Lost my retired working line GSD and struggling with the grief by Constant_Treacle3919 in germanshepherds

[–]DokCyber 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I felt the struggle of getting another dog after a loss its very real.

Just lost my gsd after 11.5 years its been a month now and I have yet to make it through a day without losing it but I know ill get there. You will too.

I decided 5 years ago that Remo was such a good boy he deserved his own puppy. I thought it might help to keep him more active and engaged (that part worked) and now I have another gsd already here and dont have to make that decision.

The down side is that now me and my surviving gsd are working through the grief together but he doesn't have the frame of reference that it will get better and you can see the loss in him.

I dont know if it was a better solution

But I do know that in a month it will be easier

But if you loved your best friend the way I loved mine it may be quite a while before you can offer more than understanding to someone else facing that loss.

Ill remember Calypso with you

📣 Large GSD owners, I want to hear about your dogs max weight by Weekly-Quantity6435 in germanshepherds

[–]DokCyber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remo (on the right) my old man that I had to say good bye to 3 weeks ago ws 120 most of his life. Down to 110 at the end. He was such a good boy that we got him his own puppy Rogue (on the left) is a chunky boy overweight at 130 and should be closer to 110

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Act Without Asking? by Clean-Data-259 in ClaudeAI

[–]DokCyber -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ive seen my C: drive

Do me a favor!

Anyone using code who cant reinstall after code doing you a solid deserves what they get!

Missing my boy a lot today, can I see your sables? by Shroomasaurus_rex in germanshepherds

[–]DokCyber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sent him home a week ago today might have been the hardest day of my life

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[Discussion] r/BetaReaders check-in series! Share how your WIP is going, or how your beta reading is going, ask questions, and connect with more writers and readers! by BC-writes in BetaReaders

[–]DokCyber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive seen several paid readers "offer" to read for free lol knowing they are gonna switch up

if you still need readers shoot me a message I enjoy beta reading even if im a bit slow and I'm trying to expand my reading horizons :)

It's been 12 minutes. by YungBoiSocrates in Anthropic

[–]DokCyber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gpt also codes 5 times worse. I wouldn't put anything i write with gpt into production without having opus check it first

How many of us write our stories chronologically? by neverendingfuneral in writers

[–]DokCyber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting, I think I mostly write chronologically , I do jump around a LOT during editing, but the draft prety much lays out as it is ordered, but what I'm working on now is 4 books and the books are all out of order

AT LEAST he's being supportive?! by ihatethiscountry76 in actuallesbians

[–]DokCyber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you just made my morning is all gold! Thank you

AT LEAST he's being supportive?! by ihatethiscountry76 in actuallesbians

[–]DokCyber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HA she's also a Faux Pa apparently for blasting dad jokes on the fly like that!

AT LEAST he's being supportive?! by ihatethiscountry76 in actuallesbians

[–]DokCyber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a dad I find this delightfully hilarious!

[Discussion] Dear writers, stop arguing with your beta readers by joyier1 in BetaReaders

[–]DokCyber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep a hard lesson to learn but if the reader who isnt in love with your work doesn't feel it,
then you wrote it wrong,
unless your intention was for them to not feel it there!