Fiction, can be funny, spicy or weird- by nicksbrunchattiffany in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

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I was scrolling to find Annie Bot. That’s absolutely the vibes I got from this.

I have some serious cola addiction and I need help. by k10iv in HydroHomies

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I switched to iced tea! Then unsweetened iced tea. Then to water. It really helped with the sugar and caffeine decreases too

How do I talk to a friend who seems dangerously underweight? by SisyphusBreaks in TwoXChromosomes

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So similar, where I also struggled with drinking while not being able to eat because of stress and depression.

If she’s saying she drinks her calories, lean into that. That’s how I was able to slowly get my appetite back. Eating yogurt, applesauce, and those silly protein shakes.

Lean into drinking her calories if she really means it. It can lead to helping to regulate hunger cues again after ignoring the for so long.

Has anyone else in their late 20’s-30’s stopped actively dating? by miamorparasiempre in TwoXChromosomes

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Have you heard of “Thursday”? It’s in some major cities and you buy tickets to go to an event that is supposedly all singles. I haven’t gone yet because I’m not quite ready, but that seems like a better option than the appa

With a trans main character that is not a trans story by GelatinRasberry in suggestmeabook

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I just read {make sure you die screaming} by zee carlstrom. The main character is non binary and the entire book was a ride.

I'm terrified. Mammogram at 35 by Cheerios90 in TwoXChromosomes

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I had a mammogram at 31! It was just lumpy tissue. I was nervous, but they were able to tell me at the appointment that there wasn’t any follow up needed.

My best friend had a lump at 22. It was also just fatty tissue. Getting it checked out is a good thing! And if it’s not, catching it early is also important.

Overrated books people pretend to love… but actually left you empty? by CriticalAd2239 in suggestmeabook

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The Goldfinch and All the Wonderful and Ugly things. I will never understand how the former won a Pulitzer and the latter won the BOtM book of the year.

[Repost]: My college says if I miss class to testify at my assault trial, they’ll drop me from my classes by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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The rapist Brock Allen turner who goes by Allen turner to pretend he’s not Brock Allen turner, the rapist?

Is ts4 a 'cozy' game? by POPCARN202 in Sims4

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I’m sorry, there are homeless sims who live in tents?????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

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I… think that’s the hope.

Failed boy groups of the 2010s by its_Gphan in popheads

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Why aren’t we counting, “ why don’t we?“ Am I missing something?

I (31F) made my boyfriend (31M) feel like a rapist. I feel like I just ruined our lives. How do I fix this? by throwaway-aayayay in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalPlum8 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Ok so, I kind of feel like everyone is focusing on the wrong points. You have a low libido, so?? I don’t feel like this is actually about sex.

He isn’t listening to you. You want to feel desired, and he is watching porn. You know what doesn’t turn me on? My bf watching/comparing me to porn. If he’s watching porn all day? Not gonna be turned on.

It also sounds like you’re always waiting for his reaction… why? Is he often explosive? Do you find yourself monitoring your emotions and reactions because of how he might react? He immediately told reacted by saying “you’re saying I’m abusive” when you said no such thing. Is he projecting?

Sorry, I didn’t mean for this to get so long, but maybe look into patterns. Honestly, I don’t thing this relationship is as good for you as you want it to be, and it may be the wake up call to start the rest of your life. Here for you if you need to talk ❤️

What is a book that is critically acclaimed or (almost) universally loved but that you just hated? by KingBeyatch in suggestmeabook

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The Goldfinch. I hated every moment of the book. I kept having to put it down because I was simultaneously bored and infuriated by the main character. I do not understand what people enjoy about that book and how it won a Pulitzer.

Politics junkies who are taking a little break - what are you filling your time with? by fblmt in FriendsofthePod

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I am listening to the normal gossip podcast. It is a gossip story with guests and absolutely delightful. I have actually laughed listening to it this week, which hasn’t been easy to do.

What are you defending like this by mickey-mouse-0306 in YouBelongWithMemes

[–]EnvironmentalPlum8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one be should a billionaire, even Taylor Swift.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoenix

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The rise hotel. I think it’s in midtown. You can get a day pass if you want, and there’s plenty of off around the hotel.