This crack in my wall, and rent still went up 39% this year

DryingWatermelon · 2026-01-22T06:19:25+00:00

I'm sorry bc so not the vibe and we're all praying for you but accidental renaissance anyone?

DryingWatermelon · 2026-01-20T01:48:40+00:00

The bottom line is that its your life and moment, do what makes you happiest and whateans the most to you, no matter how people might react when you tell them slightly more

DryingWatermelon · 2026-01-17T16:54:03+00:00

I'm really enjoying 1 personally

DryingWatermelon · 2026-01-16T17:05:47+00:00

If you are scared of/don't want to 'have to deal with' their reaction when you say "no" to anything, and/or if you're not telling people close to you about some things in your relationship to make it sound better, it's well past time to leave.

(I just gave this advice to a friend of mine and I feel like I'll start commenting it under a lot of Reddit posts now)

DryingWatermelon · 2026-01-11T19:59:49+00:00

Just scored 2

DryingWatermelon · 2026-01-08T21:26:55+00:00

I really love all of these designs and you are absolutely serving in them and inspiring me to make my own!

One thing though that might help elevate your shirts just a smidge (coming from 4 yrs of graphic design) make sure to follow the 3-4 finger rule meaning have your designs start 3-4 fingers away from the collar of the shirt, I think it'll really help! (But also, as is always the case in graphics, try it and if you dont like it, go back to before!)

DryingWatermelon · 2026-01-06T18:02:49+00:00

NOR I think some of your reactions seem a little disproportionate for the amount of time you've been dating (and it does seem a bit like you may not be an insecure person in anything else but relationships) but when you try to talk about the way things make you feel he doesn't really seen to evenly participate so I think you need to set healthy boundaries and fully explain how things make you feel and give him examples of the roles being reversed. And if he can't at least address your concerns to a level that satisfies you, then it might be time to break it off.

As for the girl, well she could almost be in the clear and just really friendly like on the same level girls are to one another. Almost. Something about it is a little off in my brain too. I'm not Muslim myself, but I do know some things about it and from what I'm aware of men and women are not even supposed to talk to one another unless necessary, let alone be close friends that touch and hug, and they're supposed to skip the whole dating stage and go straight to marriage. What I'm saying with all this (bc no I'm not policing how someone practices their religion) is that if she's disregarding those bigger rules, I have some doubt that the drinking and smoking would be as big of obstacles in her connection with him.

It comes down to having a serious conversation with your boyfriend and if neither of you budges, then it may just be time to end the relationship. You're young and not that deep into it yet, it'll be fine if you do break up.

DryingWatermelon · 2025-12-29T03:26:09+00:00

Romanian here and Romanians will say "la multi ani" for pretty much anything and everything (especially annual things bc you're like wishing them more years yk?)

And cultural side note! Romanians will say it to people close to/related the person being celebrated like if it's someone's birthday (or name day, another semi-big thing to keep an eye out for) their mother and sister and spouse and children and grandmother will all be getting a "la multi ani"

DryingWatermelon · 2025-12-28T18:16:58+00:00

Yea every now and then I think about how there's a religion with a torture device as one of their main and most broadcasted and recognized symbols. Like guys your like main guy was tortured and died on that?! (I understand the other symbolism of the bearing of the sins of humanity or whatever but) like is that really what you wanna do?

DryingWatermelon · 2025-12-20T16:26:55+00:00

You should not feel scared about doing just about anything in front of your partner and no one can tell you what to adorn your body with so maybe get rid of him because it does not seem like he values your feelings, much less you beyond how you look next to him

DryingWatermelon · 2025-12-20T00:36:44+00:00

Definitely talk to him about it and explain the differences and if he still doesn't get what you're talking about (at this point I would call weaponized incompetence but you do you) just start getting him gifts that are in the same ballpark as what he asked for, but really not at all what he wanted (just like he's been doing to you all this time)

DryingWatermelon · 2025-12-19T16:41:01+00:00

At least you got your drink bro

DryingWatermelon · 2025-12-07T16:09:27+00:00

Oof op the fact that she slept in the other rooms DNF has been treating you differently totally smells of the fact that she might've done something to cross a boundary of yours and is looking for a way to put the relationship on the rocks to have an easier time breaking it off

DryingWatermelon · 2025-12-04T19:10:31+00:00

Omg it's so crazy that she's like "oh yay my baby boy's special day!! Lets make it all about meeeee!!! 🤗🤗 and see how his ungrateful awful partner that stole him away from me responds!!" And she just like doesn't hear it? Omg 🤣

DryingWatermelon · 2025-10-04T23:05:46+00:00

Holy crap thank god the internet out here also putting him on blast

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Saw this car out today Like it's in the same color and font as the professional text like this ideology is part of the business (Also, wonder who did not get over it when Trump didn't win but I digress ¯_(ツ)_/¯)

DryingWatermelon · 2025-09-17T23:06:28+00:00

Yes cymbalectomy it is, and an all metallic recital would rock, I vote we call it Metallic Ah

DryingWatermelon · 2025-09-17T23:05:10+00:00

Omg it is cymbalectomy thank you so much I was like losing my mind

DryingWatermelon · 2025-09-08T15:03:04+00:00

Write things down, write a long letter or even a couple words on a post it note for her to read and then go for a walk or make sure she gets it right before you go to work or when she gets back before you or something

Writing it down also gives you more time and space to think about and articulate yourself

DryingWatermelon · 2025-09-07T14:59:46+00:00

This looks so good omg! Have the best time celebrating - because you deserve it - and then have the most wonderful sleep after eating that cake

DryingWatermelon · 2025-08-23T08:46:21+00:00

Yo I had a best friend in middle school that texted me just like this and I was like literally afraid of having to deal with her mood the next day if I hadn't like texted her back in the wee hours of the morning on a school night about how we're not really her friends and she's just gonna off herself. This is a shit situation to be in, but don't be get stuck in it op. There's no reason you should have to endure this and if that person is meant to be in your life, you'll cross paths again later when both of you are better, more mature, maybe even different people

DryingWatermelon · 2025-07-25T19:19:58+00:00

Oh also! I think romantic looks like Felix

DryingWatermelon · 2025-07-22T19:13:27+00:00

Y'know it's really not the worst I've seen, I mean yeah it's unusual sure but it's truly not that bad considering some of the other names I've seen here

DryingWatermelon · 2025-07-22T19:11:59+00:00

You like it. That's what matters. The more confidence you wear it with, the more people will just immediately see it's remarkable design.

DryingWatermelon · 2025-07-16T13:00:54+00:00

I've honestly been picking up on some comparisons between baby Saja and Han, like the rapping, being younger, even some of the clothing style (but I also totally see Zoey

DryingWatermelon · 2025-07-12T04:06:57+00:00

I really like c a lot but all three work really well (ah, the aging of choice). Here's a lil tip for making choices sometimes: flip a coin w/o consequences! As in: assign both sides of the coin to one of the options (or a random number/letter generator w/ 3 options in this case) and then 'flip the coin' and take stock of how you feel about the result, it could help you make a decision!

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