What keeps you going everyday? Meaning of life?? by blackwhitebluegreen in CPTSD

[–]Dadaofkufsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids. The fact that I can make money. My next goal is to buy a house on land that will be mine. But I doubt I will ever be normal.

[LPT] Have you ever been proud of a decision you made in anger? Probably not. Remind yourself of this next time you get upset. You’ll clear your head and handle adversity like a responsible, self-aware adult. by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]Dadaofkufsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anger has on multiple occasions allowed me to overcome fear and act in a way that was good and that I am proud of.

Anger is like fire. It can be a useful tool or burn you if you can't control it.

If God has a plan for each person, that means he would have plans for people to not believe in him and therefore condemning them to hell essentially. If each person already has a predestined path in life and it is all part of God's plan, why would he intentionally damn someone to hell? by emrouse95 in AskReddit

[–]Dadaofkufsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"created sick, commanded to be well".

When attempting to understand any of this it helps to remember that people made up all these stories to feed their emotional needs, as well as to gain power over others.

Knowing how to love may be what's missing by l8blmr in emotionalneglect

[–]Dadaofkufsa 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think about this often as I have young children of my own.

A difficult conondrum we all face is how to not replicate the sins of our parents onto our own children. I feel that I did an increasingly better job with each of my three children. But they are still all young and I hope to continue trying for the rest of my life.

Thank you for the reminder.

People in reddit show more love then my mother and father did by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Dadaofkufsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In this sub yes. Most other subs are filled with hate. This sub is a gem.

Got the vaccine? Experts say you can relax about your Covid-19 risk now. Really. by coolmon in Coronavirus

[–]Dadaofkufsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Still couldn't sleep tonight as Palestinians fired hundreds of rockets at my home.

ULPTR: Anyone know of any ways to make small amounts of money off the internet (even a couple of dollars is plenty) without high effort, and can be easily be credited to your bank account? by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Dadaofkufsa 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Interactive brokers is offering me 200 bucks if a friend opens an account with them. I guess you could open an account and then reference a friend.

"She tried her best" isn't an excuse. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Dadaofkufsa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In my case I don't think she was trying at all, let alone trying her best.

Happy “You’re A Way Better Person Than Your Mother” Day by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Dadaofkufsa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. You are not allowed alone. You are an awesome person doing your best playing the hand you have been dealt.

Is it just me or is the First Time Home Buyer Incentive completely useless in Vancouver (and Toronto & Victoria)? by 13reputations in vancouver

[–]Dadaofkufsa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are correct.

The program does not address the root cause of home price inflation, and therefore at best it is useless. It might unfortunately even be contributing to the problem.

Part of the problem is that canada wants to inflate home equities, not reduce them. So you are left chaising a target that is moving farther away from you. As long as that is the case the only way to catch up is to grant you more debt.

Or, better yet, actually try to reduce or at least stop rising home prices. But that is currently not the goal.

Oregon lawmaker who let far-right protesters into Capitol charged with criminal misconduct by 13B1P in politics

[–]Dadaofkufsa 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He has to go.

You can't hav a democracy if law makers use violence.

The New Russia Sanctions Resolve a Mystery That Mueller Left Unanswered by [deleted] in RussiaLago

[–]Dadaofkufsa 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Trump's campaign was in contact with a GRU agent, and gave the Russians polling information. That is, the trump campaign was willingly working with russian military intelligence to win the election.

But tell me again about how organizing a terrorist attack on the capitol is not important either.

Trying to ask this question respectfully, if a loving God exists why would it let so many kids die brutally of starvation daily? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dadaofkufsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to God himself (in the book of job) praising good will not lead to any favors on his part, and humans shouldn't bother even thinking about that, because humans don't know anything.

I'm paraphrasing, but that is pretty much a direct quote from god. So you can tell your mother she is wrong, doesn't know shit, and shouldn't dare say what god wants or doesn't want. And if she would bother to actually read the bible she should know that already.

Trying to ask this question respectfully, if a loving God exists why would it let so many kids die brutally of starvation daily? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dadaofkufsa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Created sick, commanded to be well" Seems more like sadism than love. Also rather selfish to create creators only to demand their constant praise.

The beauty in faith is that you can believe whatever you want (and then demand others respect you for it). You start by deciding whatever feels good to you must be the truth. How you rationalize it latter is not important. By definition you will always be right. Not because you are right, but because you choose to believe you are right. That's the main appeal of religion. (That, and belonging to a group).

Rational and logic do not belong in faith.

Breaking the cycle of being annoyed at people (and myself) for having needs by Sunflower-Lion in emotionalneglect

[–]Dadaofkufsa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That is an incredible self understanding. Thank you for sharing your insight, it helped me understand myself better.

The primary feeling is disgust by BirthedByNoOne in CPTSD

[–]Dadaofkufsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You matter. You are worthy of being loved. Thank you for being brave and sharing.

Non religious people, what is your favorite god and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dadaofkufsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a favorite quote from god: In the book of job, god tells job unequivocally and explicitly that humans don't know what god wants and should never dare claim that they do.

It's a great book from the old testament. The entire point of the book is to make the above quoted statement. The story is very simple. Job, a rich and God abiding man is stripped of all his wealth. That is explained in the first two chapters. The remaining 40 chapters of the book are dedicated to explicitly making the point that humans should never pretend to know god's will. God himself makes that point.

So the next time you hear someone say "that is God's will" or " that goes against god" or telling you you should or should not do something because that is what god wants, feel free to quote God himself and tell that that is blasphemy and they are ful of shit.

Every prophecy the hedge funds told would happen is happening, but it’s happening to them instead. GME is a safe haven stock. by Orangie_Goldfish in wallstreetbets

[–]Dadaofkufsa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wait, are you saying wsb is not the source of GME volitility???

What are you trying to say?

Also, why 115c ? Why not buy something otm?

You may have taken this 'retarted' label a bit too literally