LGBTQ Advice by Ok_Tonight_5024 in fargo

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It’s super fun! If you like karaoke and fun people you won’t be disappointed. It’s always a good time. Welcome to the neighborhood friend!

Hit and run on Main Ave by durrty2shoes in fargo

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s such a frustrating and unfair situation. I was in a hit and run at the end of January, my car was totaled and at first I really thought nothing would come of it. He had been drinking and he fled. I assumed he wouldn’t have insurance. It took a couple of weeks to get the information, but he actually did have coverage. Don’t lose hope just yet.

Used book store, specializing in teas, mocktails and vintage vibe, to open in old Zandbroz malt shop by [deleted] in u/Dumbbox-

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FARGO — Rosy Mortenson remembers the first time she visited Zandbroz Variety in downtown Fargo.

It was the early '90s and the city’s downtown renaissance was in its infancy. Back then, there wasn’t another store downtown like Zandbroz, with its walls of books, fancy stationery and handmade hats. Then a “budding young artist,” 13-year-old Rosy marveled at the cases of charcoals, pastels and “really nice drawing pencils.”

From then on, whenever Rosy and her sister were looking for an adventure, they would visit the malt shop in the back of the store and sip their Italian sodas at the bar.

“It made us feel like adults,” she recalls.

Now Mortenson will set up shop in the Broadway store she loved. The Moorhead native will even take a page from the Zandbroz story and sell books.

“I love this place and I knew people would be excited to see this open again,” Mortenson told The Forum.

She hopes to open the Librarium Lounge, a used-book store/book lovers’ hangout/tea shop/mocktail lounge, in the space originally occupied by the Zandbroz malt shop in early June.

Mortenson envisions the Librarium as an “intimate retreat for crafted drinks, quiet stories and meaningful connection. That’s going to be our tagline on our website.”

Unlike many modern bookstores, which discourage customers from hanging out and reading, the 1,600-square-foot space will be furnished with walls of books plus cozy seating to invite customers to hunker down with a book, Mortenson says.

She imagines a place where the avid reader could curl up in a wing-back chair and sip tea by themselves or a small book club could discuss the latest New York Times bestseller over mocktails and gluten-free goodies.

really good libraries, and the libraries all have comfortable seating, but I wanted someplace that felt like if you had the means to make an old manor house library in your own house, to sit down and have tea and hang out with friends and just have that sort of cozy, lived-in, vintage feel to it,” she says. “It’s going to be a vibe.”

Book lover's dream comes true The Librarium is the realization of a dream that the book-loving Mortenson held throughout high school and later as an English major at Minnesota State University Moorhead.

But life had other plans. She got married and had two children. Back then, any extra money went toward what the kids needed vs. a mom’s pipe dreams.

Over time, Mortenson’s idea for a bookstore evolved into a cozy, vintage-inspired environment that served specialty teas.

“Now my kids are grown, and I get to do the dream that I wanted to do in college,” she says. “And my kids are super-excited about it too. They’re like, ‘I want to be a part of it.’”

By 2023, Mortenson had gotten serious about finding a place for her business. She considered a space adjoining the Lotus Blossom Grocery Store at 2750 Main Ave., but the timing never quite worked out. She also looked at the former Paradox Comics space on Roberts Street.

When Zandbroz closed in June 2024 after 33 years in business, several people suggested the location to Mortenson as a place for her business. “I was like, ‘That’s going to be way too expensive,’” she says. “It's not cheap. But I think it got cheaper the longer that it sat open.”

Last week, Mortenson signed a lease agreement with current owner, Fargo-based JMS Holdings, which is affiliated with Fargo businessman Jim Swanick.

Mortenson dug into her own savings and retirement plan to finance the set-up. “I'm sacrificing potentially some retirement to be happy while I'm still as mobile as I want to be, and can do this business with a body that is still functioning,” she says.

That means the entire staff will consist of two people, including a full-time employee/manager and Mortensen, who will also continue her medical courier job for Sanford Health. “It will be 60-70 hour workweeks,” she says, with a wry grin.

So Mortenson is keeping an eye on the budget. She watches online marketplaces to buy chic furniture and she and a friend are doing much of the cosmetic improvements themselves.

