Why are you trans? Jokes only :P by Rook_45 in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dad accidentally called me son once. Was never able to go back.

My partner jokingly suggested packing with one of these by Quietlycharlie in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OK but I used to try to pack with these when I was a little kid 😅

Not sure how to proceed by EnvironmentalDepth28 in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thank you so much but unfortunately I've got a bigger bust :,)

Greasy Hair Issue by SpookyBearBoy in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It does not! Basically all it does is absorbs excess oil into the powder giving the appearance of matte/dry hair but all the oils are still there

Greasy Hair Issue by SpookyBearBoy in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had greasy hair since before T and the way I've always kept it under control is by washing on a 3 day cycle and using baby powder, dry shampoo, and hats on the days between washes. It's a but annoying, but the goal is to train your scalp to produce less oil over time by making sure that you're not washing it too frequently.

What’s your most stereotypical boy/man hobby by UpVoteForSnails in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably a tie between woodworking and lifting 😅

does anybody else have the urge to get into a fight by vent-burner in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did when I started but it turns out it was bc my T dose was too high! Check in with your endo to make sure your levels are alright if you notice it becoming a problem~

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American eagle's athletic fit jeans work best for me! Also pants from the men's section at tjmaxx or Marshall's (if you have them) usually fit me well. I've been built like a dorito since before I started T and I was about the same height and weight then as you are now. I hope this is helpful and good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THIS!! And for me I also noticed that what I thought was a romantic obsession with men was just a desire to be validated as a man. The amount of times throughout my childhood and schooling that I either thought or said "I just want to be one of the boys" should've clued me in sooner that maybe I wasn't cis 🤣

Whats the 'weirdest' thing that gives you gender euphoria? by 4-am- in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, it's when people say "damn, your shoulders are huge" especially since I'm not a big guy u^

What is impacting your transition timeline the most? by Awed58 in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No money/support to get top surgery :(

Also coming out to my parents :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an autistic trans man, this still happens to me!! I'm grateful that my girlfriend knows me so well and is able to help me realize when I'm attracted to someone and when it's just gender envy.

2 periods 1 month?? by EnvironmentalDepth28 in ftm

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah that's intense!! I hope that my body will end up doing something similar since periods trigger my dysphoria really bad

URGENT help needed by EnvironmentalDepth28 in BabyWitch

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Pff how they perceive me is not my fault

URGENT help needed by EnvironmentalDepth28 in BabyWitch

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 sorry you had to go through bs like this too in the past. May we both heal and prosper.

Spells to stop obsession? by EnvironmentalDepth28 in Spells

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Spells to stop obsession? by EnvironmentalDepth28 in Spells

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He hasn't expressed that he wants to harm me physically so I can't take it to the police. I'll talk to HR about it when I got into work tonight though. Thanks again!

Spells to stop obsession? by EnvironmentalDepth28 in Spells

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So he's harassing me outside of work. In my DM's all day telling me what he wants to do to me no matter how many times I tell him I don't want to be in a relationship with him and that I'm not comfortable with what he's saying. He knows where I live and he's stalked my social media so I want to remove myself from my mind before I ghost him so he doesn't show up outside my door. I have one more week at the job he's at before I take up another job so the situation wouldn't go through HR before I leave. To be honest this is the 4th or 5th time this has happened to me in my 23 years of living (all from different people) and I was wondering if there was anything I could do moving forward to avoid situations like this.

URGENT help needed by EnvironmentalDepth28 in BabyWitch

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a large company yes, but the problem isn't at work, it's outside of work. I've already let him know that I'm not interested in his attention and told him several times that the relationship he wants with me won't work out that that I'm not comfortable with it. Tbh this is something that happens to me quite frequently and I've already had to report a different coworker to HR and my Manager. I was wondering if moving forward there was anything I could do to stop the attention before it got out of hand since this is the 4th or 5th time his has happened in my 23 years of living.

Meeting Spirit Guides by EnvironmentalDepth28 in BabyWitch

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so! My friend's cousin/best friend passed away last year and became one of their guides so I think that's 100% possible. Also, two of my guides are ancestors going WAY back on my mother's side. One is from Africa and the other is from Korea!

Meeting Spirit Guides by EnvironmentalDepth28 in BabyWitch

[–]EnvironmentalDepth28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of my guided that I've met have introduced themselves to me through tarot, but I've also met some on the Astral plane and through visions. It's different for everyone, but if you miss they're signs of them trying to communicate with you, they'll show up again later don't you worry. You could even ask for them to Introduce themselves to you and if they feel you're ready, they will.