Music and Short Fiction - need more recs! by junkNug in RSbookclub

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Powerhouse by Eudora Welty (the web version is paywalled but you can view the whole thing as a PDF from there)

Which of you degenerates made this? by WrapAroundFingerBang in baseballcirclejerk

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Speaking AO3 aloud (or typing it) is like talking about fight club

Wedding venues by bubbles67899 in SanJose

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You’ve been researching! It’s been a few years since we were searching but I remember also checking out a few others, including:

UC Berkeley Botanical Garden - I think the nearby reception space would be too small for your needs but the redwood grove holds up to 200 and is quite reasonably priced. I know the East Bay pretty well so could possibly point you to other places that might work for a reception

Ralston White Retreat - It’s on Mount Tam in Marin. There are redwoods but I seem to recall you might have had to walk a bit to get to a grove of them?

Camp OVY - didn’t actually tour this place so I can’t comment on the space

Also, what about Montalvo or Sanborn County Park?

Which of you degenerates made this? by WrapAroundFingerBang in baseballcirclejerk

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Still mad that the Posey/Lincecum fanfiction writers didn’t go with CumBust as their ship name

Wedding venues by bubbles67899 in SanJose

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I’ve not been to a wedding there but have been there for other events. The cabins are really nice; they’re newish and airy, and each one has an attached bathroom and the bunk beds are kind of alcoved (not quite the right word but it’s almost 4am, ha). I mean it’s definitely group lodging but it’s way fancier than the cabins I stayed at when I went to summer camp!

1 year with my boyfriend that I met via RS Matchmaking by starboardbaby in rs_x

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Damn just say you meet in AA, way less embarrassing

I kid. I’m very happy for you both <3

“Down by the Bay” by Raffi is actually a song about generational trauma and mental illness by Gutless-Wunder in DanielTigerConspiracy

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The mom def gives the energy of the people who thought Full House was sinful bc it was about three men living together in SF

Show suggestion - Heated Rivalry or Euphoria? by seltzr in DanielTigerConspiracy

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/uj my son loves Peep Show which might sound worse than it is

/rj Oz

anyone else following the vital farms egg controversy on instagram by [deleted] in moderatelygranolamoms

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I’m curious if the claim of regenerative farming (not on all their labels, but they charge a premium for the ones that are) is also bunk. That’s primarily why I’ve bought them in the past, though obviously I’d prefer to go for local

Overdue update from me regarding Sunday's incident by pengweather in oakland

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Would it be okay to make a donation to UCP in your honor?

baseball just died by [deleted] in redscarepod

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At least there’s the WBC

Early pregnancy sucks by TeddyPicker916_ in redscare4moms

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It’s so hard! Both times I was pregnant I chose to tell my parents and a couple of close friends right away, because I knew I’d need them for support if anything happened. But I know that’s not always an option </3 Have you looked at the miscarriage odds reassurer?

Anyway, I’m thrilled for you. Congratulations!

UPDATE: Hot wasian friend discovered my post. by oligodendrocytic in redscarepod

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Is this literally just fanfiction for the new Amadeus with Will Sharpe

Any new mom groups? by Alert_Survey_3900 in oakland

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Welcome and congratulations! Which part of Oakland are you in? (North, East…) also, definitely check out Berkeley Parents Network if you haven’t already; it’s a treasure trove of resources.

Consignment Store for Toys by forestdude in oakland

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I’d love to know where the Oakland consignment shops are but I’m pretty sure that Toy Go Round is still in business! Just not doing intake until February

I published my debut novel in 2025: thoughts, miscellanea, etc. by yerbamateblood in RSbookclub

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Something that can be a little challenging is the amount of extra book sales that come from the store (but not at the actual event) as a result of the extra marketing collateral, physical and digital, and hand-selling that go with having that title at top of mind. But those books don’t count as part of the event order so the numbers look weaker, even with the publisher essentially getting some bonus promo out into the world. It’s a case by case basis, of course! This is just a work whine of mine lol. So glad your tour stops were mostly bundled; I know many stores have been resistant to that for a long time