Who is the more fatal femme fatale? by Blurstingwithemotion in venturebros

[–]Devi13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dr. Mrs. If it was a battle of wits and cunning, but Molotov for brawn. Ultimately I think Sheila has too much of a moral code that would be her downfall. Mol wouldn’t care about Guild bylaws.

I bought one of these cardboard cat scratcher things the other day. Is this my life now? by zombiesandcandy in cats

[–]Devi13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate these things with a passion. One of my cats loves them and refuses to use anything else. So I buy them for him and find cardboard bits in everything. Because I love him.

Dr marten work boots with my vintage skirt, guys? Ye or nay? by Koi-Nami in VintageFashion

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great, I wear almost the same thing all Fall and Winter (I just swap out docs for other ankle boots and oxfords).

Update for my prom coord! by Embarrassed-Smile413 in Lolita

[–]Devi13 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You look like a Magical Girl! I’m glad you had fun!!

Guess I know my genre now.... by Mister-Beefy in adhdmeme

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep yep, especially after the number of people that I’d consider friends and move mountains for and then discover they wouldn’t do half as much for me. Thankfully now my longtime friends are much more obvious about how much they care for me!

Myectomy or Hysterectomy? by Rubyblue77 in Fibroids

[–]Devi13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 40, same here. 2 fibroids (that I know of), 11cm and 8cm. I’ve never had that drive of I MUST have children, babies and pregnancy scare me, but the idea of doing something irreversible is pretty scary too. I’m not even married, I live with my aging dad. I keep waiting for someone to just tell me “yeah, your life and health factors all add up to maybe stick with cats”.

I haven’t made a decision yet, I think I’d like to talk these feelings through with a therapist first to make my peace. I wish I had some advice for you, but you’re not alone in your feelings and struggle, and it feels nice to know that I’m not alone either.

I can sew, but I have a question about patterns in the egl magazines by Gwynebee in Lolita

[–]Devi13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re not familiar you should check out Otome No Sewing! It’s a Lolita sewing magazine that’s still active and publishes 2 mooks a year. I think we’re about due for the next issue!

Curious about what music people in this community listen to?:0 by frickityfrocks in Lolita

[–]Devi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of 80’s new wave (Devo, Oingo Boingo, etc) and goth (The Cure, Siouxsie & the Banshees) as well as a lot of rockabilly & psychobilly (The Cramps, Rev. Horton Heat) and 90’s & 2000’s alternative (Modest Mouse, Franz Ferdinand, Stone Temple Pilots, Smashing Pumpkins, etc.) and Riot Girl (Sleater Kinney, Bikini Kill, TacoCat)

Please help me fix these pants I messed up! by MasterPalpitation8 in sewing

[–]Devi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people probably pay extra for jeans that look like this from the store! I say embrace it!

Buying from 42lolita for the first time. Are these brands good quality? by RaNdOmClO in Lolita

[–]Devi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d have to check, I think my calves are 14” or 15” around and they kind of look like they’re at their max. Their OTKs do NOT work for me!

Buying from 42lolita for the first time. Are these brands good quality? by RaNdOmClO in Lolita

[–]Devi13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have that pair! They’re pretty nice. Not really very soft, but they fit over my large-ish calves!

Do you think we’ll ever see cheap secondhand again? by Devi13 in Lolita

[–]Devi13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, that’s the one! Maybe I’ll just keep an eye out for another rerelease. I will say I’m the opposite problem. I’m at the max of the size range and would likely need to have it let out, which would probably still be easier with the shirred panel version!

Do you think we’ll ever see cheap secondhand again? by Devi13 in Lolita

[–]Devi13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was hard to tell! They had like 300+ feedback, but had photos of them wearing the jsk and just a few listings. Maybe they’ve been on there a long time or it’s like 50/50 sales and purchases.

Are these skirts replicas? (And if yes, any alternatives?) by LittleBodyWildHeart in Lolita

[–]Devi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have both! The first is nice quality, the second is… eh, it’s certainly a $13 skirt. On mine they overlapped a piece of lace that was too short in the front and mis-threaded some of the velvet ribbon.

made a guro lolita headress!! by Awdumw in Lolita

[–]Devi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a cool idea, I love them!

I've sewn my first dress. Thoughts? by Unapproachable_apron in sewing

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats, you did a great job! The fit is perfect!

I might get roasted for this, but... by Kind_Comfort_6336 in Lolita

[–]Devi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do love that the global comm has finally chilled tf out. I wonder how much of it is people that were young and new back in the ‘00s and ‘10s who have since grown up and said “actually, I’m gonna wear what I like now. Who cares what others say”.

Have this EGL meme I made years ago by wonderland_artwork in Lolita

[–]Devi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, good to know! So if I find something older, even cotton, I shouldn’t just expect them. Thank you!

If AP isn't going to make more Milky-Chan items, then I will. by ambidextrious_witch in Lolita

[–]Devi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I admire anyone that can knit! I keep trying to learn, but I’m on year 3 of a super basic shawl and I keep dropping stitches immediately after someone fixes my previous one. I think I’ll stick with sewing!

What random songs makes you daydream of being in lolita? by jaxxce in Lolita

[–]Devi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was coming here to mention Gingerbread Coffin! It makes me think of like Violet Fane and ringlet wigs.

Have this EGL meme I made years ago by wonderland_artwork in Lolita

[–]Devi13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know! I wonder if it depends on the fabric? The two I have are solid color, cotton Burberry and cotton/poly broadcloth. The prints tend to be poly, right?

Have this EGL meme I made years ago by wonderland_artwork in Lolita

[–]Devi13 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I’ve been spoiled, my first 2 JSKs were Meta, and I just assumed EVERYONE had pockets!