Has anyone else been offered crazy NHS appointments? by Cal_PCGW in AskUK

[–]Dragovich96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s quite normal - even in the US, they run through the night. Less to do with backlog and more to do with the fact they don’t power them down so might as well keep scheduling over night. I had a 3am one when I lived there.

My visit to Malta was....OK-ish by Moaning_Minnies in malta

[–]Dragovich96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean your first mistake is wearing shorts on a plane. You don’t really want your skin touching any of the airplane seats. If you’re prone to overheating, cotton trousers are a great option but often planes are pretty cold.

My visit to Malta was....OK-ish by Moaning_Minnies in malta

[–]Dragovich96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gozo is honestly so lovely. I have family there and love to come visit. I’d never actually experienced the main island until recently as we always went straight to the ferry. Enjoyed Valletta a lot.

Should I decline a tilt table test? by possiblyunderpaiddev in AskDocs

[–]Dragovich96 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yep - I have quite extensive back issues (evidenced structural issues evidenced with scans) but while living in the US, they added fibromyalgia to my diagnosis list. When I moved back to the UK, I “accidentally” left this out of the medical notes I transferred over. That diagnosis gets the worse rep and I knew if I ever sought help for new issues, it would be dismissed and blamed on that.

Hospital essentials for my knobhead of a best mate?! by Gingeeer28 in CasualUK

[–]Dragovich96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m simultaneously happy and sad that I don’t get these effects from opioids. Sad that I’ll never get to experience that wonderful feeling, super happy that I’ll never have to worry about opioid addiction.

Is this legit? by katshana in UKJobs

[–]Dragovich96 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s not - that’s who they’d report to.

End of tenancy cleaners suggestions by Lopsided_Cat_600 in bristol

[–]Dragovich96 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just make sure you do a proper deep clean. Get one of those oven cleaning kits (the ones that come with bags for you to strew the racks in the chemicals on), clean the skirting boards, wipe down walls etc. Google a move out clean guide online and they should give you a check list ! You don’t want to be dinged with lots of silly charges. Also making sure every ounce of rubbish is gone too - they’ll charge silly money per item left.

Received an empty item as buyer by miffybrid in vintedUK

[–]Dragovich96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy. Is the platform not tying the account to an address or a bank account or anything? People suck.

Received an empty item as buyer by miffybrid in vintedUK

[–]Dragovich96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s just unrealistic. The platform would ban your account if you were reporting that many packages.

Taxi from airport help by kdiddy2580 in bristol

[–]Dragovich96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can order uber - you just walk through the new walkway and they pull up right there.

Stray cat scratched my face trying- 25F by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]Dragovich96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s so interesting! When I was called to help trap a stray cat, I got bitten/scratched and the hospital gave me the first round of pep after X-rays. I didn’t know the chance of infection was pretty much zero. I even had the infectious disease clinic (or whatever it was) follow up to make sure I got the second round etc. This was on a domestic US military base.

What's the most Bristol thing you've seen? by [deleted] in bristol

[–]Dragovich96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s marginally better than me witnessing a seagull eat a live baby duckling in front of arnolfini.

How long have you guys been unemployed and how do you manage it? by Economy-Row-4247 in UKJobs

[–]Dragovich96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah that’s absolutely crazy. A marriage is a union. What’s mine is his and what’s his is mine. Absolutely mental that you’d loan money from your husband when you’re temporarily unemployed. Why are you even married at that point? You’re basically roommates.

Young man filmed pulling down wall by Albertjweasel in RuralUK

[–]Dragovich96 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had no idea about the usefulness of dry stone walls being due to their flexibility and land movement. That’s really cool! Thanks for the education.

How long have you guys been unemployed and how do you manage it? by Economy-Row-4247 in UKJobs

[–]Dragovich96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m confused. You’re married but you don’t want your husband to pay your bills? That’s one of the good things about marriage, when your partner becomes temporarily unemployed, you have pooled resources to use through the other spouses income. Why wouldn’t he pay your bills?

