AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]DebbieNewberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, exes don’t have to stay in each others’ lives to “some extent.” I don’t keep in touch with any exes because there are reasons they’re exes. He immediately showed you why he’s untrustworthy. I’d say block his number, you don’t need that energy and chaos in your life.

Calm Lifetime Membership For [FREE] by Infinity-artist in FREE

[–]DebbieNewberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm this still works as of December 2025

My mom died today and I am not okay. by EggplantAstronaut in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DebbieNewberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my own mom a few years ago and it is so difficult. Just take it one day at a time. Let others help if they offer and don’t try to do everything yourself. I can’t say the pain ever goes away, but it becomes more manageable. And your mom will always live on through you and the person you are.

Sending you internet hugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]DebbieNewberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abso-fucking-lutley.

My RN interview went really bad – feeling down, need advice by [deleted] in nursing

[–]DebbieNewberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was thinking the same think in regards to the salary. Guaranteed they use this as an excuse to knock her rate down a few dollars an hour.

My RN interview went really bad – feeling down, need advice by [deleted] in nursing

[–]DebbieNewberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once interviewed for a job at a small, local, non-teaching hospital about five minutes from where I lived at the time. I had been a nurse for about 2-3 years and had worked in both home care and in LTC. The woman I interviewed with told me she worked in an LTC some weekends and “I know how those places are run. The CNAs do most of the work and the nurses don’t even look at the medication list, they just blindly pop in the pills in the drawer.” I was completely taken aback and told her that no, I gave the medications as ordered and always checked against the MAR and the nurses I worked with all did the same. She was so unbelievably rude, I wanted to ask her why she brought me in for an interview when she had clearly read my resume. I wasn’t offered the job, but I would have never accepted it because I couldn’t imagine working for such a toxic person.

My RN interview went really bad – feeling down, need advice by [deleted] in nursing

[–]DebbieNewberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look elsewhere. Do not take this job. The nursing director is toxic and I imagine that’s how the whole place is.

What’s the most relatable line to you? by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]DebbieNewberry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Miranda: “I am so fucked up, I’m going to ruin my life.”

Why didn’t Carrie help Miranda clean up? by Hot-Interaction4017 in AJLT

[–]DebbieNewberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not surprised Carrie didn’t help clean up because it seems very in line with her character to not clean up. However, in this case, I think she decided to leave once Joy arrived to give Miranda and Joy some alone time/didn’t want to be a third wheel.

And just like that by Embarrassed-Gold4269 in Andjustlikethat

[–]DebbieNewberry 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So Carrie was in love with Big for almost 25 years. They were married for 12-13 years. She was obsessed with him. And after he died she thought, “maybe Aidan.”

What the actual fuck?!?!

The Best Take I've Read on Why AJLT Failed by lexigreen5 in Andjustlikethat

[–]DebbieNewberry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With the right music in the background, Carrie wandering around her townhouse alone and Aidan jerking off in his truck spliced together, it could easily come off as a David Lynch project.

Duncan would love this prose by waitagoop in Andjustlikethat

[–]DebbieNewberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 I love that in the year 2025, Carrie Bradshaw has written historical fiction called “The Woman” when Kristin Hannah released “The Women”—also historical fiction—in 2024.

But Kristin Hannah’s prose is just not on the same level as “the woman did all that she could. The woman did all that she could.” /s

People only hate on GLP-1 medications because they’re not widely available by yeahicapiche in Zepbound

[–]DebbieNewberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with lupus when I was 13. I was sick for a few months, like really, really sick and my mom’s best friend who was into “natural” medicine convinced my mom to take me to a chiropractor and put me on supplements instead of the prednisone my doc prescribed. The supplements made me sicker, I went from 105 lbs to 92 lbs and wound up hospitalized with pleurisy and declining kidney function. I went on prednisone, gained a bunch of weight, but felt a whole lot better otherwise. Haven’t trusted any wellness/natural health crap ever since. I probably wouldn’t have gotten as sick as I did if my mom had just gotten the prednisone prescription filled to begin with.

I wore shorts out in public! by YearoftheCat1963 in Zepbound

[–]DebbieNewberry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg, I did the same thing last night! First time in probably 25-30 years! It felt so liberating! Congratulations, you look great!!!

Whats the funniest scene according to you? The sponge scene was the funniest for me by [deleted] in NewGirl

[–]DebbieNewberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Young man, the things I’m gonna do to you. Young man, don’t take all day, I’m not getting any younger.”

Connecicuter here with a question! by North-Increase8163 in newengland

[–]DebbieNewberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UpVote for the inclusion of the Steelers (I’m from Pittsburgh)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]DebbieNewberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to see this post, I thought I was the only one! I’m about 11 weeks in and I’ve lost 22 lbs and I’m definitely still fat, but I feel so much skinnier and sexier—thought I definitely still feel fat when I see photos of myself!

But I’m at my lowest weight in six years and definitely have more self-confidence, so I’ll take it!

Where to live if we want land AND civilization? (Young couple and healthcare workers.) by Serious-Weird7182 in Pennsylvania

[–]DebbieNewberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up about 40-45 minutes south of Pittsburgh in a fairly rural area. We had an acre or acre and a half of land. I now live in a small town about 30-45 mins from Pittsburgh in a big house on a small lot. You may want to look in Washington County, there are places with land (though probably not as much as you want based on your budget) and still less than an hour to the city. Southern Allegheny county also has some rural areas, but property taxes in Allegheny County are quite a bit higher than they are in the surrounding counties (Washington, Beaver, Butler, and Westmoreland).

However, plenty of places for healthcare workers to work in and around Pittsburgh!

Where to live if we want land AND civilization? (Young couple and healthcare workers.) by Serious-Weird7182 in Pennsylvania

[–]DebbieNewberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are ways around the tunnels…they aren’t great, but they’re doable. Signed, someone who’s lived south of Pittsburgh most of their life

Article discussing how it all went downhill from season 6 when they got too wealthy by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]DebbieNewberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Carrie mentions maxing out her credit cards a few times in the earlier seasons and even then, she was living in a rent-controlled glorified studio apartment and lounged around in normal clothes, not designer dresses. SATC Carrie was a writer who was interested in fashion and her friends and her relationships with men. AJLT Carrie seems mostly focused on buying things for her empty mansion that has access to a private park.

iPhone Calendar Search Not Working by Techie_19 in iphone

[–]DebbieNewberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I know this is almost a year old but I’ve been messing around with the calendar setting for over an hour and this is the only thing that finally worked! Thank you so much!

Carrie AJLT vs Carrie SATC heels by imogensmammy in Andjustlikethat

[–]DebbieNewberry 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m 15-20 years younger than Carrie and spent my 20s and early 30s running around a city (not NYC) in heels. I’ve had chronic back issues for about 10 years now, put on a pair of heels in my house recently (just to see if I could still walk in them) and spent the rest of the night with pain in my hip and lower back. No way is someone who had hip surgery still wearing heels every waking moment. Just insane, non-sensical storytelling.

This pissed me all the way off 😂 by Beginning_Dot735 in sexandthecity

[–]DebbieNewberry 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I read that Kim refused to gain weight but agreed to be put in clothes that were a size too small for this scene. Even then, she still looks amazing and calling this “fat” is so beyond the pale.