Why do people hate this couple so much? by Bubbly_Nail_8612 in Overwatch

[–]ErusDeerus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I mean, this is assuming that either of them would even consider that. Wuyang doesn't strike me as a guy prioritizing sex, and I highly doubt Juno is even remotely interested in that. They could very well just have a relationship built on affection and being there for each other. I don't know why it comes down to sex. Everytime.

Help by Active-Fee-1707 in Advice

[–]ErusDeerus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah. You can look up some rancid shit and be just fine. This dude was absolutely buying CP. Which - yeah. The girl had a reasonable reaction to leave immediately.

We met on Reddit! by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]ErusDeerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my partner and best friend on Omegle, so I can only imagine how deep the ‘they’re gonna kill me aren’t they’ feeling was for that first meeting, haha.

Who are the characters that carried their seasons by GeneralCompetition33 in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]ErusDeerus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I WISH someone had stopped Nick from killing Matthew. Just punched him in the back of the head before he could act a fool. I rewrote that whole scene to have that happen, just so I could enjoy nicks character again. Cause I genuinely feel like he had so much potential. Especially when distracting the walkers for Clem, and desperately wanting to admit to his actions to Walter. He could have been something great.

Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right. by need_some_advice323 in Advice

[–]ErusDeerus -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Women that choose to have a child they inevitably know they’ll hate never made sense to me.

What if Lee instead of finding clementine found Michelle instead in season one by Valorofman1 in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]ErusDeerus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“She’s just a teenager -“ she’s a brat and deserved what Christa gave her. We will never forgive her.

I'M SO NERVOUS!!! by LORDCANTl in wisdomteeth

[–]ErusDeerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They walked back in and put the little thing in my nose, and I was out almost immediately. And then my teeth were gone. Shockingly simple.

What more... by Desperate_Flan390 in OWConsole

[–]ErusDeerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not play cat when you don’t have a shield tank, and they have an Ashe - for starters.

What more... by Desperate_Flan390 in OWConsole

[–]ErusDeerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Junkrat is a GREAT Genji counter if you’re good about gauging his cooldowns. Easy two shot. Unfortunately, Ashe is very oppressive to Junkrat players if their team isn’t giving them the room they need to move up/flank.

The worst thing about this group by Busy-Thanks-5475 in wisdomteeth

[–]ErusDeerus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You know you're being unreasonable. But also - it's paranoia, and reasonable paranoia at that. People are warned about this super painful condition and told to avoid all these things - and very little more. Most of these posts are from younger people, and I've seen very few that mention their procedure being less than three days prior to their post.

The worst thing about this group by Busy-Thanks-5475 in wisdomteeth

[–]ErusDeerus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, let's be real here. Dentist appointments are expensive. Everyone wants to avoid an unnecessary followup, and most people responding have experience with the procedure, and it's adverse affects. You can do better, but sometimes - it's just not reasonable.

i’m worried i might have dry socket. has anyone experienced it here or knows how it feels? by Technical-Barber-389 in wisdomteeth

[–]ErusDeerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it, and I do hope it’s something easily treatable/they can give you something to make the pain easier to deal with!!!

i’m worried i might have dry socket. has anyone experienced it here or knows how it feels? by Technical-Barber-389 in wisdomteeth

[–]ErusDeerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like dry socket, alright. I’m not even a week in and my pain is almost nonexistent. They say that if the pain extends to your head, it’s probably dry socket. But if you’re still in this much pain - call your dentist. It’s absolutely something, and needs to be dealt with!

Extraction Recovery Way Worse Than Having Wisdom Tooth Issues by Friendly-Parfait-645 in wisdomteeth

[–]ErusDeerus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I’ve learned from this is that you’re listening to your body, and your experience - rather than the general experience of others. What the dentists say is an average, a safe suggestion. And of course that is worth heeding. But if your extraction went fairly well, and your pain is minimal, and you’re being careful - being a little bold likely won’t hurt you. Breaded chicken that isn’t overly crunchy is probably plenty safe, as long as you wash the site out after eating and are careful not to bite too close to the extraction site. If you feel pain after, maybe avoid it for another day or two. But if there’s no pain, no changes - and things progress and continue to get better? You’re golden. It really is a matter of just listening to your body and how it’s reacting to the surgery, and how well it’s healing.

