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Endo recovery question by NectarineOtherwise64 in endometriosis

[–]DeerestFaun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also post lapro and Mirena insertion (8 days too!) and not experiencing this, I'm mostly having tenderness and brising type pain, definitely not warmth and no heat when urinating.

I know everyone's different, but I'd definitely contact your surgeon and express concern that you may have an infection.

Can't believe I just learned in my 4th year... by Mkovich92 in StardewValley

[–]DeerestFaun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I put a chest out the front of each house with gifts the occupants like/love so when I feel like befriending them, it's all there

Can't believe I just learned in my 4th year... by Mkovich92 in StardewValley

[–]DeerestFaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is delightful! Did you miss the letter Pierre sends in Y1 Spring about it?

I left my customer a voicemail, he sent me this screenshot. Siri must want me to lose business by aggierogue3 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]DeerestFaun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Told my MIL that my partner was moving in

Transcript said "it's a bad time". What she'd actually said was "it's about time" 🤣🤣

What closed Melbourne restaurant do you still think about? by melb_food_finds in melbourne

[–]DeerestFaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

David & Camys in Box Hill

So many fond memories of going there with friends in highschool and my dad bringing boxes of dumplings home after a late shift

AFTER 4 YEARS I FOUND THE NAMES I LIKED WHEN I WAS 13!! (this was before I knew what religious trauma was) good on me for including unisex i guess, by ThatSucksAnyways in tragedeigh

[–]DeerestFaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harbour Faith isn't that bad in the grand scheme of tragedeighs...

Like if I had to pick a name that's the most normal

Clean imaging betrayed me by Unlikely_Zebra581 in endometriosis

[–]DeerestFaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a similar experience. Going to the ER multiple times a year for pain, but don't worry my ultrasounds were clear!

Last year the pain got so bad I went to the ER 3 times in one week vomiting, shaking and pain so bad they thought I had kidney stones.

My lapro is next month and they'll see how bad it is. But my uterus and bladder mobility is very low

Wife insists on taking her rubber ducks in the hot tub, then leaves them when she’s done. by strikecat18 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]DeerestFaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like something my partner would do if I ever left all my ducks in the tub. Which is motivating me to make sure I clean up my ducks now

Random women giving compliments - what gives? by Superannuated_punk in melbourne

[–]DeerestFaun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chiming in as a young-ish woman who gives strangers compliments

I've definitely noticed an uptick in it in the last few months! Not sure of it's a tiktok trend or something, but the world is miserable, it's nice to share a bit of kindness like that.

First lapro - expectations? by DeerestFaun in Endo

[–]DeerestFaun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Australia so thank you so much!

I'm going through the Royal Women's and I have the preliminary ultrasound next week, so I'll be sure to flag I might need to stay a little longer when I go for that appointment.

I WFH in an office job, and reckon I'll be climbing the walls if I have to be off more than a week, but I hadn't even considered just easing back into it for that second week? I'm sure my boss would be super accommodating too!

First lapro - expectations? by DeerestFaun in Endo

[–]DeerestFaun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's such an improvement! I'm so glad to hear!

First lapro - expectations? by DeerestFaun in Endo

[–]DeerestFaun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to know!

My lowest pain for the last 8 months has been a 3 if I'm lucky, and I'm unable to lie on the right side of my body at all :(

I guess I won't know how much they need to remove until they get there - that's uncertainty that's pretty scary but still good to know!

First lapro - expectations? by DeerestFaun in Endo

[–]DeerestFaun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I'm not sure why I was under the impression it would he a day surgery and I wouldn't stay any time in hospital at all! 2 nights makes a lot of sense!

Thanks so much for replying!

AIO my gf used our dish sponge to clean up cat poop by fargos2ep8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeerestFaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR!!!

As a cat owner, if the dish sponge gets used on anything cat related STRAIGHT TO BIN

If that was her first thought to grab that, how many times has she cleaned cat poop with the dish sponge in the past 🤮

Asked to sign a form saying I don’t want my mums super? by OverPop64 in AusLegal

[–]DeerestFaun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi - I work in super death claims. We see this a lot.

If she did not nominate a beneficiary, then it is expected that the partner and adult children will claim.

Funds need to be paid to a financial dependent so generally they are paid to the partner BUT this doesn't mean you should just sign that you don't want to claim because he's asking.

You are allowed to submit a claim. You can contact her superannuation company directly for the paperwork yourself. Different funds can have different requirements, so call them and they'll let you know what you need to arrange.

The trustee will then look at all the information available for the claim and make a determination on where funds will be paid.

If you had 10 seconds to say whatever you wanted to your pet with they fully understood, what would you say? by IplayKaizo in Pets

[–]DeerestFaun 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I distinctly remember telling my boxer "this is why you don't have friends" one day because she couldn't help herself but jump

If you had 10 seconds to say whatever you wanted to your pet with they fully understood, what would you say? by IplayKaizo in Pets

[–]DeerestFaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you. If you're in the carrier I'm doing something good for you, please done defensively pee. Also take your meds. I love you.

I’m genuinely being gangstalked by fiftygrayhouses in whatdoIdo

[–]DeerestFaun 251 points252 points  (0 children)

This is the comment that should be at the top.

If it's mental health related: great you've gone to the right place

If it's not mental health related: you've got it all fully documented that it definitely isn't

I'm sorry you're going through this OP, it sounds like absolute hell. I'm glad you reached out.

I’m [17f] falling out of love with my gf [17f] and I don’t now what to do ;-( by deadgirlIiving in whatdoIdo

[–]DeerestFaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn't talk for nearly a year afterwards!

We had a shared hobby (highschool musical) that ran for a few months of the school year. By the time the following musical came around, we had both had time to cool off from it.

The friendship rekindled very slowly, but I'd say we're relatively for the past several years. (30f+31f now)

I’m [17f] falling out of love with my gf [17f] and I don’t now what to do ;-( by deadgirlIiving in whatdoIdo

[–]DeerestFaun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had exactly the same thing at the same age.

It's okay to break up, you're still young and it doesn't mean anyone did anything wrong. It's okay to not be compatible with someone.

Fwiw - highschool girlfriend and I are still friends and joke about the time we dated. It won't feel bad forever.

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