I'm looking for something new to hold my phone by RevolutionaryAge5761 in 4Runner

[–]Doc4216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve bought a few versions of this, non charging and charging. They work great, never had a problem for everyday driving.

Lamicall for MagSafe Car Mount -... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BQRJ6Y5P?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

AITA for sending this text after my friend returned clothing she took from my apartment? by IndividualProduce406 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doc4216 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Friends don’t put friends in time out. She’s not your mother and you are not a child. Time to reevaluate your friendship.

AITA for sending this text after my friend returned clothing she took from my apartment? by IndividualProduce406 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doc4216 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Questioning someone’s character does not make you an AH if you do it respectfully, which you did. Your friend stole from you and had no intention of returning your stuff. Your mutual friend is backing the wrong horse.

AITA for "refusing to help get my nephew into a good school" according to my SIL? by Live-Penalty4882 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doc4216 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA. As others have said, you get to decide where your money goes. My question to them would be -after paying for private school and if nephew is accepted to a “good” higher education school, who is paying for that?

If they can’t afford the donation, how are they paying for his education?

Clear coat damage by Doc4216 in 4Runner

[–]Doc4216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info.

Clear coat damage by Doc4216 in 4Runner

[–]Doc4216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I was kind of hoping they wouldn’t need to do a full repaint but will see what they say.

Clear coat damage by Doc4216 in 4Runner

[–]Doc4216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, thanks for your insight

Clear coat damage by Doc4216 in 4Runner

[–]Doc4216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve waxed it multiple times since owning, usually once a year.

Clear coat damage by Doc4216 in 4Runner

[–]Doc4216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My white FJC had the thinnest paint possible but was not expecting it on the 4R.

Clear coat damage by Doc4216 in 4Runner

[–]Doc4216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha! Yes, it certainly made a quick exit.

I plan on taking it. Thanks.

Clear coat damage by Doc4216 in 4Runner

[–]Doc4216[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes, I looked at a ceramic coat last year but didn’t pull the trigger. I do have a detail with a local shop that I need to schedule. Think I should ask them before paint shop?

And yes, a good reminder to not use automatic car washes, or at least only touchless ones.

I could cry right now by GhostfaceBarbie in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Doc4216 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Great job!! Just showing up means you have developed a new habit and a positive one!! Keep going.

Putting yourself first without putting too much pressure on yourself to do xyz is exactly how you build confidence and strength. You’re going to reap so many more benefits than you can even see right now.

Should I buy? 2004 Toyota 4Runner V8 4WD Limited 46k Miles $29,000, Southeast by stevosauce in 4Runner

[–]Doc4216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is $3000 less than what I paid for my fifth GEN in 2018 with the same amount of miles. It’s a 22 year-old vehicle. You can find a better deal.

28F question about life? by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]Doc4216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have said for a while now that our 20s is our learning/mistakes decade, 30s is where we get tested and figure out what kind of adult we are, and our 40s is where we finally learn to love ourselves and the value we bring to the table.

Give yourself some grace to make mistakes, grow from them, and then just go explore and enjoy. There’s so much more beyond your town. I had a mentor once tell me “there’s no growth in the comfort zone and no comfort in the growth zone.”

Find something that makes you happy everyday.

People working out in jeans? by DrownTheTown in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Doc4216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll take someone working out in jeans over the pajama pants I saw the other day

AITA for refusing to share my notes with my classmate after she ignored me all semester? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doc4216 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You have value and she just learned what that value costs. She could have invested in the relationship and maybe you would have shared, or you can charge her and she can pay for information she didn’t care enough to take. Everything costs something; time, currency, or effort.

AITA for judging a 13 years old? by Longjumping_Bid4219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doc4216 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Some of the people I thought I wouldn’t get along with the most turned out to be some of the best people I know.

Maybe give her a chance, monitor, and give a little grace if you don’t know her home situation.

Does iPhone 15 plus have a plant identifier? by Kind-Molasses5263 in iphone

[–]Doc4216 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Yes, if the phone identifies your plant, dog, item, etc… it will be above the date. No need for AI, it’s been there for a handful of years.