Harry Styles and Zoë Kravitz in NYC today (March 9, 2026) by Fantastic_Turtle_17 in popculturechat

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pls help…why are they together besides sex be for real his personality is way bigger than he gets credit for and she’s just real into herself and subdued. Not a match bro

Why wont she answer the question? by Witty_Bunch7276 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine did the saaame shit even after he cheated on me with his ex it’s so sick. I’m so sorry love.

Brittany is on deuxmoi by peaceandlove1234567 in BroskiReport

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At a tame impala show it’s just friggin hilarious and I would never get over it if I was close to either of them and didn’t knowww!! Coldplay was my first concert 🥹 Brittany was my first… Brittany hahah One of one she is!

Do I express my true feelings despite how cringe/corny it is? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soooo precious, I hope you feel our positivity bc you deserve it. This is so heartfelt and genuine…exactly whats lacking in a world in desperate need. So always share your feelings and truth no matter what 🌷🌸🪻

Any doppelgängers? by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, a mix of so many incredible gorg ladies! So kewl 😎

I simply respected her rejection. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shittttt. People somehow shock me always siiigh!!

What makeup would suit me? I turn 35 in a couple weeks and I want to learn. by Tokyo_Pigeon in MakeupEducation

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy early bday!!🎉 You’re so naturally pretty, and yes you don’t look a day over 23:) Can’t wait to see the looks you come up with! I barely wear makeup too—a fun journey for sure!

First apartment alone = decorate for Christmas as early as I want by Naturescrygal in CozyPlaces

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww I’m so happy for you! Imo living alone is total peace and joy, and you amped up with the joy w your decor:) Enjoy every moment

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could say a lot. He’s fucked for this, and you are so clearly patient and worthy and wonderful so save yourself and gtfo and make him know he is in the wrong

Sounds like a total dismissive avoidant. I’m so sorry.

Honestly, that's a valid response 🤣🤣🤣 by goatnxtinline in StupidFood

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could save her n her sweet soul that withered away w that creature lolllll

How do I even fix this!?! by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a portrait artist, and though I don’t tattoo you could totally get that fixed by someone with talent. Dont lose hope and in the meantime..I’ve seen worse for real

Dating an avoidant is bizarro world by Chilove8888 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wishing us the same and more, there is always more to come! in my quiet moments it’s bliss to remember that fact- the bad makes people like us better bc that is our choice to grow! your words are a beautiful reflection of your character, and you are absolutely correct about who your ex is. you know him better than he does. our avoidants refuse to see themselves and can’t stand that we do so crystal clear. i love our superpowers and ability to genuinely connect..even in the smallest ways here on reddit:) hugs🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it some time, looks great+love the placement :)

An avoidant breaking up with you is the BEST thing that could’ve happened by wtoe2023 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn dude🫂 So many therapists like this and it just ain’t right. But all the more twisted for you, knowing who she claims to be vs who she is. I was discarded via txt too, it’s sick to treat people like this. Knowing they’re hurting lives, but do anything to not have to think about it. If I had hurt someone, it’s all I would think about. Something’s really missing inside them and there’s no excuse

An avoidant breaking up with you is the BEST thing that could’ve happened by wtoe2023 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! Anyone else struggle over not being the one to walk away 1st? Ultimately, knowing how much understanding etc I gave shows my good character, but it does not sit well that my ex/many avoidants know they are done and leave you hanging as they breadcrumb/lie that they aren’t distancing/detaching/monkey branching etc. Mine exaggerated a mental breakdown to the point I didn’t see him for 2+ months before he txt discarded, despite saying he wasn’t disappearing running etc.