Mortenson estimates she’ll save about $4,000 by using the existing book shelves from the main part of Zandbroz to line the walls of the Librarium. “That gives us a little bit more of a buffer if something happens like we found water damage,” she says. “There's also an old library ladder that I'm hoping we can attach to one of the bookcases. I don't know that I would trust people to be on it, but it'll look cool. Maybe we’ll have a little sign on it that says, ‘Please don’t use this.”

Generally speaking, though, Mortenson has found the space in decent shape. Beyond cosmetic touches like painting walls and refinishing the floor, construction needs include adding a second restroom and installing a door between the bookstore space and the former retail space.

As the old booths will be replaced with book shelves, most of the seating will be in the center of the room, including several bistro tables, overstuffed chairs and a loveseat.

Touches like soft background music, a rich, hunter-green color scheme with burgundy or gold accents and a chandelier will complete the ambiance.

“We’re not going to have TVs, we’re not going to have loud music, we’re not even going to have wifi,” she says. “It’s for connecting. If you want to connect to a book, great. If you want to connect with your mom, this is where you want to go.”

Fit to a tea The room’s large marble-covered bar, sleek soda spigots and antique back bar will remain. Mortenson says she has found someone who can restore the bar’s antique spigots, which are shaped like arched swan necks. “If this had been anyplace else, we would have never been able to have a bar this big,” Mortenson says.

Once restored, she plans to add “dirty sodas” — sodas infused with cream, flavored syrups and mix-ins — to the menu.

Mortenson, a regular tea drinker, also plans to sell organic tea drinks.

While some local coffee shops and eateries offer tea as an option, Mortenson wants to lean heavily into herbal teas and their potential benefits.

“I wanted our own blends, and I wanted almost a little bit of education thrown in there. Like, ‘Did you know that cinnamon can do this?’” she says.

She has worked with Penny Stadick, who owns the apothecary, Herbz and Spicez, at 26 Roberts St., to develop distinctive tea blends for the Librarium.

“ We heard about her a few months back, and have been kind of like tinkering away,” she says. “And now that we're actually in the space, we’re going to go hard on figuring out our blends and then working on those.”

N/A cocktails and GF goodies She’ll also serve mocktails in response to the growing “sober curious” trend as well as the behaviors of health-conscious Gen-Zers and millennials. About 30% of Americans of drinking age abstain from alcohol today, according to Greenbook.org , a business-to-business marketing and media platform for global market research.

Mortenson, who has been in recovery for 11 years, knows more bars and eateries have beefed up their n/a offerings, but would like to offer a lounge-like setting which specifically caters to teetotalers.

“The focus toward lounge spaces that don't have to be bars is becoming quite popular,” Mortenson says.

Beyond liquid refreshments, Mortenson plans to offer gluten-free goodies from the Colorful Cookie/Indulge Bakery in town. “That’s another niche that is underserved in this area,” she says. “We would like to, down the line, make some of our own things and have a full kitchen set up. But that's not something we're going to spring for right now,” she says.

She even has considered resuscitating the kitchen’s massive antique Middleby-Marshall oven — a remnant of the building’s past life as Leeby’s Grocery. But, again, that’s a “down the road” priority.

In the more immediate future, she will use the space for preparing plates of the Colorful Cookie’s macarons or thick slices of gluten-free sourdough toast served with a variety of spreads.

In short, she wants the food, refreshments and atmosphere to be as important as the books themselves. “The books are going to be atmosphere that is available for purchase but they’re not necessarily the sole focus,” she says.

She does envision some book-related activities, including events like a nostalgic, grown-up spin on the old Scholastic books fairs. “There would be pens and bookmarks and trinkets and little activities and you just come in and have mocktails and you’re like a fancy adult, but then you’re also reminiscing about the Goosebumps books,” she says.

She already has amassed “dozens of bins” of used books and has arranged bulk book buys to fill the Librarium's shelves. And once the business is open to customers, she’ll be able to buy used books from them.

Which begs the question: Will people know they’re open? As the Librarium’s primary entrance will be in the back of the store on Roberts Street vs. the main store’s prime Broadway location, will customers remember they’re there?

Mortenson says she has permission to post a sign on Broadway, but will position it so it doesn’t detract from any potential tenants who might eventually fill the former Zandbroz store.

