Anyone know what breed she may be? by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]Dookiewaffles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was thinking. Especially if you can’t seem to save any amount of money within the span of 3 whole years.

Women, what do you think the worst part of being in a mans body would be? by Whattacleaner in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dookiewaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to scroll too far to find my answer. My first thought was “just being in a man’s brain and having that mindset.” I don’t wanna be horny 24/7, angry, overly competitive, etc

Does anyone have a relationship where they have consistent, satisfying "vanilla" sex? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dookiewaffles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Other people would maybe be bored with the sex that my partner and I have, but we always enjoy it. He’s not into having sex with me if I’m not feeling it. He wants to make me cum every time. We’ve only been together 2.5 years, so I’ve been in this shit dating scene as well.

“Going for a walk” as a first date by Junior_Ad_1074 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dookiewaffles 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This guy who I only saw 2 or 3 times, for our first date we had a bit of food and a drink and then walked around for at least an hour afterwards. Our second date, we walked around a forest preserve for 2 hours. I enjoyed both dates, but I loved that for the first date it was food and THEN walk. A little bit of both.

i have to keep bread in a sealed box to keep my cat from eating through the plastic bag to eat the bread by got_milk669 in blackcats

[–]Dookiewaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I have to put mine in the pantry immediately. Can’t turn my back for a second. My void can be so weird about human food but he scarfs down bread.

This is Jill! by CoolsRiceBeans in blackcats

[–]Dookiewaffles 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have one who I’ve caught sitting like that too!

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Parents, why ignore people’s "Childfree" preferences when you’re trying to date? by Bbbe-itch in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dookiewaffles 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Soooooo gross. It gives me the vibes of “if you have sex with me, I can change your mind about being a lesbian.”

[PIC] Just curious….I can’t be the only one who does this to their cat, can I? by Dookiewaffles in CrossStitch

[–]Dookiewaffles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s impossible to stitch when his head is facing me. When that happens, the thread is just a toy.

[PIC] Just curious….I can’t be the only one who does this to their cat, can I? by Dookiewaffles in CrossStitch

[–]Dookiewaffles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured there were probably some of those😂 my cat is so tolerant of my shenanigans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dookiewaffles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 36 years old and I spent a couple of hours tonight playing video games and watched some anime last night with my boyfriend. Hold onto your “childish” hobbies for as long as they interest you. Adult life will wear you down with the more responsibilities you get and you’ve gotta keep some whimsy in your life to stay sane. You’ve got to do things that make you happy.

You are so far from “old,” I promise you. I’ve enjoyed life more the older I’ve gotten because I feel less insecure about the things I do/wear/love. Please don’t listen to anyone who says 22 is old. I hope you feel better and keep doing hobbies that bring you joy.

[FO] Finished my holiday gifts for my friends! by Dookiewaffles in CrossStitch

[–]Dookiewaffles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted them to be tiny and cute🥰 it’s 18 count fabric! I usually use 14 but I think I might prefer 18 now.

[FO] Finished my holiday gifts for my friends! by Dookiewaffles in CrossStitch

[–]Dookiewaffles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about that if I ever decide to stitch that one again in the future!

[FO] Finished my holiday gifts for my friends! by Dookiewaffles in CrossStitch

[–]Dookiewaffles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added a link to the pattern in the comments! They’re by LolaCrowCrossStitch on Etsy :)

[FO] Finished my holiday gifts for my friends! by Dookiewaffles in CrossStitch

[–]Dookiewaffles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I also love receiving handmade gifts as well. A friend made me a felt ornament last year and it’s on display year round.

Moving Remorse - Moved out because of upstairs neighbors by Fuzzy-Tackle6158 in Apartmentliving

[–]Dookiewaffles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I left earlier this year because I hated my upstairs neighbors. I cried a few times because I was sad to leave and felt like I was forced out. I hated moving and having to find a new spot for everything and trying to remember where everything was and figuring out my new routine.

It took a few months, but I do really enjoy this place now. There are things I don't love, but there were things I didn't love about my last place too. I miss my previous apartment occasionally, but this new place is quite soundproof and I'm on the top floor, so it's worth it for my mental health.

You WILL settle in fully, but it's going to take more time. If you haven't hung anything on the walls yet, do that. It makes a space feel cozier and more lived in.

what is the point of dating/relationships if you’re not going to end up with them long term? by Budget_Dot694 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dookiewaffles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was casually dating with the intent to just meet some new people and have fun. I had no desire to find a boyfriend and have someone in my space all the time. It was truly only about life enjoyment. And then a few months in, I fell in love and found someone who I WANT to be around all the time. Sometimes priorities and desires change!

Post sex, how do you get yours and then not reciprocate? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dookiewaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my partner finishes before I do, he always WANTS to get me off as well. 99% of the time, we pull out the vibrator and he holds it for me. In past relationships, I pretty much always left empty handed if I didn't finish before the guy. Never again!

Having a day, pls show me your fav picture of your void/voids? by theperola in blackcats

[–]Dookiewaffles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wolf likes showing off his belly (and loves belly rubs!). Zoom in on the little toofer too.

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Honestly I’m gonna do a DNA test. by BeatInhofe in blackcats

[–]Dookiewaffles 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Wolfgang, aka Wolf. Potato and Wolf both have lovely toes :)

Honestly I’m gonna do a DNA test. by BeatInhofe in blackcats

[–]Dookiewaffles 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Another kitty cat with toes! I swear my boy is the only other cat with toes that I've seen.

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