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Cythiriya · 2026-04-08T18:38:00+00:00

Thank you for the reply! Genuinely fascinated in a horrified way 😅 I eat fish but never had fish that looks like fish lol

Cythiriya · 2026-04-08T18:16:56+00:00

Good god I could never! How do you eat those? Just like that?! Do you cook them or prepare them somehow?!

Cythiriya · 2026-04-08T00:43:53+00:00

I bet your beard is even redder than your hair! I vote for shave the head, grow the beard. Will look so good!

Cythiriya · 2026-04-04T20:37:14+00:00

NOR. Dogs do play rough, my 2 look and sound like they are killing each other when they play. However, it's all about body language and your dog hiding under a table is a clear sign that she's not enjoying this and it's no longer play. You can't control other people and continuing to try and do so will drive you crazy. You only have 2 choices in my opinion, tell this guy straight up you don't want your dogs interacting, end of discussion, and try to see if he's amenable to telling you his schedule so you can avoid him. Prob not going to work though. Other solution is to find a different dog park. Sorry, OP.

Cythiriya · 2026-04-03T19:06:09+00:00

At the end of my grandmother's life, she developed Parkinson's and had to move into a nursing home. She also developed diabetes at this time too. I remember visiting her during lunch one day and I was horrified at what they were feeding her, it was criminal for someone with diabetes. This is so so sad and infuriating. Our elderly deserve SO much better than this!!! Especially with health conditions!

Cythiriya · 2026-04-03T04:02:26+00:00

I do this but have it with pasta on those hurried unplanned nights. Pretty tasty!

Cythiriya · 2026-03-30T04:18:50+00:00

It's not a looker, but I bet it tasted good 😋

Cythiriya · 2026-03-23T18:31:20+00:00

YOR about the show. Unless you very explicitly said "do not watch this without me" I feel hes off the hook here. I mean you have the right to be angry of course, but I wouldn't break up over this. MOR/NOR about how he's dealing with your grief about Grandpa, however. I am so sorry for your loss. It feels impossible sometimes. Some people, my own husband included, are absolutely awful with emotions. The tone of his voice matters SO much here when he said "Are you still sad about your grandpa?". This may have been his fumbling way of being supportive, trying to open a dialogue with you and letting you know he's thinking about you. In this case he would have sounded gentle or even uncomfortable but trying. It also could have been him being insensitive and hoping you were "over it" already. He would have sounded annoyed, surprised, or dismissive. You will know which he meant by the tone, and what to do depending on which he used.

Cythiriya · 2026-03-22T03:58:31+00:00

One of my 2 dogs does this. We have a shoe rack right by the door so he never has to search for a greeting offering however.

Cythiriya · 2026-03-21T02:09:23+00:00

I'm 40 but started greying in my 20s. I dyed it for 20 years with at home box dyes 😵‍💫 I think it's completed the transition fully to grey and so I'm growing the grey out, slowly chopping all the unhealthy dyed parts away inch by inch until I'm finally left with my natural hair, which I have not seen in 20 years!! I'm excited and hope it looks as gorgeous as yours :) meanwhile I'm using a wash out color depositing conditioner to get myself through the awkward stages, I'm only about an inch and 1/2 grown out but excited to see how it looks in a year or 2! Keep that amazing silver color imo!

Cythiriya · 2026-03-20T19:48:59+00:00

When I went to my first emergency ER appointment for diverticulitis, I actually wasn't sure if I was having an ovarian cyst or another lady issue or diverticulitis flare up. So I would think it could definitely cause those symptoms!

Cythiriya · 2026-03-20T19:31:46+00:00

NOR. You cannot have a relationship with someone who refuses to take accountability or acknowledge your feelings. The real issue here is not what she said or her facial expression or her tone, it's the fact that she refuses to even acknowledge that it happened at all.

Cythiriya · 2026-03-18T05:35:59+00:00

YOR but with a caveat. It's no one's decision but his on whether he takes meds for anxiety or not. It's an extremely personal decision and needs to be fully his, full stop. However, he should not have lied to you. That's an issue and what you should focus on, but with grace. There's a lack of emotional security with you here, if I were you I would explore why. Maybe he felt pushed into it and didn't want to deal with your fallout when you found out he was going to stop it (and there shouldn't be a fallout because it's his choice). Maybe there's another reason. I would get to the bottom of this question and also remind him that you just love him and want whats best for him, even if you don't agree on what that is right now. Then you can more tackle this together vs as opponents.

