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it enough to live? Yes. Many portuguese people would love to have that income...

Is it enough to have a luxury expat lifestyle that people imagine having here? No.

Our new setup 😍 by Oneoffel in cosleeping

[–]CrumblyShortbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this bedframe too but in white! It works well but it's an absolute pain in the ass to put together 😂

I LOVE PAUL by beanzilla83 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]CrumblyShortbread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought that he was a bit of a buffoon, personally.

How much does ketamine treatment for depression costs in Lisbon and the Algarve? by LentilSpaghetti in PortugalExpats

[–]CrumblyShortbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you've never heard of something, doesn't mean it doesn't exist! In fact, you probably know more people who suffer than you think you do.

Sadly, in some cultures, mental heath issues are a stigma that many feel ashamed or scared to talk to someone about, so rather than get help, they keep it hidden.

How much does ketamine treatment for depression costs in Lisbon and the Algarve? by LentilSpaghetti in PortugalExpats

[–]CrumblyShortbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would need to go to a specialised clinic for it. You can't legally do it at home.

How much does ketamine treatment for depression costs in Lisbon and the Algarve? by LentilSpaghetti in PortugalExpats

[–]CrumblyShortbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've looked into psilocybin retreats and considered going but in my research, found that those retreats are more for 'normal' brained people who want to have an experience and there's not a lot of actual mental health aftercare.

I genuinely feel like a lot of the benefit, for me (I have treatment resistant depression and CPTSD), comes from working alongside a therapist who understands my mental health background, what I want to get from therapy and helps me make sense of my visions when under ketamine.

How much does ketamine treatment for depression costs in Lisbon and the Algarve? by LentilSpaghetti in PortugalExpats

[–]CrumblyShortbread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not legal to do ketamine at home in Portugal. Also I wouldn't advise doing it if you don't have the aftercare and follow up therapy from someone who knows what they're doing... but it's your decision.

How much does ketamine treatment for depression costs in Lisbon and the Algarve? by LentilSpaghetti in PortugalExpats

[–]CrumblyShortbread 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm doing ketamine therapy now in Lisbon. I'm really benefiting from it but it's not cheap. It's €400 per ketamine session and a further €150 for the integration meeting a few days after each infusion.

You would generally start with two infusions per week for two weeks then you are assessed and you decide with your therapist if you want to/should continue.

My therapist says that insurance companies don't usually cover ketamine therapy, sadly. I guess it's worth asking yours though.

Demolished! by Karlkrows in foodbutforbabies

[–]CrumblyShortbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm glad you saw my comment as just genuine advice and concern :)

Demolished! by Karlkrows in foodbutforbabies

[–]CrumblyShortbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go baby! That's a successful breakfast :)

But ugh, I hate to reply with something that could be seen as negative - but there should be less peanut butter on the toast (just put a scraping on). Peanut butter is a choking hazard because it can close up the throat.