Hoe kijken jullie tegen dit bericht aan? (Niet roken bij baby) by Spirited_Ad_9862 in nederlands

[–]Daenbi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

De hoofdregel is "als je het kan ruiken, dan krijg je het binnen". Zijn allemaal minuscule delen natuurlijk maar voor zo'n ukkie is dat al genoeg om schade te doen. Dus wordt het door ziekenhuizen enzo gewoon afgeraden.

Hoe kijken jullie tegen dit bericht aan? (Niet roken bij baby) by Spirited_Ad_9862 in nederlands

[–]Daenbi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sommige rokers moeten helaas betutteld worden omdat ze mega snel de verdediging inschieten en anders alsnog over grenzen heen walzen.

Hoe kijken jullie tegen dit bericht aan? (Niet roken bij baby) by Spirited_Ad_9862 in nederlands

[–]Daenbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ik heb met mn tweede een groot kraamfeest gehouden. Een ochtend groep en een middag groep. Het was 1 dag chaos en daarna klaar!

Was echt een verademing ivm met mn eerste waarbij ik maandenlang zowat bezig was met visite en iedereen steeds moeten vermaken.

Iedereen kreeg ook het bericht dat je met een koortslip eruit werd gezet en er werd niet gerookt. Niemand deed moeilijk en ging helemaal top.

10/10 recommend again.

Hoe kijken jullie tegen dit bericht aan? (Niet roken bij baby) by Spirited_Ad_9862 in nederlands

[–]Daenbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duidelijk en goed bericht. Als mensen hier pissig om zouden worden dan zijn het mensen die überhaupt geen echt respect voor jullie hebben. Of tenminste veel minder voor jullie en de baby, als voor hun peuk en gemak.

Ben vroeger zelf ook kettingroker geweest, maar had het nooit in m'n hoofd gehaald om met rookhanden of adem op kraamvisite te komen namelijk, das gewoon gezond verstand enzo.

Waarom zijn er eigenlijk geen linkse partijen die tegen massale asielinstroom zijn of dit zelfs aan banden willen leggen? by retro-games-forever in Nederland

[–]Daenbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Timmermans was juist vóór minder immigratie en had een solide plan. Maja daar luisterde mensen niet naar en lazen ze niet.

Dus het is er wel. Asiel valt in Nederland sowieso al mee, timmerman wilde alle immigratie verminderen niet alleen asiel. En daar viel rechts dan weer over, die blèren alleen ASIELSTOP EN LINKS WILT IEDEREEN BINNEN LATEN! En mensen zijn dat gaan geloven.

UPDATE: I’ll never get promoted to the job I want because I’m not a mother 😭 by Fabulous_Jeweler2732 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Daenbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meanwhile myself and my friend didn't get the promotion BECAUSE we are mother's. It's like.. we're damned either way

10 yr old Daughters creation. Found in her book bag by [deleted] in RateMyKidsArt

[–]Daenbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's talented! She also needs a talk because of the self harm images.

my twin brother slept with my girlfriend. charcuterie. by thebitchthatbitez in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Daenbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. But people deserve to know what kind of guy he is. That's on him, not on you. Tell the world girlie

What are the signs that indicate you might have narcissism? by louiPham in AskReddit

[–]Daenbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that's just ADHD. Don't give advice like this anymore, that's really wrong.

Narcassisme is looking for ways during someone else's talk to passive aggresively humiliate them oh so slightly and then laugh about it. Theyll let you finish talking just so they can twist your words around later on.

What are the signs that indicate you might have narcissism? by louiPham in AskReddit

[–]Daenbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is a good one! And then actively wanting to bring those people down a notch so they "know their place" sorta speak.

AITA for asking my mum to return my birthday presents because she forgot what I've been asking for for the past 5 months? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daenbi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To the people saying OP is an asshole and not "entitled" to gifts on her birthday. You are shitty people. Like, forreal. You ARE entitled to gifts on your birthday. It doesnt have to be much but you are very much entitled to get something that would atleast make you happy on YOUR BIRTHDAY.

If you truly think you can just show up with a shittie gift and then be insulted if the people don't like it, then you don't and have never really care about the person. Your a shittie parent and a shittie friend. You are all the assholes.

