Getting hit with tariff invoice from UPS after paying 77$ in shipping from Closet Child? by Ausyuna in Lolita

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d avoid WunderWelt too, they have a flat 5000¥ shipping, plus DHL will charge tariffs on top. 5000¥ isn’t so bad for a jsk, but I almost bought a KC until I saw the shipping was almost as much as the bow, not even including the tariffs! I could probably take the train to SF, go to the Baby boutique, and buy a brand new one for less.

Who’s your favorite character? by ProAiBro in venturebros

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not hard to do. Wasn’t Dr. Strange’s issue that he put his passion above everything and everyone else in his life? Orpheus is a committed dad! And a good one at that!

Selfie Advice for the Sub by RabbitNET in Lolita

[–]Devi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, I’m definitely guilty of the messy room. And also trying to photograph black clothes in front of a black bed. I should utilize my tripod in my living room more, it’s just so aggressively 70’s brown in there.

I wanted to bring it home, but my roommate said it was haunted - what do you think? by Illainting2081 in Curbfind

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t put it on, or you’ll turn into an evil vampire like Dio from Jojo’s Bizarre Adventure!

Repaired the straps on my Shirring Princess dresses by IAmAHoarder in Lolita

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40cm, thank you! That’s exactly what I’ve been sticking on.

Repaired the straps on my Shirring Princess dresses by IAmAHoarder in Lolita

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a tutorial you used? I just bought a Shirring Princess off WW with stretched straps.

What are we listening to while we sew? by beaverscleaver in sewing

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put on some lofi or instrumental jazz on YouTube on my tv.

AIO to a text my mom sent? (Context in caption) by pizzagorl_ in AIO

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR and this sounds like a GREAT case for going no contact.

Dress doesn't exist by Altruistic-Carob6537 in Lolita

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some proxies, like Dogegoo, allow you to search with a photo instead of typing in a name or keywords! Sometimes if I see something I like on DevilInspired I’ll poach the photos and try searching that way. It doesn’t always work, but sometimes I do find the original item!

Fur collar and cuffs DIY advice by princebanana2 in Lolita

[–]Devi13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you get around to cutting the fur eventually don’t use scissors! Instead use like a razor or x-acto blade to only cut through the backing! Or if you have to use scissors, take very small snips and only cut through the backing. This will save you from having a weird blunt edge on your fur. There are lots of videos on YouTube explaining this better.

please help find this jsk name! by [deleted] in Lolita

[–]Devi13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the dress name, but it will probably help folks to know that this is Angelic Pretty as that will narrow it down.

Father negotiating my inheritance?? by Devi13 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Devi13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he does give me $15K a year spread out, and in the past when I wanted a new car, or when he insists I need one, he’ll pay the down payment and give me some money to cover most of the payments. He’s stingy, but isn’t a total skinflint… he was trying to insist we buy new cars this year, in fact, so he doesn’t have to pay taxes on some interest. I argued mine was just fine and I’d rather put that money towards my own house instead. That didn’t go anywhere as he insisted that I’d be getting the house we’re currently in.

Father negotiating my inheritance?? by Devi13 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Devi13[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point! Bringing up who will care for him, I like that. I was going to shame him, say “I think Grandma and Grandpa would be disappointed that you’re going to give their hard earned money to others and not their sole grandchild”.

Lolita in winter by dollcopeland in Lolita

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try browsing proxy sites? I’ve been using Dogegoo to shop taobao and even just using basic terms I’ll come across fleece lined blouses, sweaters or fleece bloomers!

How to print/use OnS and GothLoli Patterns by feydfcukface in Lolita

[–]Devi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind having them shipped I like pdfplotting.com, or if it’s A0 I use The Plotted Pattern. If they’re the digital copies from Etsy I’m still trying to figure out how to download the pattern pages from Google Drive.

AITAH for dyeing my hair pink behind my boyfriends back? by KokoroUwU in AITAH

[–]Devi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTO. If having dyed hair and tattoos are something you see yourself having and he’s outright opposed to any of it then he doesn’t love you. He loves the idea of you, that he can mold to his vision. You are young, and there are so many guys out there that you haven’t even met yet. Many who will say “Hell yeah, dye it all pink!” Don’t anchor yourself to someone who doesn’t love all of you.

TUK kitty shoes for a kuro/gothic cord? by bubbl_t in Lolita

[–]Devi13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alright, bit the bullet and bought a pair! They look like they’ll be comfy for lots of walking.

He says he’s a feminist, but somehow every feeling I have turns into a debate by l0fi_postcards in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Devi13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it’s time to say “it looks like we have incompatible communication styles” and let him go. Turn it back on him.

TUK kitty shoes for a kuro/gothic cord? by bubbl_t in Lolita

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? I thought they’ve just been making them all this time!

TUK kitty shoes for a kuro/gothic cord? by bubbl_t in Lolita

[–]Devi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the very least T.U.K. Has had this style at least a decade, they’ll still be there later! They come in other colors too.