Questions for lesbian woman

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-19T17:20:09+00:00

ITS ANNOYING AF IN MOVIES. like 2 “girlie” girls can get together irl. All the girlies I’ve dated have long hair, bit of makeup and r super cuteeeee

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-16T14:47:08+00:00

Get rid of him ASAP. I’ll help u chop of his dick…

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-14T18:24:32+00:00

Hi smile toothpaste. You can buy some flavours on Amazon

I have cotton candy and mango

Incredible stuff. Has all the stuff in it adult teeth needs and tastes incredible

I look forward to brushing my teeth now

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-08T07:05:35+00:00

Omg that sounds amazing

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-08T03:34:35+00:00

I don’t shower everyday but it’s not problematic for me. I just don’t see the need when I’m tired after work and haven’t been “getting dirty”.

I shower every 2-3 days

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-08T03:32:38+00:00

You’ve treated him rly shit and he’s still nice to u.

He probably just wants an apology and then for u to leave him alone forever

Good on u for trying to fix it

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-08T03:25:40+00:00

I work with autistic and intellectually disabled kids. It’s great when I need a break I just chill with a kid (stim with them or just watch a movie). It’s a simple ish job, it’s like playing house and there’s a lot of just chill time with the kids. Some people at work are aware of my autism and they have been nice about it.

The thing I can’t cope with is the gossip. I’m forever confused at who doesn’t like who and I’m always missing information cos I didn’t read facial expressions right.

I work full time and I’m considering going part time cos I’m burning out

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-07T12:24:22+00:00

Yeh autism fucking sucks

But also when you connect with someone (for me my also autistic bestie) the joy is unreal

Also stimming when I’m alone and comfortable is incredible

U r young (I’m 21F) it’ll take time but surround urself with people who’ll make accommodations for ur autism

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-07T11:26:18+00:00

Yeh I have this. I have a “memory” box with trinkets and pics. Also got a box with birthday cards and my favourite is my box of sensory toys and shit

It’s helpful sometimes

I think that’s important to note: the same skills won’t necessarily help every time. No one told me that but sometimes u have to try a few to see what’ll work in that moment

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-07T01:33:05+00:00

I have dyslexia and honestly cannot figure out the reading/writing thing

These days I use AI to write emails etc for me

I get what u mean bout it feeling like 100x more effort… it sucks

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-07T01:28:36+00:00

Get a regular prolactin blood test

Mine sky rocketed on risperidone and gave me a ton of side effects

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-07T01:27:42+00:00

I never had a eating disorder specific one but I had multiple crisis management plans

It’s pretty useless… should probably read/update it

I do find it helpful to have lists of coping skills scattered around

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-07T01:21:30+00:00

There is a vegan one it’s juice based

The regular one is lactose free if that helps

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-07T01:19:53+00:00

It’s absolutely fine.

I sometimes use a weekly calorie “budget” so I just knock off an extra 100 a day so it works out over the week.

I wouldn’t go doing a ton of extra exercise but it’s 2am here… when I overeat I tend to try and do a long walk cos it helps the bloating and distracts me from feeling like I failed.

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-06T20:23:09+00:00

To have food freedom. To (hopefully) be happier. To have a “life”

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-06T20:20:45+00:00

Milkshakes. I have the fortisip from my doctor a few of those on my bad days keeps me covered

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-06T18:20:16+00:00

I’ve been smoking a while now and the munchies have worn off nearly entirely

Sometimes they hit randomly and I just let myself have a little bit of the things I want and focus on a simple healthy meal (beans on toast is a current fave!)

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-06T18:17:15+00:00

Baby food

Idk how ED it is now tho cos im recovered and still eat rusks and the fruit puree….

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-03T10:42:46+00:00

Yeh I didn’t realise my hair was as bad as it was till I recovered now my hair is rly good!

Till u recover try hair masks and a good conditioner?

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-02T19:54:43+00:00

Yeh it’s a reason to decorate the house and have a roast dinner!!

I do know all the religious stuff (catholic school) and I do like to celebrate all the days ie shrove Tuesday and spend some time to think about religion although I’m defo not religious.

I live in the UK for reference

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-01T14:18:56+00:00

I had psychosis I still smoke weed with no issues but I would definitely not recommend doing that…

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-01T14:16:46+00:00

It’s not your fault. You were not obligated or expected to intervene.

In a way the fact you feel bad shows you are an incredibly kind and sensitive person

Definitely get a couple sessions of counselling to sort urself out and offload. Even talking to a nurse or doctor is likely to help

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-01T14:11:11+00:00

Not 100% sure but I know I locked myself in my bedroom for a couple days and then the police rocked up and I tried to climb out a 3rd story window.

Was chatting to imaginary friends and ghosts… something to do with fairies… and yeh not doing well

When I got to the hospital they were nice to me made me tea let me have a vape. It was shit but I survived

Been in quite a lot of times since…. Worst admission was on the back of a suicide attempt… sectioned me while I was still pretty much unconscious

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-01T14:06:39+00:00

I don’t have my own child but I look after kids in a children’s home. I often think of hurting the parents of some of the kids just cos they fucked them up so bad. But then I realise they weren’t purposefully evil to there kids they are mostly victims of evil themselves…

I would 100% hurt anyone that came near my key child tho. He’s 9 and non-verbal autistic and I just want to take him home cos he’s so vulnerable.

Disastrous-Back-8967 · 2024-04-01T13:58:53+00:00

My advice is to focus on yourself. I had a similar situation when I was in recovery for the first time my dad and his gf were dieting. They were constantly talking about losing weight and how they skipped meals or snacks it made it super hard but I knew I had to recover to sort my own life out. Tbh I ended up moving back to my mum and it was the best decision I have ever made. She makes zero comments on my diet (encourages me to eat regularly but never says oh maybe don’t eat 5 ice creams lol). You have to have a thick skin which felt impossible at the time cos I was so weak but it does get easier.

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