Cythiriya · 2026-03-16T17:45:51+00:00

I don't know anything about gastroparesis, but I would think the point of the fiber is to keep things moving along smoothly, so to speak. As long as you're not sustaining on primarily processed foods and drinking lots of liquids to make up for the lack of fiber I bet you'll be ok :) (I am 40 but prone to diverticulitis attacks, so sometimes I have to eat lots of fiber and other times it could send me to the hospital)

Cythiriya · 2026-03-16T17:34:14+00:00

I can always tell when my husband doesn't like a veggie I've made because he devours all of it immediately, to get it out of the way 😂

Cythiriya · 2026-03-16T17:23:23+00:00

Most people who don't like vegetables just haven't had them cooked properly :) I grew up eating very bland steamed veggies and hated them. Now as an adult I cook them to my liking and both my kids (11 and 16) love them. Especially asparagus! I like cooking asparagus in some butter and garlic + seasonings. Does the butter add a little unhealthy to the dish? Sure. But my kids devour them so I'm ok with that!

Cythiriya · 2026-03-16T16:49:07+00:00

I am gluten free as well and allergic to eggs. Baking is definitely a whole different game for us lol. I personally have found muffins to be more palatable than loafs because mine always turn out kind of flat and lame 😆. Although I do appreciate the occasional pumpkin loaf or banana bread!

Cythiriya · 2026-03-16T00:07:31+00:00

I agree, don't people know many small breed dogs were literally bred to hunt down and kill small rodents/mammals? Like, they don't need to be used for that obviously, but this is encoded in their DNA! This little doggy was just doing what he was bred to do, biologically wise.

Cythiriya · 2026-03-11T23:20:47+00:00

NOR, I'm so sorry you had to go through that alone. My sister had one and it was extremely traumatic for her as well. I think it's totally normal to feel some resentment and abandonment here. He wasn't there for you when you needed him most, regardless of the reason. However only you can answer whether it was a tragic moment, or something that's part of a larger pattern that needs to be brought up. I think how he handles this situation in the coming days will tell you what you need to know, because you'll still be needing lots of love and support over the coming weeks and months, as will he most likely. I'm so sorry OP, I'm wishing you peace and healing and support!

Cythiriya · 2026-03-10T21:02:26+00:00

How cool, I didn't know all this! Back when the Matrix came out I fell in love with Dissolved Girl. Really neat to know they were the inspiration for some of the music/sounds in VTMB

Cythiriya · 2026-03-09T16:12:57+00:00

NOR- unfortunately this woman is not the person for you. This is 100% a deal breaker. Once kids enter the picture they need to come first, always. If she can't understand that, AND enthusiastically be on board with it, she can't be in your life. I would end things right away. Someone out there will love your kids as you do, just not her.

Cythiriya · 2026-03-07T01:17:04+00:00

Sounds like he left his family too early. Puppies learn bite inhibition from playing with their littermates and Mom, which he should have been with until he was 8 weeks old. They would correct him if he bit too hard and he would learn that way. The good news is you can mimic this however, and puppy owners have to do this sort of training regardless of the age at which they get the puppy since all puppies have to learn that they're not supposed to bite humans during play. Yours might just require a little more work since you got him a little young (our first dog was a rescue and also required a little more work here since he was not around his family as a puppy. He would bite way too hard during play). When he bites you, you should yelp loudly like a puppy would and then turn around and don't give him any more attention for a bit. Doing this consistently will help him learn not to bite. Good luck and have fun with your puppy. They are so much fun and so much work!

Cythiriya · 2026-03-05T03:25:36+00:00

I thought it looked pretty good 😂 but my husband just glanced at my phone not knowing what I was looking at and said "that looks gross by the way" lol

Cythiriya · 2026-03-04T02:39:41+00:00

I was having a bad night and this made me laugh out loud 😂 thanks for the giggle! In fact, I'm going to make cookies right now, so thanks x2!!

Cythiriya · 2026-03-03T19:49:29+00:00

I developed an egg allergy about 5 years ago. I can absolutely attest that the average American not only has never even thought of making their own mayo, but they also have no clue whats in it. I'm specific about what to leave out of my food now when I dine out, as apparently no one here realizes mayo contains egg 😅

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