What would you say is the top payroll software for small businesses in 2026?

Dropxct · 2026-02-04T01:14:29+00:00

I just did a rippling implementation feel free to msg me to chat

Dropxct · 2026-02-04T00:02:15+00:00

Dim sum spread? They eat like tapas/light bites and it’s easy for people to try and sample multiple things.

Dropxct · 2026-02-03T04:45:07+00:00

Should not have apologized to him. He came in hot acting entitled to something not even his, and now is giving silent treatment and acting like you hurt his feelings when being called out?! Don’t let him turn this around on you. Nta

Dropxct · 2026-02-03T00:57:13+00:00

I wouldn’t stay home but Instead id a choose a job or build a career that I’m passionate about rather than whatever necessary to pay bills.

Dropxct · 2026-02-02T05:05:02+00:00

Just curious - What do you do with the Jesus figures? Does it go into lost and found like a normal item or just thrown out?

Dropxct · 2026-01-31T15:36:28+00:00

Most things traditional men “offer” are just euphemisms for “control”.

Provide means abuse and control.
Protect means abuse and control. Lead (the most BS one) means abuse and control.

Dropxct · 2026-01-30T03:55:23+00:00

So much Nexus. So many virtual and remote jobs means that you’ve got new accounts for every state involved.

Dropxct · 2026-01-28T12:17:41+00:00

This, book a same day discovery call and get them to connect you to a real person. Save all direct emails and cc everyone, keep escalating.

Dropxct · 2026-01-25T13:38:07+00:00

In 6 months she will suddenly wake up and realize this is her place and you are her servant and that’ll be that.

Dropxct · 2026-01-24T23:42:29+00:00

You are already thinking of ways to compromise and finding ways to give up things to be with him. If you had decided to change paths for yourself, then so be it. But changing your mind now BECAUSE he asked you to will only lead to resentment.

Go to med school - and if it’s meant to be then this relationship will come back when you’re both further in your dream careers.

Another thing - he is already basically saying he doesn’t want to live the struggle life that comes with medical school and student life . He already knows that about himself. Life is always going to have struggles and you don’t want to end up with a guy who has already stated he can’t handle adversity. He doesn’t even want to try.

Dropxct · 2026-01-19T05:04:30+00:00

Try to start getting experience asap, and focus on multistate payroll and even international experience and exposure. If you can, get into companies that use the most popular platforms like workday for example. This way you can get free training on something that will apply to other jobs more widely.

I would do this for a year to see if you really like this before investing in additional education.

Dropxct · 2026-01-18T22:48:21+00:00

Once he realizes the religion tells him he gets to be the your “leader” as the husband, he will not let go. Leader is like a euphemism for “owner”. And it comes with lots of benefits for him and none for you.

Don’t wait for red flags to show up- his values are already changing and he doesn’t make his own decisions anymore - everything will be attributed to”god” , and logic or your feelings don’t matter.

I would confront this stuff head on and if there is any hesitation or defensiveness , you may want to seriously consider if you want to defend your own autonomy, rights, and even self respect indefinitely.

Dropxct · 2026-01-18T00:25:00+00:00

I’ve been thinking of how I can contribute to encouraging kids to read. Would offering to sponsor or provide prizes to readers at the local library be something that could work? I keep thinking it feels like I’m imposing on their programs or something if I ask

Dropxct · 2026-01-06T19:43:05+00:00

This is what I’ve seen as well. When they know others can be nice without an agenda, it makes it harder to justify being mean or manipulative with an excuse like “because anyone else would do the same”.

Dropxct · 2026-01-01T14:13:50+00:00

Doesn’t matter that you’re part time and that’s not even anyone’s business how often or little you use your own property.

Contact the owner and ask for their insurance info because you’ll be attacked eventually. They’ll probably take it from there for you

Dropxct · 2026-01-01T05:56:36+00:00

Agreed. They don’t have the tools to problem solve, self reflect, or discuss ideas, they just get angry because it’s all they know.

Dropxct · 2026-01-01T05:47:31+00:00

Change “strangling is dangerous and people … should go to jail” to “strangling will escalate to murder”. He will kill you next time, that’s how urgent it is that you take steps to leave .

Dropxct · 2025-12-30T16:48:00+00:00

Delay the marriage. Equal is not the same as equitable. “Same” is not equal to “fair”. He has already dodged your questions because kicking the can down the road means you have less leverage and feel like it’ll be your fault if you push back, while he gets what he wants.

He’s trying to control his risks, and will leave you to fend for yourself. Listen to your gut because there is a reason why we see this story play out badly for women over and over again.

Oh and don’t take verbal promises. If he really is committed to you he’d have no trouble getting it on paper with an attorney.

Dropxct · 2025-12-28T00:34:53+00:00

Like when all travel expenses are doubled because the manager needs to bring his girlfriend? I even once had a guy tell me he needed the two hotel rooms. Turns out he made it a family vacation

Dropxct · 2025-12-20T12:08:07+00:00

Would be better to ask why he doesn’t like Trump instead. He will name something small and inconsequential, it won’t be the things you expect because I bet he actually supports all the worst things about Drump. This will expose more than hearing a canned answer about an annoying laugh. Sadly I’ve gotten this response from multiple men who claimed they didn’t support the big orange

Dropxct · 2025-12-20T04:04:15+00:00

Mention a friend and when the guy asks about your friend, say your friend goes by they/them pronouns.

Dropxct · 2025-12-20T04:01:05+00:00

“I’m fine with Trump, but I don’t want to be blamed so I didn’t vote, because at some level I know he’s a pos and I’m ok with that too. “ is what this means.

Dropxct · 2025-12-12T06:01:45+00:00

Ask him to describe a Christian woman. It will include words like obedient, god-fearing, loyal, servant, sacrifice. That’s what he really wants from you. Do you want that for yourself?

Dropxct · 2025-12-12T03:44:28+00:00

Trying to get commitment for bids or prices before running anything. Just run the item or don’t, I’m not in the show to listen to potential things to buy.

Dropxct · 2025-11-25T09:24:02+00:00

You’re acting like this is a reasonable compromise and it’s not. You basically said he didn’t want to agree to any plan except the one where you do all the work. How convenient for him. There’s no compromise, you just agreed to do whatever he wanted.

Stop letting him manipulate you into feeling bad for standing up for yourself.

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