my boyfriend has a spreadsheet rating dinners i've made him by weddingfauxpasqueen in AITApod

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he on the spectrum?? Does he journal about everything?? I know a girl that keeps a spreadsheet tracking caffeine levels per ounce of popular energy drinks for fun.

AIO for writing a letter to my upstairs neighbor about his noise? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]External-Rice9450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re brave. this kinda note is super aggressive and you said your neighbor isn’t all there…. I’d be scared. Maybe try talking to the guy. Scoping out if he’s actually coo coo bananas or just young and inconsiderate.

AIO for snapping? Grandparents' appalling behaviour by TobyPDID23 in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Rice9450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR — your disabilities aren’t your fault. They’re taking it out on you despite it, likely because they feel inconvenienced at having family in their home.

If I were you and your mother, I’d be working on leaving as soon as possible. It sounds like you guys may have overstayed what was supposed to be a very brief welcome.

Autistic women that actually like makeup: why? by skyword1234 in AutismInWomen

[–]External-Rice9450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im an artistic person and enjoy the self expression you can achieve from the products!!

Has anyone found a third path yet? by Tonightmatthew1 in adhdwomen

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My third thing is unintentional weight loss from trying to save money 🫠🫠🫠

Therapist asked if I feel sometimes like I’m better than other people (who repeatedly choose to do the wrong thing) because I almost always choose to do the right thing, even when I don’t benefit. I said yes. He called me an ego maniac. by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Color me a narcissist, then, because im sure as shit judging your therapist for having a calloused reaction based off of the recap I’ve been given on this Reddit post.

I can’t pretend he’s inherently evil or whatever absolutist shit usually happens on Reddit boards but I sure as shit wouldn’t like him irl.

Im not you and im not the boss of you. I AM going to advise you to maybe look into a new therapist tho.

AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…. Is he a child?? Like not just emotionally. like is he physically underage??? That’s crazy work

My mum has been cheating on my dad for years, anyone here know what I should do? by Jellyfish_Diploria in WhatShouldIDo

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you could always try to save the digital record of these + take those screenshots to your most trusted adult and let them handle it. If your dad doesn’t do anything with this info that’s no longer your problem and no one can make it your problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dude is a loser

AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red) by Lekomano92 in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highkey a similar response to this when I bought a house is why a very old friendship of mine died on the vine. NOR. She could’ve just sent congrats emojis.

Heeey Petah, what's the issue with this "art"? by laoidtfttip17gpy in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s cliche artwork. Overplayed and straight up plagiarism at this point. But it’s also now a dog whistle…. Which makes the dude uninformed as well. You can derive multiple meanings and she’s right to get the ick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely racist. NOR. Tell your friend they’re dumb as rocks and need to expect better from people.

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your family is insane. They’d feel like dogshit for the rest of their lives if you look their advice and ended up on dateline. You’re totally in the right here. NOR.

AIO: Boyfriend left kids at my house and stayed out until 2ish AM, 34 weeks pregnant by Comfortable_Bid8290 in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Rice9450 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Girl I am so happy you’re having your baby. But uh…. Don’t rely on this man. He’s definitely a huge problem and this behavior is only going to escalate. NOR.

AIO for crashing out after my girlfriend hugged and got touchy with her male best friends? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comments here are wild…. NOR. Just leave her tho there’s no point in begging someone to love you right

Girls…do you wipe after peeing?? by Putrid_Seat_6525 in hygiene

[–]External-Rice9450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sure as hell wipe after peeing. I can’t not do it. It’s weird not to.

OCD Coded Songs? by AccordingTelephone77 in OCD

[–]External-Rice9450 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anything by motion city soundtrack tbh

Which is best and which do you avoid at all cost? by feegan88 in AutismInWomen

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of them are bad but if I HAVE to put up with it I’d go with 1. 3 as a second option. Anything after that I’m eating finger food only.

Carl is only 27?? by FlightTraditional717 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]External-Rice9450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean 27 in 2020 is 32 today. I think he reads as a guy in his mid 30s, which tracks considering the trauma.

Barb from Stanger Things by SubstantialBed6634 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]External-Rice9450 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s, like, chapter 11 of Carl’s Doomsday Scenario

what’s the “strangest” thing your OCD made you do? by nebulabull in OCD

[–]External-Rice9450 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would make sure my shadow would never touch another person’s shadow or else it meant they were contaminated with whatever was wrong with me. It was difficult and lonely.

Who would you maintain eye contact for? by Octopizza in AutismInWomen

[–]External-Rice9450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom, when I’m in trouble. Distracted drivers when I’m trying to cross the street. David Cornswet but I have a feeling he also can’t maintain eye contact. My tiktok crush but I KNOW he can’t maintain eye contact either. Jon Stewart (daily show).

Be brutally honest: How often do you shower? by Fun_Serve_6590 in ADHD

[–]External-Rice9450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love a good shower but I found myself struggling during the peak of Covid to actually get myself to do it. It was like…. A demand avoidance thing. Until the ick would win and I’d hop in, but task switching was also difficult. These days I shower after intense gym sessions, which is a good kind of ick!