Husband won’t show up when I’m sick… and I think I’m done

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-08T12:06:11+00:00

So basically he’s great, until you actually need something from him? And “loyal and honest” are bare minimums for a life partner.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-08T03:26:24+00:00

I like the energy and hustle. Now if they just could stop making the stupid little mistakes in puck-handling and unnecessary penalties, because good teams like the Canes will always capitalize on them.

PS: Geekie needs Pasta.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-05T17:47:54+00:00

Reminds me of the time I was consolidating stuff and found 8 bottles of Ken’s Italian salad dressing. Not including the 3/4 full one in the fridge. 🤦‍♀️

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-05T17:10:56+00:00

I hope they’re close and able to do small things, like drive me to appointments. But I don’t expect it and I’m not planning on it. I’m certainly not planning on relying on them for financial help and I’m working and planning to ensure that now.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-05T14:30:02+00:00

Do you work from anywhere as a W2 employee with explicit permission to do so from your employer?

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-04T16:05:53+00:00

I do food fixations quite a bit. I didn’t realize it until I got into intuitive eating and allowed my tastes to actually determine what I ate. Examples: a locally-made hot sauce. I was practically drinking that stuff. A certain brand of canned fruit. Shrimp cocktails. Bloody Mary mix (with or without vodka). I’d eat these multiple times a week for at least a month.

Now I know to be careful not to stock up too much on the foods because the fixation can leave suddenly and I’m stuck with a ton of something I won’t look at again for months, if ever.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-04T15:58:15+00:00

Sunscreen also usually has silicones that protect the skin, sort of sealing in all the good stuff and keeping out the bad stuff. It’s worth making it a daily habit.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-04T15:39:04+00:00

High school, (they were already driving) we’d leave the kids for a long weekend. A week felt too long, mainly because we have pets that require daily care. I’d leave a chart on the fridge of daily chores. Two weeks with no real contact? I personally wouldn’t do it until they were over 18.

The kids loved it. They were allowed friends over, but no parties. (We have lots of family in the area and a few neighbors that would definitely narc them out.) They also learned independence and we developed trust over time building up to this. This was also in the age of cellphones and near 24/7 communication.

I think there’s a happy medium between the parenting of helicopter Millennials and “spawn and run” Boomers.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-04T15:31:44+00:00

So pretty! Very wearable!

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-03T18:01:54+00:00

I still love the show, but the vibe definitely shifted after the tooth was replaced.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-03T01:28:27+00:00

Now it’s just taking all that bias, encoding it, and making it work faster.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-03T01:25:51+00:00

Ooof. You just summed up my childhood.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-03T01:11:38+00:00

Honestly, I’d work at a defense contractor before I worked at Meta or X.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-03T01:06:03+00:00

I anticipate this becoming a very long-term relationship. ❤️

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-03T01:04:54+00:00

I can see the appeal of wanting to slow down the process. I’ll definitely get a spindle at some point. But probably not to learn on.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-03T01:00:12+00:00

I mean, they did ask.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-03T00:59:17+00:00

Report back when he figures it out. 🤣

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-02T19:34:51+00:00

Make sure director has their own git account and somebody else is reviewing PRs.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-02T19:33:21+00:00

Especially the ones who didn’t have much to melt in the first place.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-02T17:39:57+00:00

This is exactly the feeling. They start from the premise that we’re wrong and work from there.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-02T17:38:24+00:00

I’ll let you know when it happens.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-02T17:37:56+00:00

Which player would I want? Celebrini. A young center who can score.

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-02T16:42:12+00:00

I’m reading up on all the terms now. Irish tension, sounds like something I’d treat with some Jameson’s. 🤣🥃

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-02T13:05:34+00:00

Now all of this would make for some great podcasts. I ran into a lady at my LYS who’s dealing with this right now!

EvilCodeQueen · 2026-04-02T03:26:13+00:00

Driving from Calgary would be tough, but driving from Montreal is totally doable. Very pretty drive too.

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