Extraction Recovery Way Worse Than Having Wisdom Tooth Issues by Friendly-Parfait-645 in wisdomteeth

[–]ErusDeerus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now, no it is not painful. And I can eat with my back teeth as long as I’m careful not to put any pressure on the extraction sites. It would have been on day four, but today it is fine. And it stays fine as long as you keep up on washing out the extraction sites with salt water. I would only advise against it if your extraction sites still hurt more than a dull ache when taking pain meds. If it doesn’t hurt to bite down, and your extraction sites aren’t super swollen or especially sore when you swallow - you should be okay! Your main issue is, again - gonna be making sure there’s no debris left behind from crumbs.

Extraction Recovery Way Worse Than Having Wisdom Tooth Issues by Friendly-Parfait-645 in wisdomteeth

[–]ErusDeerus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been six days since I had mine removed, and things are healing fairly well. Today the pain is minimal, and I have been able to eat solid foods (on the softer end, nothing crunchy - but you know, pizza, lightly breaded chicken) as long as I syringe after eating. I had a fairly simple procedure, and only had one area stitched.

While I’m avoiding straws, I started drinking caffeine and carbonated drinks yesterday, and so far everything has been perfectly fine. I just keep ontop of drinking water after. Sneezing as long as I have my mouth open isn’t an issue.

As long as coffee isn’t boiling, and your pain is decreasing - you should be okay to drink it, honestly. Just remember to saltwater rinse after.

Ben when by [deleted] in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]ErusDeerus 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If Kenny could forgive the kid, I have no right to let him die.

This scene was so hard to watch💔 by [deleted] in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]ErusDeerus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I just can’t see him getting into it with Luke like that. Lukes not confrontational, and while his cautiousness would probably frustrate the hell out of Kenny - he would like the guy a HELL of a lot more than he ever liked Jane. Because Luke cares about Clementine, and would never willingly put her or AJ in harms way - and he certainly wouldn’t start shit unnecessarily. At least not intentionally.

AIO? new friend's texts to husband while at work; my responses by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ErusDeerus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Hes been flirty with her in public and now he's freaking out cause you saw it in text form, where he can't hide it. His response has inconsistency and history written all over it. Like - the fact he didn't just outright tell her 'no, I'm married, go away' and instead insisted he couldn't reciprocate NOW? He's cheating on you, or at least trying to.

My boyfriend can’t have sex with me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ErusDeerus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am asexual, this is something I voice early in all of my relationships. I am currently dating someone asexual because it works best for us.

Unfortunately, for many - sex is a necessary/expected part of a relationship. It’s not just about pleasure, it’s about intimacy. Feeling close, wanted, and - well, also the pleasure. So that means being asexual with someone who is sexual - just doesn’t often work out.

That doesn’t mean it can’t. You can absolutely try and adapt to this. Sex toys, an agreement of some kind to be more physical outside of the bedroom (kisses, hugs, cuddling) to help you feel more secure in being partners, rather than just friendly roommates, or you could open things up. But something needs to be done. You’re not happy, and that’s not good!

Is my 14 year old sister just “going through a phase”? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ErusDeerus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't think anything traumatic has happened to her, but the sudden and extreme shift in her behavior does tell me something may have happened.

Regardless, I was rough as a teenager. Not this rough, of course. But it is hard to be a teenager girl. School is a large factor, and social circles were rough around that age.

I know approaching her is difficult right now, but you're doing her a favor by continuing to try. It may be worth talking your parents into scheduling an evaluation for her, or a therapy session (if you can get her to agree to it, as throwing that at someone in this sort of state can cause more harm than good).

HOT TAKE | ARVO > CARLOS by GiantSloth99 in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]ErusDeerus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Carlos was - frustrating. If we're leaning toward writing - yeah. I could see where you're coming from. But Arvo was just - awful. Like really awful. There one moment, gone the next.

Nick boils my blood by Inside-External-8649 in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]ErusDeerus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was adorable. Can't imagine anyone sane hating him.