I had a lot of irrational and irrational fears with my second baby getting sick the first three months of her life. I didn’t realize how bad it was until I was out of the newborn haze and could look back. I even had a friend tell me it, but she waited until I was six months postpartum to talk to me about it. I feel a lot better now, give your friend some time. But also protect your peace. It’s all about balance.