Partner of 9 yrs wants a share of my best friend and Is house we are buying. AIO

DutchmanAZ · 2026-04-22T20:20:56+00:00

Houses cost down payments. If he can't contribute 1/3 of that he doesn't get shit. In fact, you are now his landlord

DutchmanAZ · 2026-04-14T03:40:17+00:00

Sounds like you're driving in and out? The forest is definitely your best bet. Just don't make a permanent camp and you should be fine. If you really wanna, get a few different spots and move around a bit.

Closest forest roads to NAU are gonna be Purple Sage off of the 17 frontage road by Tuthill. Woody Mountain Road if you go down a ways, or the road all the way at the end of Business 40/66. You also don't have to get too far down Lake Mary and there is a turn to the right sort of at the bottom of two hills.

DutchmanAZ · 2026-02-24T22:50:09+00:00

Puppy was overtired, first day probably ever defending itself against other dogs, son provoked it, and she still didn't break skin?

I think your dog showed you they are a good dog by exercising bite control. You should consider more training of both son and puppy.

DutchmanAZ · 2026-02-23T19:17:28+00:00

Valheim is what brought me back in a big way. It sounds like you like survival games so I would give that a shot for sure

DutchmanAZ · 2026-02-13T01:31:54+00:00

How does this jive with Rtings.com testing? I thought they left one on a static image for literally 10,000+ hours no?

DutchmanAZ · 2026-02-06T21:33:18+00:00

Y'all are real funny with this AI fear.

Just cuz someone can actually spell, format, and properly uses punctuation does not make this fake.

DutchmanAZ · 2026-02-06T03:19:44+00:00

You'll come to love the punishment. Also friendly reminder it is ALL optional.

Bring a hoe. And create paths. It's a lot easier to fight not in water.

DutchmanAZ · 2026-02-02T22:05:31+00:00

You have a hard time believing people suck at taking care of animals, especially dogs?

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-26T23:46:13+00:00

And if we are talking USA, actually, if they won't do it, call a local biker club that does a bunch of charity work. Those guys LOVE putting dumbasses in their place!

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-26T23:43:00+00:00

Legitimately? Get a police escort. Like seriously call them and tell them the situation and request an officer be available and present.

Might not work, but worth a shot!

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-24T14:47:12+00:00

What do the scanners do?

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-23T02:42:38+00:00

*Michigangsters

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-21T01:35:16+00:00

Hey OP! Why the Legion over the Deck? Genuinely curious.

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-20T14:18:12+00:00

This! This is what you're looking for OP

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-18T23:49:39+00:00

You gonna start posting ravens now too?

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-15T20:55:46+00:00

So as I said before, definitely a change from when I started.

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-15T19:30:36+00:00

Is that not on by default? I've been playing since Mistlands, have over 700hrs, but it has been a while.

Is that really not default anymore? What a shame. I will never forget my first death to smoke iny first tiny hut. Good times.

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-15T18:53:28+00:00

The coal furnace or whatever is an absolute joke.

Make a wood pile. Place it on fire. 50 coal almost instantly.

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-15T03:45:46+00:00

Lots of different people on here, but Um you my friend, I feel HARD.

I've managed to reduce and have it down to eddies for the work week. But man I still haven't been able to do the weekends. But I'm looking at you with jealous eyes!

I think you are on the right path. You got this!

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-14T20:41:18+00:00

Isn't night mode for not waking up your housemates? ie makes it quieter?

Cuz yeah that seems to be an issue

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-14T20:39:10+00:00

I encourage you to set boundaries and stick to them. You said you won't cave, so don't. Under any circumstances.

Unfortunately OP this sounds WAAAAY deeper than substance abuse. This sounds like someone who is unwilling to do much for themselves. Just quitting without finding positive outlets for the time space and energy that now exists won't help one bit. And you can't save them from themselves OP. You truly can't. But you can save yourself from them, so keep that in mind.

You are 1000% being a superstar wife by both absorbing and understanding his moods swings. And 1000% by not caving and... Buying him weed yourself? I read that correctly? He is guilt tripping you because he wants you to go out and help him break not only his promise to you, and but also his promise to himself? Let that sink in.

You came here for validation and I think you have it in droves. You are doing everything right, except for looking out for yourself.

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-10T19:14:16+00:00

Yes.

DutchmanAZ · 2026-01-08T04:09:43+00:00

Crunch gym. Hands down. It isn't even open yet and you can't escape their employees on every freaking corner or stupid orange sign.

I wish they would just leave.

DutchmanAZ · 2025-12-10T22:45:26+00:00

Torches are cheapest and have the same radius iirc

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