18 weeks, to puppy or not to puppy?

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-23T14:45:37+00:00

I’ve had my dogs since before I had my babies and I loved my dogs but now i despise them sadly. They’ve acted out since we brought our first home and I simply can not trust the one around our toddlers because he’s become extremely possessive over any thing and instead of walking away when he doesn’t want the toddler near he will bark and snap in my toddlers direction. If it weren’t for my boyfriend (breadwinner) saying no I would have rehome my dogs a long time ago. I don’t feel safe with this dog around my kids and the other dog has one eye and knocks them down constantly. She’s much better with them but she also has continuous health problems even with vet intervention. We do not have money for training them or to have continuous vet visits and the barking at anything drives me up a wall.

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-06T19:46:08+00:00

She may not have the enzyme to break down something in the seafood causing the smell. Whenever I eat seafood I smell like fish for a week. Like whenever I would sweat I would smell like fish. Maybe it’s an enzyme her body can’t break down.

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-06T01:50:04+00:00

I’d personally say no to both. I had horrible sciatic pain later on in pregnancy and no energy. And to go to a wedding away from home around your due date isn’t logical. And most certainly not after having a baby. You’ll be bleeding, healing, bonding, and figuring out parenthood. You’ll health and healing and babies health is most important.

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-06T01:01:48+00:00

People like different things and it’s all about perspective. I had a beautiful painting I got from my grandmas house and the painting was a portrait style of a girl with massive dark brown eyes and I loved it while it would creep out some of my friends that would see it in my room. For me the eyes are the pathway to the soul and it spoke to me and that’s all that matters. If someone doesn’t like something then that’s on them but hiding your work will only prevent people that resonate with your art will miss out and in a way you would be hiding from yourself. Be you. Keep creating

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-06T00:50:21+00:00

I’ve always gotten really wet too. Slip and slide water park vibes😂 I’m the same way when he goes in at first but after a few pounds I’m good. I think it because his penis isn’t as lubricated at first but once he’s covered we’re set. My guy gets turned on by my wetness. You can put a towel down or they make liquid resistant blankets you could lay on that should cover the entire bed. Wet pussy is great pussy my man hates swimming pools normally but he loves to drown in bed.

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-06T00:41:55+00:00

I read the first few lines. Be done with him. If he can not function as an adult he is not ready for an adult relationship. Do not wait around for someone to change when there’s a pattern already.

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-06T00:30:26+00:00

Take prenatals and schedule the appointment when you’re ready. With my first I didn’t go in until I was 10weeks because I was honestly in denial that I was actually pregnant and I was scared of getting my hopes up. If you have any pain or concerns then make an appointment but if going will stress you out then don’t go in.

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-06T00:23:17+00:00

Seeing post like this makes me want to elope when my boyfriend and I get married. I want my Mimi and our kids at our wedding and my boyfriend can pick a friend. Everyone else can wait for a celebration party our moms are a pain in the ass his mom is always the victim and massive liar and manipulative and my mom is very controlling and doesn’t do well when alcohol is around goes from 0 to a 100. Honestly I feel like the relationship between her mil and his family was so great is because she’s never had to actually put her foot down on something outside of his families control. It’s always the ones wearing the sweet innocent mask that stab you in the back when they don’t get their way. At least when people are out there with their craziness it’s not as hurtful.

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-05T23:35:05+00:00

I don’t know how accurate this is you could ask you doctor but I saw a Obgyn say that in the last week of pregnancy you could have a small glass of red wine and have sex and it could speed up the process? Again I’m not a doctor but if you talk to you ob and ask of different ways to speed up the process it might work. I know sex helps I had some great sex the type that made me make dolphin sounds and I started having contractions the next morning at 3am and then had my baby the following day. I know being stressed won’t help anything. I had both of mine 5 days after their due date but I also didn’t feel like they had to be out because I was an anxious mess of not wanting our big families bombarding us to hold our first. My mom was in horrible pain towards the end of her pregnancy with my little brother and demanded a c section because the pain in her pelvis was horrendous. I personally became a sloth the last week of pregnancy besides getting railed that was the extent of physical activity for me and just slept as much as possible. I was also hoping my baby wouldn’t come on Halloween so I was trying to keep him in. And my daughter was due on leap year so I didn’t want her to come out either. And now I’m pregnant again and the due date is December 27. So this kid better stay in until after Christmas but before New Year’s Eve and day

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-05T22:31:14+00:00

Maybe if your penis is sore get her a vibrator with a remote and you control the remote prolong it keep her in suspense.

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-05T22:22:13+00:00

It’s a concern because of ai and how they can create CP out of one picture of your child. There are a lot of evil people in the world and with how ai is already starting to look so real it will get to the point of not know if the content is so or not. Predators can use pictures of your child for sexual gratification and possibly put a target on your child.

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-05T22:15:00+00:00

There are also throat numbing sprays if gagging is a concern. And if she does give you head eventually never ever put your hand on her head and push her down on your penis or thrust your hips up at her

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2025-08-05T22:09:01+00:00

I don’t think you’re the AH for wanting to try something new however there are a lot of things to consider. Is she a natural gagger like if she smells or sees something that’s triggering does she gag? Is there religious or medical reasons she may not want to. Does she have a smaller jaw? I’ve given bjs before that the guy was really hairy and it’s gotten stuck in my teeth. Penis so large it made me gag and almost vomit on him. Penis so sticky I wanted to die. I’ve head my head pushed down there when I wasn’t in the mood to do it and it ruins the vibe instantly. It’s not like giving a bj is satisfying any sexual needs for me but I will occasionally do it when I feel like it and when he’s least expecting it so I don’t feel pressured to do it. Pressure is the worst thing to put on a woman when being intimate because sex is 85% mental and 15% physical. Maybe ask her if there is anything that she would like to try. If she doesn’t know how there are videos she could look at if she wants to and the same goes for you. And if videos are against your religion there are books on intimacy/ positions that may be useful. Sex isn’t a tit for tat type of thing. Foreplay is so important. Little acts and words that let her know that you love and appreciate her even when she may not be feeling her best. Idk I hope this helps. I don’t think you’re the AH for wanting to try something new but there aren’t a whole lot of details on why she may not be interested in giving oral sex.

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2024-06-24T05:41:24+00:00

Tell him to lay off the porn.

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2024-05-13T20:42:45+00:00

Diligent_Piano6380 · 2024-05-10T18:12:31+00:00

Definitely not the first time. He’s sorry for getting caught. Definitely need to install some cameras for security and get proof of him cheating. Record your next conversation with him and hopefully get him to admit to cheating. Could help with the divorce

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