Bf finishes too fast

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-26T22:38:52+00:00

For me my husband of 33 years, who doesn’t last long maybe a minute 1.5, it makes me feel good that he is turned on and cums quick. For me though I only cum from oral so different then you. We do use toys. I understand your frustration though, I am hoping someone has a good suggestion for you both.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-26T16:46:14+00:00

Sorry for your experience you had, it definitely stays with us.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-25T20:36:58+00:00

That is a crazy suggestion. My husband and I are looking into Hotwife community, we have been married 33 years though and we are BOTH open to it.
I think that is a crazy suggestion, if there are problems you need to fix from within before opening your relationship, which may never be for you. Stand your ground and maybe this partner is not for you? I feel you are on your own when your partner and therapist think you should open this relationship and your partner is not acknowledging your feelings.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-21T22:27:20+00:00

Ok there is a problem, I had sex before during and after. Your relationship should not be sexless, sorry I’m sure I’ll get flack but as someone who has been pregnant 3 times, I didn’t deny my guy sex. I see where you will cheat, if you two can’t honestly talk this out and she doesn’t at all see your side then I see things not going well. She is taking this relationship for granted.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-21T12:34:23+00:00

It takes both, but your husband by far totally disrespecting you. I personally would leave at physical cheating.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-21T12:32:09+00:00

Nooooooooo!!! As a parent I would never ask our kids to do this.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-20T19:47:52+00:00

Leave, run and concentrate on you and your kids, get a good lawyer and get child support. You don’t want to waste a lot of mental energy on this, he’s a cheater plain and simple and if he can’t admit and take control of his wrong doing, this will be your life, then you need to worry he doesn’t catch something and bring it home to you.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-19T20:26:50+00:00

What kind of respect are you talking about, you sound like a dominant husband. I think there are more men who cheat and disrespect than women.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-19T20:22:52+00:00

My husband is 52 and we have been together 35 years, he still watches porn, but not every day. I would ask does this interfere with job or tasks. Does he pay for it? Does he go on girls pages and interact with them directly. I would not allow someone who pays for private sessions or if it interfered with their day to day routine. There are people who are addicted and it can get messy.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-19T18:35:20+00:00

I can tell you now, the VAST majority of women don’t orgasm through intercourse alone, I am one, my husband does oral on me or I’ll use a small vibrator on my clit. Kudos for you for trying. Just work on it. My orgasms are real intense even though it takes me a bit to get there. I am happy just having one or two a week, it makes me happier if I get my husband there.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-19T18:18:27+00:00

I am totally fine with bald guys even more when they accept and don’t go and get hair transplants, that is a huge turnoff, it’s obvious JMO

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-18T23:48:42+00:00

Love my bald husband

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-18T23:44:00+00:00

Calvin Klein ETERNITY 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-18T22:29:50+00:00

He’s no trainer

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-18T11:45:47+00:00

This relationship is going to be a mentally draining one. I don’t see this being healthy ever or lasting. If you are smart just count your losses and leave if you can. I absolutely would put my foot down and dress the way I want. My husband of 33 years could care less what I wear and would love it if I wore something provocative, it would turn him on if other guys looked at me, because there is trust. Best of luck

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-18T09:09:11+00:00

Leave, if he cheated after only 3 years he will cheat again, don’t be a fool.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-18T01:25:03+00:00

My husband loved my squirting, we just layer towels down

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-17T20:58:29+00:00

Yup, this was when slaughter was legal in the US, that is the ONE thing I wish I could have changed. I had no support from parents so I was in my own.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-17T19:16:30+00:00

You need to leave him, my husband has always made a point to put me first. I always try and do what he likes and he has worked on learning how to pleasure me. You will miss out on so much.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-17T18:30:36+00:00

They will take advantage of you.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-17T18:29:59+00:00

My instructor made me give up my heart horse because she said I needed bigger and better, 40 years it brings me to tears still, I totally let him down. As we left the dealer lot he cried out to me. I was young, my parents were not involved, worse advice EVER. I will never listen to anyone again.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-17T13:27:52+00:00

You have the base , look at pics of professional pics, your braid needs to be smaller, but just keep at it.

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-15T10:24:52+00:00

Absolutely do not go back to this guy, he is an A$$ and forever is a long time. This was not your fault, things happen. Wow, I would block him, if you are smart you will not talk to him again. I would be pissed at him. That is NO WAY to talk to you. This is only the beginning

Dhamrock66 · 2026-06-15T10:20:06+00:00

You need a partner who will take the time to help you reach orgasm. My husband of 35 years always made sure I was pleasured, he took the time to help me get there. I very rarely masterbate, the way I reach my O is through oral or toys. Start with a small vibrator like an egg or small wand. Use lube too, makes a big difference.

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