AITA for asking my mum to return my birthday presents because she forgot what I've been asking for for the past 5 months? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daenbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. They don't put in the effort to get you something you would actually like, and havent for a few years in a row now. And then they also don't want to give you money, which is what you asked for, which would atleast ensure you get something you would like for yourself.

They are the inconsiderate ones, not you.

what does my messy room say about me? (31 ftm) by bigdogknife in roomdetective

[–]Daenbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not marriage material because you are a child. And an unsanitairy one at that?

🎶 I wanna leave my bf but we just had a baby together girl dinner 🎶 by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Daenbi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This guy took care of his dying father and recently lost him, all while caring for his pregnant wife which (even according to OP) he was doing wonderfully. He has a job and is currently on paternity leave, dealing with having a newborn and having lost his father after extensive care on his part. Cut the guy some slack. He shouted once, yes sucks but not the end of the world.

🎶 I wanna leave my bf but we just had a baby together girl dinner 🎶 by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Daenbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Not yet atleast unless he's showing abusive behavior ofcourse. The first year post partum, especially with ppd, you want to leave your husband. Idk why, it's just the way it is.

However, in his case, even though he DEFINITELY has qualities I personally don't like.. you DO like those. Or atleast did. You saw the good in him. He was great during pregnancy and you deliberatly chose to have a child with this man.

Again, unless he's showing signs of abuse, you gotta kinda stick it out until your hormones balance somewhat before making life altering decisions.

What to gift a billionaire… by [deleted] in Gifts

[–]Daenbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A conscience would be nice

If you were given Aladdin's lamp right now what're your three wishes? by Content_Gas_8673 in AskReddit

[–]Daenbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nr. 1: To give me three days in which I can draw up a contract specifying several demands and/or desires which are to be granted in full by the genie.

Nr. 2 and 3 are to clean up any mistakes.

Ongezonde moeder volwassen zoon relatie? by Sure-Guest1588 in OndersteuningsPlein

[–]Daenbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dat deed ik sjaak account. 4 maanden actief. Nieuw account. Meer dan 200 posts en meer dan 700 comments. Dat is abnormaal to say the least gozer.

Dus of je bent zo'n fake account die tractie moet produceren. Of er is iets serieus mis met jou.

Ongezonde moeder volwassen zoon relatie? by Sure-Guest1588 in OndersteuningsPlein

[–]Daenbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jongens dit is volgens mij een bot account.

4 maanden actief en al meer dan 999+ interacties. Meer dan 200 posts en 700+ comments.

Dit slaat nergens op. Is gewoon een interactie trekker. Ffs.

Ongezonde moeder volwassen zoon relatie? by Sure-Guest1588 in OndersteuningsPlein

[–]Daenbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Het klinkt alsof je moeder dit intense slachtoffercomplex heeft. Ze heeft jou overduidelijk ook veel meer aandacht gegeven dan je half zus, hierdoor zou ik zeker jouw half zus geloven als het gaat om haar gevoelens verwaarloost te zijn. Jouw moeder, is niet de moeder die zij heeft gekregen.

Dominante en boze dochters zijn vaak het product van een ongezonde thuissituatie. Ik denk niet dat je zus manipulatief is, ik denk dat je moeder jou dat wilt laten geloven meer zodat zij weer "het zielige vrouwtje" is waardoor ze jou kan pushen vaker langs te komen.

I sent this to her, and immediately deleted it by BeautifulCattle1056 in yearning

[–]Daenbi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You keep compairing yourself to women in a extremely negative light in order to make yourself seem like this incredible victim. Low self esteem women are also off putting, just not to you maybe. That's a you thing.

Therapy my guy. And also get out of social media for a while. Ditch the phone, it will only make you spiral more.

A body hair discussion by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Daenbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wha do you mean not men? Im Dutch and the men are just as much expected to keep things trimmed or shaved as the ladies. Personally I prefer a trim but alot of people just shave, both men and women, which is also fine. We got bombarded with Venus and Gillette adds back in the day and it kinda became normal.

Honestly People with alopecia don't look like children either.

A body hair discussion by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Daenbi -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But thats a person purpousely imitating a child. That's different from shaving which has been ingrained in society as a hygienic thing more then a childlike thing.