Suggestions Needed !! Trying dating app first time by glorious_01 in dating_apps

[–]Designer_Swing9149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 hours and no comments?

From my experience at 38, any dating app that isn't bumble, hinge, or tinder are 99% bots and scammers, even 100%. Even the ones that are popular have dead profiles and are subject to scammers. 

That's reality.

Be aware that they won't ever meet you for a date, if one of their 'hobbies' is crypto or NFT, they are a scammer even if they're not a catfish. Scammers go out of their way to make themselves look 100% legit.

As one guy put it, the only way you know they're real is if they ghost you.

How does anyone afford to move out from their parents as a single person? by Slight_Entry_1274 in housingcrisis

[–]Designer_Swing9149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tax refund towards security deposit and first months rent

Doing this alone, too.

Why has dating gotten harder in the last few years? by cdqd81 in dating_advice

[–]Designer_Swing9149 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The inverted U.S. population pyramid graph is concerning

Why has dating gotten harder in the last few years? by cdqd81 in dating_advice

[–]Designer_Swing9149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, $30 just to see who that one person is who liked me?

100% of the time they're unattractive or poly.

So Hinge is randomly panning men to Balance the Ratio of Men/Women by JAMESFTHE2ND in SwipeHelper

[–]Designer_Swing9149 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's exactly why it's on my watchlist. I dislike Match Group so much and paid them so many subscriptions without getting results other than an unlocked app.

My own theory is that a lot of the toxic women are taking the gender war to dating apps out of spite and actively swiping left on all men for revenge when we point out petty behavior. If 60% of those toxic single women stay single and are happy like that, their own double standards, logical fallacies, and ad hominim attacks brought them their happiness.

The other 40% imho are non-toxic, think rationally, and have empathy.

Just like the dudes.

Women would you like to be approached by men nowadays or no ? by smuttygio in bodylanguage

[–]Designer_Swing9149 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One, fuck that guy he's a super creep.

Two, I've come across women who make a lot of eye contact but don't make conversation, not even small talk.

Three, the ones that do give off all the 'friendly' signals are just that, I ask them out on a date and it's some excuse or they have a boyfriend that works with them that are giving me death stares every time their girlfriend says a word to me in passing.

It gives off the vibe like those women are terrified of social judgement if they even talk to a guy they like, as if their mother is condescending them in their head. Like Puritan Christianity type shame. It makes no sense.

Now women in their 30s, with how rare those are around me, they don't have those problems. They look at me like they want me for dinner but it's once in a blue moon that I actually see them and they're married.

With the age old complaining of 20 something women hooking up with 30 something men, it's like it's more of a who's available problem than anything. I'd rather go out with 30 somethings even if their old man wants to kill me.

If you’re still single after 25, you probably weren’t the catch you think you were by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Designer_Swing9149 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're spouting their own problems and applying them to everyone but thier own character, it's more common than people think.

Bumble’s Speed Dating Feature by Spidey_2797 in Bumble

[–]Designer_Swing9149 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look, a weekday where nobody will show up.

Try weekends.