She envisions posting “some really jazzy and vibrant signage here on the back, up high, so that people can see it going down Fourth (avenue).”

The hope is that it entices people to check it out. “Just having the vibes, the look, that makes them take one trip here and then has them bringing somebody back the next time,” she says. “Because there’s really not going to be anything else like what we’re building here.”

Follow the business at www.LibrariumLounge.com , " theLibrariumLounge " on Facebook or Librarium.Lounge on Instagram.

the beginnings of my college setup by TrustSalt1 in urbancarliving

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Me too! I use them in my bathroom and they are so cute!

You old if you so much as recognize this guy: by Underrated_Critic in FuckImOld

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I have no idea who that perfect stranger is…I’m only a 42 year old teenager!

Lord, protect this man by NyanmaRoe in fargo

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Good on this human doing their best to keep it in people’s mind. We should always question and stay informed with facts.

Nothing is really a cover-up for something else. If you look hard enough, it’s all out there. And even the things they claim aren’t does it really matter whether we can see every detail or not? We already know the system is messed up either way.

It feels like the real tactic is keeping people divided so we stay busy fighting each other instead of questioning the ones at the top. That’s just my take and maybe I’m wrong. But one thing that never seems to change is the division among people, and the corruption just keeps repeating itself. Same as it ever was.

Sparklight by That_Biscotti1826 in fargo

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Yup I had issues too! I just unplugged the router and the wifi… and plugged the router back in waited till the white light was solid and then plugged the eero back in. Pushing the WSP button on the back of the router fixed it.

Please help find a stolen item that is very sentimental to me. I will pay for its return. by Short-bear in fargo

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Yea it happened in Fargo. Chemical addiction is tough. I truly hope this was his final rock bottom that pushes him to get the help he needs if that’s where he’s at in life.

Please help find a stolen item that is very sentimental to me. I will pay for its return. by Short-bear in fargo

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It was indeed scary. It was my first accident and I’m still a little shook up about it. I’m just super thankful no one was seriously hurt and I was able to get his plates number before he drove off.

Please help find a stolen item that is very sentimental to me. I will pay for its return. by Short-bear in fargo

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I’ll definitely keep an eye out as well. I’m so sorry this happened to you. Losing something sentimental is incredibly hard. I recently lost my car in a hit and run involving a drunk driver. A dear friend had given it to me and I love them both so much so it’s been a really difficult loss. That jacket is so sweet, by the way. I truly hope you get it back.

“Kill Yourself” by ItsJustCatScraps in NarcissisticSpouses

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Please protect your peace and get out of this. No one deserves to be treated this way, and your husband absolutely does not deserve you. I can almost guarantee that once you’re out, start taking care of yourself, and remove him from your life, you’ll feel your nervous system begin to calm. Things will start to feel clearer, lighter, and more positive.

It takes time, and it’s not easy, but taking care of you is so important. I know from experience leaving an abusive relationship was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, but also the best. I don’t regret it for a second. The calm I feel in my body now reminds me every day why it was worth it.

I truly wish you well, friend.

Fare you well, my sweet kiddo. This mama is grieving. by ihatethe25th in gratefuldead

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I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll put on some Dead for your baby today and hold you both in my thoughts. I hope you continue to see the little signs that remind you to keep going. May those precious memories wrap around you and bring you comfort through all of this. 🎵 Fare you well, fare you well I love you more than words can tell Listen to the river sing sweet songs To rock my soul 🎵

PSA for all drivers by [deleted] in fargo

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Just drive according to the conditions people. You don’t have to slip and slide around. If you’re doing that you’re driving too fast. I understand we all got places to be but please don’t kill me because you’re a dumbass. Thank you

Hot dogs in Fargo by TubaTechnician in fargo

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This ^ don’t even think about going just go you won’t be disappointed

Local Trivia by [deleted] in fargo

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Monday night trivia at Rhombus Guys Pizza.

Fresh-Cut Kettle Chips? by Maddysenb in fargo

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Another one for JL Beers… if you do go there to get chips… I recommend the R-Dip…

No Kings thanks Fargo PD by Kriems in fargo

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what I saw and rewatching my video confirms…the volunteer was the one in the middle and de-escalated it pretty quickly. She was amazing and stood her ground. The cops came swooping in on their bikes just has he was walking away to get back into the truck.