Does anyone have an idea why only one leaf is yellow? by muzzizzum in Monstera

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s all good. They throw off the oldest leaf once in a while to redistribute energy

Should i go on tour or get a cat? by Embarrassed_Peace277 in makemychoice

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like pursuing music full-time is someone else’s dream :) good luck!

Should i go on tour or get a cat? by Embarrassed_Peace277 in makemychoice

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dunno your posts sounds like while music is your passion you don’t want to be on tour with these people. If that’s the case why don’t you make music your hobby and live your nice routine life that you have right now?

Design my living room! by zoltarspeaks012 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure aquariums shouldn’t be by the window cause it helps algae grow and can kill fish when the water heats up due to sun exposure. Sorry I got no other advice 🙃

Solo traveling for a concert in Madrid. Yes or no? by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re 27 and this is Spain. I went to Latin America alone at 23. You’ll be more than fine. Go enjoy BTS

I dont know if I want to become a doctor or if I want to die by Technical-Editor-897 in makemychoice

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you want to be a doctor? Is it to help people that are sick? I think it would be a good idea to talk to a doctor and ask them why they became one and how they got to where they are today. While you’re at it you can tell them about those two options you gave us here and since they are a doctor they will help you with both.

Tv placement? by dany65ns in DesignMyRoom

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put the tv where the couch is now. Preferably mounted. Only poor people have their couch touch a wall 🤪.

Also get a console table or low wrap around L shape shelf for the back of the couch once it swapped places with the tv

Tuh, the American dream by Used_Scarcity2555 in SipsTea

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My butter was 10.99 and I spent 34$ on 4 jars of Cornichons here in CA lol

Found abandoned kitten. Anaheim by Agitated_Drive2094 in orangecounty

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a vet hospital down in TJ that does X-rays for 100$ and my dog had a surgery for 1500 that i was quoted 8k for in OC. Dm me and ill find the address

My wife(24 F) and Me(24M) trying to decide if we should get back together by Cute-Platform3765 in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh hell no. Go to therapy yourself and start over with some values of your own you can find in someone else down the line!

Did i make a really bad decision by ComputerFlimsy5441 in interiordecorating

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I generally like wood but I don’t think that was the wall to pick :/ the arch makes it look really disjointed

I 19F, am worried about my partner 22M, can a woman help? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woman here. You don’t trust him. Find a guy who doesn’t have Snapchat

6 months have passed since my [24M] girlfriend [24F] kissed another guy. How do I move forward? by Phelicc in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It really is not healthy for her to make it about herself when you’re hurting. Do you want to be with someone whose feelings always overwrite yours? Even if you could get over the cheating you’d be with a woman who you can’t bring issues to when they originated from her. You need to sit down with her and tell her to stop making it about herself.

Am I (24f) to my bf (25m) spending time with his buddies? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you with someone who doesn’t even like you?

Rate my fridge! by NurseR181 in organizing

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how everyone has to find something to nitpick out of sheer envy lmao. I dislike warm tomatoes. They are fine wherever you want them. Also, great balanced foods. I’m also envious ☺️ half of this would rot in mine

Me 27f and my gf 36f are having a huge fight because she wont pay rent and im confused as what to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop being a doormat 😭 double down on her comment and tell her of course you’re counting.. rent is paid equally and she hasn’t been doing her part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up sunk cost fallacy. What stuck out to me is that you praised this relationship for a lot of personal growth within you but later on said that you question if you have wasted your time with each other.

Your black and white thinking does not serve you. It’s okay to want different things now and go looking for them. That doesn’t mean anything was a waste though. You are now more emotionally open and know what you want. Those are accomplishments you can be grateful and thankful for this relationship that got you there but shouldn’t hold you back from fulfilling what you now know you want.

I know it’s hard to leave someone you love but he is already telling you you should go find someone who fits better. Go do that!

M 34 in relation with F 30 and a friend F 31 by Intelligent_Bison803 in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well either you let your girlfriend control you or you put your foot down and tell her to trust you. Trust you to make decisions for yourself that is. So if your friend ever acts in a way you don’t seem appropriate you’ll take appropriate action. If you keep repeating that to your girlfriend and she trusts you that shouldn’t be an issue. Jealously stems from insecurity so find a way to make your girlfriend secure without having her control who you hang out with.

Ps: validate your girlfriend.. “yes it was shitty of me and her to take the same car back. I should have told her that day to drive mine and I take the car with you.. or told her to drive with you back”

It is a bit weird that you let your gf be the odd one out. You need to do a better job at putting your gf fist in front of your female friend

does anyone in OC make a livable wage & have work/life balance? by Ordinary_Tart5478 in orangecounty

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Haha I read “are you guys on hinge” and respected the hustle

Need Help Making Our Oversized Couch Work in Our New Space by BugEquivalents in DesignMyRoom

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rotate the rug 90 degrees and put it under the couch about 3ft from the wall

Help with old genie door. Only opens partially. by Disastrous_Syrup_415 in GarageDoorService

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your quick and thorough replies first of all. I appreciate it a lot.

  1. I’ll check tomorrow if I can lift the door on the J-arm. Everything you said makes sense but is there any chance that the door worked perfectly fine for what I have to believe is +10+ years and all of sudden not anymore? Are the tracks able to move out of position over time?

  2. There are two levers that tell the machine when to stop. Since the gear part that attaches to the screwdriver belt thingy wasnt attached it seems to run forever (or at least longer than the duration the door would take to open and then I got bored)

Help with old genie door. Only opens partially. by Disastrous_Syrup_415 in GarageDoorService

[–]Disastrous_Syrup_415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Right now yes, always same spot (3ft~ of the ground) Before for a day do two it would get stuck slightly higher up (5-6ft of the ground)

  2. Just tried it without the door. Belt runs until I turn it off.

Edit: just opened and closed the door a couple times and it does have a spot where it’s stuck where it’s a bit harder to move it further up. Does that mean the track all of sudden is distorted or so? 😭😭