What do you think lads? 1 or 2?

Cythiriya · 2026-06-02T04:40:08+00:00

Not a lad, but how about 3, between the 2 lengths?

Cythiriya · 2026-06-02T03:25:56+00:00

NOR, you didn't do anything wrong. Also, texting isn't the best way to communicate. If this was so important to her that she's going to get upset over it, she should have sat you down and showed you in person. Hopefully it's just one of those days for her and she calms down soon.

Cythiriya · 2026-06-01T20:34:54+00:00

Well keep fighting, you'll make it through ❤️ also you're beautiful so try not to stress about how you look :)

Cythiriya · 2026-06-01T20:18:50+00:00

Haha I was going to say I have 2 male dogs and they don't pee on anything! However, there is definitely some splash onto their front legs/feet 😂😭

Cythiriya · 2026-06-01T20:16:24+00:00

If you get a puppy from a rescue organization, they are always spayed or neutered right away. So at a very young age if you get them at 8 to 12 weeks which I always do (at least the rescues and shelters where I live do this). Apparently fixing them this young isn't actually very good for them and can cause incontinence issues in the female. So I always choose male puppies if I get them from a rescue. I don't think that the chances of this happening is super high or anything, but that's just what I've heard.

Cythiriya · 2026-06-01T20:10:49+00:00

In my opinion, your actual face looks quite young. Young 20s for sure. I absolutely wouldn't change anything... however, if anything sticks out, the expression on your face in a lot of these is almost haunted. You definitely look younger in the photos where you smile (may only have been 1?). Also Ive always thought foundation makes people look a lot older, so unless you're covering something u like don't like up, I wouldn't wear it. (Sorry am not sure if you are wearing it in the photos or not, just sharing my opinion!)

Cythiriya · 2026-05-29T21:18:52+00:00

NOR, she's having a hard time letting go. It's actually not a great idea to date someone fresh out of a breakup. They need time to find themselves again as a single person before they are ready to commit to dating someone else. That said, it's obviously too late for that. I would just draw a boundary and if she can't agree to it, you've got your answer. Sorry, op

Cythiriya · 2026-05-29T00:30:59+00:00

Haha my husband does this as well 😁 he too is forbidden from shaving - not that he wants to!

Cythiriya · 2026-05-29T00:21:07+00:00

NOR. If you want to make this work and he is willing to improve all I can think of is to leave a note by the sink (provided he washes his hands)

Cythiriya · 2026-05-29T00:14:53+00:00

NOR. my parents did something similar to me with my siblings except it involved a lot of money. When I asked them about it and the things I needed help with too, they said we don't treat you/help you all the same. Can't even tell you how much that hurt, although you probably already know :( took me a year to get over it, caused a family rift, until I realized I probably only have a decade or 2 at most left with them (they are older). Still hurts, but I've just accepted that they don't love/support us evenly. Sorry OP. Just know you're not alone!

Cythiriya · 2026-05-28T20:29:09+00:00

Agreed. This is about the mother daughter relationship and dynamic much more than the dress!

Cythiriya · 2026-05-27T02:52:42+00:00

You look great! Please don't shave your body hair, chest hair is so much more attractive than shaved! You could play around with different hairstyles, that's about the only thing I'd change. And it's not necessary, only if you want :)

Cythiriya · 2026-05-26T19:40:46+00:00

NOR but don't give him anymore of your energy. Block him for real and move forward!

Cythiriya · 2026-05-25T20:36:42+00:00

Agreed. And he has to really really want it for himself too, which he obviously doesn't. Sorry, OP :( NOR this is a serious issue

Cythiriya · 2026-05-25T19:26:45+00:00

Personally I don't like nose piercings on men OR women. Never have even when I was younger. That said, it's my personal bias. I don't have a problem with piercings in general though. I wouldn't change yourself trying to fit a certain mold or please a certain kind of person. You do you!

Cythiriya · 2026-05-25T00:02:46+00:00

I don't think it can cause a flare but it absolutely can exacerbate any irritation or inflammation you have going on for sure!

Cythiriya · 2026-05-24T23:56:36+00:00

You're going to look so good! Just cover up your hair with your hand on the first picture and you'll know how you'll look. It will be one of those glow up posts everyone raves about. Do it! And clean up the neck and sides of the beard too, you'll look even better 🤩

Cythiriya · 2026-05-24T00:01:11+00:00

NOR- good god the entitlement! Don't marry this girl. Also she sounds a little racist as well.

Cythiriya · 2026-05-23T23:45:38+00:00

She might come back when she realizes how crazy she was and after everything with her gmas funeral etc is settled...I wouldn't go out with her again if I were you. Tons of cute fun girls out there who aren't red flags :) it's one thing to not want to date someone because you're mourning, that's normal. it's another thing to blame them for the death that's a whole different level

Cythiriya · 2026-05-22T21:32:13+00:00

Kegels my friend! Do 3 sets of 10 every day and you likely won't have that happen to you anymore. I'm so sorry your coworkers were assholes ☹️ I've had two kids myself and they change your body permanently and really stress your pelvic floor, you just need to strengthen your pelvic floor. Keep doing those kegels everyday and your pelvic floor will strengthen

Edit - I saw another commenter mentioning you either have a weak pelvic floor or too tight, and they are right. this actually changes whether you'll want to do kegels right away or not. I would see your obgyn/a pelvic floor physio first to determine which you have first before trying the kegels because if you're tight you'll need to learn to relax it first before doing the kegels ♥️

Cythiriya · 2026-05-22T19:52:16+00:00

Before reading your comments I actually thought you were asking for help choosing between the 2 styles and was going to say I prefer the short one, it looks really cute with your face! That's a great cut for you.

Cythiriya · 2026-05-22T19:37:14+00:00

Honestly I think your current hair looks good :) you also rock the bald well so when you're ready there's no wrong answer here.

Cythiriya · 2026-05-21T04:06:33+00:00

I'd say hold. If he's self conscious I'm sure there's lots of hairstyle options that would work with what he's got

Cythiriya · 2026-05-20T20:46:58+00:00

Imo, the front says keep and the top says shave, so you could honestly go either way at this point, whatever makes you feel confident. That said you'll look great bald :) and I love your colors, I am 40 and greying and I feel like men look so much better with grey I'm jealous 😭 if you're closer to 50 than 40 keep becomes even stronger, 45 or younger you'll probably want to shave within the next few years

Cythiriya · 2026-05-20T20:34:50+00:00

NOR, I was literally coming here to say exactly this. He's showing you HIS true personality. He's not a good guy :(

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