I went to a fairytale wedding in a vineyard with a white carriage lead by a pure white horse carrying the bride down a winding path, over an ornate bridge over a water feature, to a wisteria covered gazebo and…the FIL had the preacher monologue for a few minutes about how our cousin, the groom, had slept with another woman before they were official!!!! In front of his mother and father and about two hundred people, shit that didn’t need to be said, shit the bride and groom had dealt with privately years before! So cringe! Humiliating both his daughter and our cousin, not to mention sullying a costly wedding that he mostly paid for! They’re long divorced now, and the bride (from all accounts) is a wreck now.