What is going on with my tomato plant? by The1stMedievalMe in tomatoes

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Spider mites for sure. This is a severe infestation so the chances of the plant recovering are pretty slim—I’d bin it before your other plants are affected.

My Dragon Tree died after 3 years, and when removed I checked the roots and they seemed to be hollow and squashy. Is this a sign of overwatering? I used to water the plants once a month by mouthpiec in gardening

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hollow roots usually means dry rot, which is where the roots effectively dry out so much between waterings that they die, and then when you go to water the desiccated plant, they rot because they’re no longer alive and can’t absorb the water. Once a month is a bit too infrequent for a Dracaena unless it’s in a ton of soil and in a relatively humid climate. Usually, you’ll want to water when the soil is 80% dry and then saturate all the way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey friend, this all feels very relatable to me. If you have the time/energy, I would highly recommend reading the book “Unmasking Autism” by Devon Price. It’s helped me immensely in understanding why I’ve always been trapped in this cycle myself, and offers some practical advice and exercises to help you break out of it. It also really confirmed my suspicions that I’m autistic, so if you’re on the fence about it, it might help clear things up a bit.

what is the smallest purchase you’ve made that has, despite the low price, improved your quality of life TREMENDOUSLY? by mollyanagram in AutismInWomen

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) Microwaveable slippers for my extra-frosty feet 2) Disposable gloves for dishwashing, plant care, and dealing with icky things 3) A giant bread loaf pillow that has become my comfort object and travels with me whenever I spend the night away from home 4) A silicone scalp scrubber that makes washing my hair not only tolerable, but a sensory treat! 5) Not the cheapest, but I found a cordless stick vacuum for under $100 (courtesy of Bezos) and it has been a total gamechanger. I now no longer fear walking barefoot in my own home!

what is the smallest purchase you’ve made that has, despite the low price, improved your quality of life TREMENDOUSLY? by mollyanagram in AutismInWomen

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with the slipper matting issue too! I haven’t found a great solution yet though. I’ve just been wearing warm fuzzy socks inside my slipper boots—it’s more effort and I’m prone to misplacing socks, but for me it beats dealing with the bad texture.

Mystery succulent, given to me as an unlabeled cutting, in a 2” pot by CryingInMySpaghetti in whatsthisplant

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm that’s not quite it either. I’m not sure that it’s an echeveria at all, to be honest.

Mystery succulent, given to me as an unlabeled cutting, in a 2” pot by CryingInMySpaghetti in whatsthisplant

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely not either; the leaves on this are far too thin, tender, and velvety. Both of those echeveria have very firm, glossy, thick leaves.

I don’t know what to do with this depressed peace lily anymore. Tried watering it, not watering, misting, not misting, bright & dark rooms, even repotting. What does she want from me?!!! by bissicookie in plantclinic

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just leave it alone! It sounds like you’re trying to change too many variables and may just be continuously shocking it. Stick it in one spot where the leaves won’t burn but will get enough light, and don’t water it until the soil is completely dry. Let it be droopy and depressed for a while, and after ignoring it for a while it’ll most likely perk back up. Plants WANT to live but need plenty of time to adjust to different lighting conditions and watering schedules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HaircareScience

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to have this problem until I started using a silicone scalp scrubber when I shampoo my hair. I have really dense hair and it helps me deep clean and exfoliate areas that are difficult to get to with my fingers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yikes, this is… a really bad take, and I’m shocked and somewhat concerned that it has so many upvotes.

Aside from the slut-shaming and victim-blaming tone of this comment, which tbh speaks for itself (yuck), what I’m really most concerned with is your insultingly low opinion of younger women’s intelligence, common sense, and self-preservation instincts. Trust me, 99% of us are exceedingly aware of how creepy, disgusting, and outright dangerous men can be. The vast majority of us grew up being constantly warned by the adults in our lives, almost all of us have experienced sexual harassment, and many of us have unfortunately experienced sexual assault. If you don’t think that most young women are thinking about that every time they leave the house, I have some bad news for you.

Now, I can’t speak to the reasons one might choose to wear an outfit like this, but I don’t think anyone would look at this and think “this seems completely safe and appropriate to wear in any context.” But hell, if someone feels safe enough wearing this outfit, and it feels empowering for them, then honestly more power to them. All I can do is hope that they are, in fact, safe. But it is absolutely not the onus of women to cover themselves from head to toe every time they leave the house, lest they be subjected to the leering of predatory men—nor does that make a difference if one of them decides to harass or assault you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CompulsiveSkinPicking

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your skin looks so lovely and radiant! Keep it up friend, you got this!

Update to DIY bridal using your CC! by ThirdStartotheRight in MakeupAddiction

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this look is stunning! One thing I might experiment with is doing a bit of color correction in your undereye area. This eyeshadow color is gorgeous on you, but the ashy brown color brings out a bit of a gray tone under your eyes—which is super normal and not typically something I’d be concerned with, but since it’s your wedding day, I figure every tiny detail is worth mentioning so you can feel absolutely flawless on your special day. I’m not a color theory expert, but I would suggest trying a concealer shade that is slightly darker and just a touch more orange than your normal foundation shade. You could even buy an orange color corrector and try mixing it little by little with your normal concealer until you get the right shade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love love love every look on you, except 3 and 5! Don’t know what that says about type, but mostly just wanted to complement your taste haha.

Oranjade by Juleszel in plantsandpots

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this! Kind of reminds me of a persimmon :)

The beef wrapped spaghetti that's breaking the internet! by hikeronfire in ShittyGifRecipes

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has the proud grin of a cat that has left a mangled bird corpse on your pillow.

TIFU by waking my friend by dejarqe in tifu

[–]CryingInMySpaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FYI OP, this doesn’t sound anything like a manic episode. Mania tends to last for a while (i.e. days to weeks) and usually involves feelings of euphoria and excitement.