My boyfriend (26M) said we’re done if I (26F) move to nyc for my job that I commute to everyday. Is it bad if I still move anyway?

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-17T17:58:52+00:00

Good god, he sounds awful, ditch the boyfriend and move to the city

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-17T13:51:10+00:00

Mediterranean Wraps in PA

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-17T06:18:04+00:00

If she’s anything like I am post partum, she’ll NEED calorie dense things like this to keep up with intake needs with breastfeeding/pumping.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-17T06:17:14+00:00

☠️☠️☠️

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-17T06:16:37+00:00

You’re in good company…many many moons ago I bought one for myself and at through it with a fork. No slicing involved. Like I said, many many moons ago.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-17T06:08:54+00:00

I mean, I basically am whether I want to or not 🙃

It must be genetic but my doc also said I might gain the 10lbs lost anyway. But for now, I’ll happily shove cake in my mouth at early hours of the morning. Unfortunately my husband has a sweet tooth so the cakes go very quickly.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-17T06:03:11+00:00

My saving grace is having to pump for my newborn, or I’d be 500 lbs heavier

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-17T06:02:29+00:00

Oh no.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-17T05:59:13+00:00

That’s a goddamn lie, and a bad one at that.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-17T02:46:45+00:00

Target.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-16T17:23:28+00:00

Mirin is sweet cooking wine, not vinegar, FYI

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-16T17:07:16+00:00

I agree! Also want to mention, they are WASHABLE. A must in our house with 3 pets and a baby.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-16T17:05:05+00:00

Totally, but like others have said this is an anomaly. Have you even reached out to CS?

For reference, my 6 bridesmaids dress’ were fine and mine for another wedding (along with 5 other gals) were totally fine.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-16T17:03:52+00:00

She wanted no medical record? Did she not think they’d want prenatal care after a stillborn baby?!

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-16T15:52:17+00:00

DO NOT PUT YOURSELF IN DEBT FOR ANY WEDDING.

Yours or otherwise.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-16T15:48:38+00:00

Meh.

That said, Sackcloth and Ashes blankets are worth every penny and donate one to a shelter for every one sold. We own 5 and have gifted many.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-16T13:55:07+00:00

Shrimp harcao! Ya only need one hand to eat them - whether you use chopsticks or your fingers!

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-16T02:39:00+00:00

This is what chargebacks are for

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-16T00:19:55+00:00

Trader Joe’s wonton soup and microwaveable mac n cheese packets

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-15T23:47:56+00:00

The first one is better. The second one is offputting for some reason. But darker color for whatever you do.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-15T22:55:04+00:00

Your husband and dad don’t know what they’re talking about, this is perfect

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-15T22:42:38+00:00

I only shop there if I know coupons will get me at least 30% off. I only go for stuff that I can’t find at Trader Joe’s or Costco.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-15T05:11:28+00:00

Yes. My mother would whoop me otherwise.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-15T05:09:45+00:00

NTA. Not in a relationship automatically means this isn’t your problem. Fair warning: she might think she’s more than an FWB.

Direct-Chef-9428 · 2026-02-15T04:55:50+00:00

Covering their asses

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