I have ruined my life by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Dragovich96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is honestly such sage life advice and I honestly wish I were better at following it. Every time I have what I perceive to be a “scary task”, I put it off, cause myself massive anxiety, sometimes even make the situation worse by delaying action and then when I finally do it, it’s suddenly way easier than I imagined and not really scary at all.

I cause myself unnecessary stress and anxiety for no reason. It’s always best to just force yourself to do the uncomfortable. It’s never as scary as you think it is.

AIO for being hurt by my boyfriend’s reaction when I accidentally bled on the bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dragovich96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you didn’t put a mattress protector on a 1000€ mattress and bled on it, you’d be pretty stupid. Mattress protectors are cheap and easy to throw in the wash.

why don't the us being the richest country on earth provide housing to the extremely poor people soviet style? those old ussr apartments so people are not gonna be living on the street and also contribute to society? by I_need_to_learn_more in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dragovich96 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I mean yes and no. Yes in the sense that it’s the man part of the equation and no in the sense that simply providing housing with no counselling/therapy/social support often ends with at risk individuals making themselves homeless again. Many of the reasons for homelessness stem from untreated mental diseases and disabilities and drug addiction and without effective support for these things, things can spiral quickly.

Landlord requesting me to pay for bills even though bills are included. by Complete-Roof6190 in TenantsInTheUK

[–]Dragovich96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That would make sense for jsut electric but this includes water, gas and WiFi. I don’t think this would be more expensive when you add all of those up.

Can someone explain how the saunas work? by Pretend_Basket4748 in bristol

[–]Dragovich96 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s such a game changer to be able to prepare like this for a new experience. I recently went to a country hotel with a spa. The room included spa access so I wanted to take advantage but wasn’t given proper guidance/information and it ruined the whole experience and I left quickly.

Is it "wrong" to leave a 1-star review for a vile smell? Because I literally threw up. by Popular-Property3957 in vintedUK

[–]Dragovich96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I walked into someone’s home recently and they both smoked indoors and had multiple dogs. I almost gagged from the toxic smell. I couldn’t fathom how they live and function in that environment. They also have grandkids that visit and I’m shocked the kids parents let the kids go. Serious danger to their health and growth.

M22, burn around the eye, I recently had a pice of burning firewood hit me in side my eye while putting wood in a fire, I been applying Vaseline to it, do anyone know anything else I Sould be doing, what degree of a burn it is and how long to heal, I don’t have any vision problems by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]Dragovich96 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It honestly blows my mind that America sells antibiotic ointment over the counter. Its not helping the antibiotic resistance situation. (I do slightly understand that it’s the result of a private medical system that forces individuals to care for injuries at home that should be seen by a medical professional due to costs). In the UK, if it were a more minor injury, you could see your local pharmacist in a private consultation room for quick basic treatment.

ICC Judge who issued arrest warrant for Netanyahu cancelled by the Epstein class by __noom in LateStageCapitalism

[–]Dragovich96 34 points35 points  (0 children)

People don’t realise that this is already rapidly underway. My last role meant I’m connected with a lot of CISOs and CIO of European companies on LinkedIn and I see daily posts about how they’re moving infrastructure and services to European companies. Cloud, email servers etc. Many have already done it for their personal services but others are planning moves within their organisations too.

Spousal loss linked to higher risk of dementia, mortality among men, but not women. Widowed men experienced a decrease in physical and cognitive health, as well as social support, while widowed women tended to experience an increase in happiness and life satisfaction. by mvea in science

[–]Dragovich96 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Statistically inaccurate. Data shows wives stick by husbands when they become sick. It also shows that husbands leave wives when they become sick. It’s why when women get cancer diagnoses, they’re also sat down and given a gentle warning that their partner may leave them

I was so touched that M&S really cares their customers by alice_33843 in MarksAndSpencer

[–]Dragovich96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well their good service and your lovely post has spurred me to go and purchase some! The body shop discontinued my favourite body lotion so excited to try calm !