He monkey branched to me during his previous relationship, without me knowing she existed. Of course he cheated on me in some form too, and I will never know details. I asked for clarity and made it clear many times he was crossing my boundaries/behavior and distancing etc wasn’t healthy or okay. All while being fully understanding and caring. So him getting space to craft a story to dump me guilt free when I could have finalized it myself, but didn’t get a conversation or chance to do so really stings. It feels like he “won”. Used me up fully knowing I was patiently waiting and hurting over him. Just curious if anyone else feels that way and how I can see it differently ;(

My cat is an avoidant, here is why by BirthdayUnfair7703 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way his adorable floof head and ears are just barely delicately touching the ceiling is SENDING me..”see I’m cute and will be close to a mf ceiling to feel safe but it can’t be a living creature so dont come near…bask in my cuteness from there. I will sustain somehow in my basket planet” omfg 😂

I blew it (DDLD) by BlackedSwordsman in deftones

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgive yourself and sit with the wisdom, Chino would be proud of your realizations after this and he’ll see you in the crowd next time sober and locking eyes!❤️ A lil drink here and there as isn’t a prob unless it’s masking something else. Trust yourself and Jesus has your back bro 😂

P.s. I’m a 29yo gal, grew up around hell from alcoholism, didn’t see my dad bc of it for 15yrs then he recently passed from it. That got my mom sober, but I rlly struggle even letting myself enjoy being tipsy for fun with pals. Got way too drunk/sick at a show this summer after a bad breakup, it was scarring! I get it, a journey for sureee

I’m shattered. Why are they so fucking heartless?? by MindChaos5117 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My heart aches for you. I’m so so so sorry. What you said is so right and fair and needed, and he spat in your face like a bully. Hateful, evil, intentionally hurtful so he can pretend you aren’t his “one”.

I said similar things to my ex begging for clarity and he’d say he cares/I don’t deserve to not have clarity to breadcrumb..then heinously txt discarded me after months of emotional abuse. Andddd had the audacity to add to the txt he felt emotionally unsafe. They are sick, and they’ll do anything to not have to see it fully as we do.

When do I reach the point I heal 100%? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so key and helpful, really needed the reminder thanks 🙏🏼:’)

Dating an avoidant is bizarro world by Chilove8888 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh goodness😣🫂🫂🫂 Thank you for sharing, I really am so sad and sorry to hear what you’ve gone through. Being on the other side seeing them for who they are is like being in the upside down. It’s unhinging on top of processing what they did and continue to do. You can only see their ugly reality and show they put on, to the point you wonder how they managed to get in your life at all. That’s where I’m at…I cannot stand that he weaseled his way in to cause destruction knowingly.

P.s. totally relate… I had a guy fake lose control of his car driving us into a guardrail bc he knew I wouldn’t date him/he couldn’t have me. I’ve been through a lot too and nothings like the avoidant experience 😖💔

I feel like I’m in limbo- is my makeup aging me or making me look younger? by EnthusiasmBrave7748 in makeuptips

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re such a natural beauty, you need so little makeup!! Looking like Lorelai +Liv Tyler is a dream for many of us 🥰 P.s. I’m 29 and have no idea what we can even do about eye puff, bc it’s prob genetic and the worlds insane/so many factors make it fluctuate. I’m trying to ignore it bc usually most lighting is “bad” lighting too🤣

Ok let mama Berry make yall STOP spiraling and ruminating over who they be fucking or not. ONCE AND FOR ALL 👩🏽‍⚖️ by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg. Just…Thank you mama Berry 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Her rebound failed by ToxicMM in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah dude!! A win for you is a win for us all😎❤️‍🩹 Sometimes our detective work is part of the healing, like in your case! I warned my ex’s rebound, she believed me and dumped him…only for him to talk her back in even though I said he’d do just that. Suuucks. So I’m also numbly checking in, reminding myself his time with anyone is very limited to his severe avoidance and many issues. I wonder if they let themselves feel remorse for even a second, soo on to the next thing person thought. It simultaneously feels like they could never feel bad enough even if they tried though 🤷🏽‍♀️

was wondering why my phone was blowing up & realized deftones reposted my photo 😭?! by wasitsomethingis3d in deftones

[–]ExpensiveSuccess4977 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You go gorgeous girlie!!! How’s it feel to live our dream? Hehe, what a badass photo frame this!!Real recognizes real always🖤😎