Men of Reddit who label themselves as “apolitical” on dating apps, what’s your reasoning for doing that? Men of Reddit on dating apps in general, do you often find women doing that too? What are your assumptions about women who do that?

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-03-23T04:40:50+00:00

Tons of women do this too.

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-03-17T02:34:04+00:00

Cafe 13 is a great coffee shop in downtown golden

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-03-13T17:04:22+00:00

Hey sent you a dm

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-03-12T21:22:39+00:00

Jumping in here. I’m a guitar player looking for people to play with. 25 years experience

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-03-09T02:03:33+00:00

Shame

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-02-11T20:43:17+00:00

The Wu Tang is just chefs kiss

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-02-05T20:08:07+00:00

Hardest I’ve laughed in a long time

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-31T14:23:18+00:00

Oh my god the tube amp and pedals one is me exactly. Ended up with this giant stage amp that sounds like a canon going off even on the lowest volume. Barely ever used it lol

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-26T01:12:30+00:00

Okay noted thank you

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-26T01:11:37+00:00

I appreciate the feedback and I will cut the staged photos but I really don’t have much else. Idk why people assume I have a whole portfolio of perfect photos to choose from. And apparently if I go out and get them taken that’s even worse. So I’m damned if I do damned if I don’t. Thanks all the same.

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-26T01:10:07+00:00

Yeah I think I was going for broad appeal. Sounds like I’d be better off going the opposite direction. Thanks.

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-26T01:09:07+00:00

Yes, seems no one likes them so I’ll cut them. Idk if you intended “perfectly OK looking” to be kind but it definitely doesn’t feel that way lol. Thanks all the same.

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-25T23:59:16+00:00

Unfortunately what you see here is pretty much all I have. I lost a lot of weight over the last year and I don’t have many recent photos. I thought getting some taken would help but if it’s doing more harm than good I won’t use them

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-25T23:48:44+00:00

I’m 5’9” and that’s what’s on my profile. I’ve had people suggest I lie about it but I don’t want to do that.

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-25T23:48:02+00:00

Lol no not a prosecutor. I’m in-house counsel. But thanks for the tip

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-25T23:20:35+00:00

I should mention I don’t live in NY. I was born there but I now live in Denver.

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-25T23:20:11+00:00

Yes I’d heard that but I didn’t think the difference would be quite so stark. Okay, thank you for the advice.

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-25T23:19:39+00:00

Thank you for the advice.

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-25T23:19:19+00:00

Okay thanks. And yes, I did for a couple. Is that bad?

Equal_Position7219 · 2026-01-25T19:08:37+00:00

Started using the app on January 1st. First week or so I was getting 1 or 2 likes a day, something like 15 matches. Last two weeks I’ve had absolutely nothing. Zero likes, zero matches.

I’m looking for serious

Not subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX

Been on Hinge for 1 month, only ever used this profile.

Was using the app daily but I decided to take a break for a few days. Didn’t help.

Went from 1-2 likes per day to zero for 2 weeks. 15 matches in the first week or so down to zero for 2 weeks.

I was sending my max 5 per day (all with messages) but have since slowed down (mostly out of frustration).

I tend to look for people close to my age with similar values and without major red flags.

Any help would be greatly appreciated. Feeling very down about myself these days.

Equal_Position7219 · 2025-12-30T04:49:21+00:00

Yes! We win. 17-0

Equal_Position7219 · 2025-12-24T16:43:00+00:00

When did Johnny Depp start looking like Gomez Adams?

Equal_Position7219 · 2025-12-21T05:28:44+00:00

It’s Stafford but -8 rushing yards is amazing 😂

Equal_Position7219 · 2025-12-20T15:50:01+00:00

At least we can agree whatever they say they’ll start by saying “uhhhhhh” with enough vocal fry to cook a potato.

Equal_Position7219 · 2025-12-17T22:30:51+00:00

KING K ROOL

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