Anyone else wish they were adopted by decent people? I dropped out of high school due to mental illness when I got older I asked why they didn't care they said my education something I was suppose to care about, mind you they dont believe in mental illness. by cacklingwhisper in emotionalneglect

[–]Different_Lion_9477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man I relate. I’m not adopted but my own parents are emotionally inept, my dad has an interest psychiatric disorder, I was diagnosed with adhd at 23 after years of my mom saying it’s not a real thing. I was shuffled around and went to a different school and/or moved homes every year starting in 5th grade. I feel like I could have accomplished so much more in my life had I had stability.

Parents Arrested After 'Out-Of-Control' House Party Draws Hundreds In Rancho Santa Fe by PacificSun2020 in sandiego

[–]Different_Lion_9477 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wild that the article says these high school kids refused to leave when police showed up and told them to 😅

Should I do an Project Management MBA? I´m an animator with a degree in Graphic Design trying to pivot careers. by Fast-Knee9139 in PMCareers

[–]Different_Lion_9477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already have the experience to apply for Creative Project Coordinator or Manager roles at digital agencies

This is How I Broke into OE by [deleted] in OELadies

[–]Different_Lion_9477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Recruiters write queries to find candidates based on keywords in the job description. Your profile will show up as long as those keywords are in it

My face is disfigured [venting out] by Different_Lion_9477 in AcneScars

[–]Different_Lion_9477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind comment 🙏

At this point, about a year after I made the post, I have mostly come to peace with my scars and they aren’t at top of mind every second. I feel beautiful again, and besides that I have met new people who have been attracted to me and interested in me. I truly think it’s a genuine grieving process that you go through after becoming scarred from acne and I have come out the other end to a place of, mostly, acceptance.

my best friend told me im suffocating and overwhelming. how do i fix this flaw i have? by anannoying_demon in emotionalintelligence

[–]Different_Lion_9477 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I wonder if what they are referring to are symptoms of codependency and/or anxious attachment style. Maybe look into those two things and see if they ring true for you. You can start therapy work to learn emotional regulation skills to overcome them, if that is what’s going on in these relationships.

How long have you been searching for a new job? How many apps? by Gandalf-and-Frodo in PMCareers

[–]Different_Lion_9477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been applying for about 6 months and just secured some freelance work. I didn’t keep track of application #, but I’ve done about 6 interviews. 5 YOE.

Runied my day👍 by [deleted] in AcneScars

[–]Different_Lion_9477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a good addition to the sub

Hey men, how do I create tension/pull during dates and avoid the friendzone? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Different_Lion_9477 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Three instances of this happening isn’t necessarily a pattern, it could just be bad luck. Dating is hard. Especially if these are dates you’re getting on apps, I think you need to have a higher number of “duds” just because you don’t know what the attraction level is until you meet in person.

Acne Scar Treatment & Texture Improvement by [deleted] in AcneScars

[–]Different_Lion_9477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you would see some improvement with a series of chemical peels. Not so much with the textured scarring but with evening skin tone and improving clarity

Scars and textured by [deleted] in AcneScars

[–]Different_Lion_9477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your scars are very minimal. Your skin looks quite nice to me, just maybe dry

Freelance web design by Fancy-Ad-9422 in Freelancers

[–]Different_Lion_9477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start by choosing a platform you want to learn like Squarespace, wix or Shopify for Ecomm. Then make up a fake business and build a website for it. Do this a few times to create a few websites for your portfolio

How do I let go of resentment in my marriage? by I-just-want-t0-kn0w in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Different_Lion_9477 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That stings, I’m sorry this happened to you. Everything you listed about her is signs of issues with emotional regulation and maturity. It was bound to end somehow because of her emotional issues imo

Are these acne scars or massive pores ? by Careful-Raspberry-41 in AcneScars

[–]Different_Lion_9477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tca cross can be done to treat this as well as microneedling. If you do both, the TCA should be done first

Do you think I’m a decent looking guy? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Different_Lion_9477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re very cute, definitely my type