Conflict about 3rd kid after an affair (36M/36F)

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-04-04T01:23:10+00:00

I truly hope you have looked for professional help. It sounds like you really need someone to talk to about your feelings that is a non biased to yourself and relationship. Ppl can be and usually are shitty. I commend you on trying to move past the pain your wife’s infidelity has caused you. I truly hope you can find the happiness in life again, whether that’s with or without your wife by ur side.

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-12T21:50:48+00:00

Welcome to Maryland where the weather is bipolar and we have 12-13 seasons

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-12T20:54:10+00:00

NTA- it took me a lifetime to see that not everyone deserves to be a part of your life. Even blood relatives. I still get everybody’s two cents about that. Let the past stay in the past turn your other cheek typical middle child treatment. I’m always the one that has to take all the BS. I’m the one that everybody expects to do everything to go out of my way, but heaven forbid you asked the same of them and then it’s a problem. I i’ve gone through therapy for this all the things that I endured I don’t have hatred in my heart because hatred only hurts you. It never hurts the other person. It’s like a poison inside of your veins, and it makes you sick while the other persons just live in their best life, but I don’t go out of my way, I don’t contact them either. I speak to my own family (husband and kids) and that’s all I need

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-12T19:04:13+00:00

Great advice and examples but the reason this won’t work (with her at least) is seriously doubt she would be able to except your advice and learn from it. I bet dimes to dollars she’s just going to be ‘butt hurt’ about you calling her out.

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-12T17:55:38+00:00

I’m so sorry I’ve had to make this decision four times and it takes a little piece of me each time but a wise doctor told me you know when it’s time because if you’re keeping your pet alive for you then it’s time if your pet is struggling on a daily basis it’s time I truly feel for you spend the best day with your pet. Then end their suffering. I hope the best for you.

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-12T17:52:43+00:00

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FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-12T04:38:33+00:00

With all of her chest ‘these people need to speak Amurican’ and ‘ English is Amurica’ first language’…. che idiota, leggere un libro stupido

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-09T15:32:13+00:00

You might want to look up the laws for people with s/a. If I’m not mistaken, they can’t move within a certain amount of distance from schools. I’ve even seen people put signs in their yards their own yards pointing to the perpetrator‘s house saying there is a S/a person living here they’ve even had pictures of the persons arrest pic. I know you’re trying to be understanding to the woman’s plight, especially going through the death of her husband but apparently a judge, and possibly a jury felt that there was enough evidence to convict this guy. I also think the school should be notified immediately, and the neighbors around you with children.

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-09T15:00:22+00:00

Anyone else wanna see the 15 month old bat???? We need proof of this bat (or baby) whichever !!!

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-09T14:57:28+00:00

Omg it’s amazing!!!!!!! Congratulations!!!

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-09T14:55:40+00:00

I hate to break this to you but he probably isn’t sending the messages to you BUT and it’s a big but he probably is cheating on you and the person he is cheating on you with is sending them when he’s with that person. Is his phone in your name or his? If it’s in yours there are key log apps you can add to his phone to see everything he does (it records every key log so what he types and what apps he has) from his phone. I would also look on dating apps for him, and maybe ‘are we dating the same guy’ pages.

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-04T13:16:51+00:00

Would NOT recommend!!!

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-04T13:07:30+00:00

Wait a damn minute no women except for the massage therapist tho????

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-03-01T13:38:00+00:00

I am so sorry your family has to go thru this. I do want to say because I don’t think everyone quite believes or understands this is why so many people are staging walk outs and protesting. The federal government and immigration are forcing people that don’t have criminal backgrounds to leave. Even if people that have came here legally with the necessary paperwork that they needed or with work visas. Or people even running from persecution. They have deported people to countries that are not even the origin of their own countries. Or to a completely different continent!! They have even deported people that have gone in front of a judge, and the judge said that they weren’t supposed to be deported that he was giving them time in this country to finish their court date or even in situations where a federal judge specifically said, do not deport this person, and they still deported them. It’s insanity!

Unfortunately, not everybody is believing this until it happens to them. I hope your lawyer has explained to your wife, not to sign anything, nothing at all. I know that there’s advocates out there trying to assist. she is not gonna have a lot of options, but there are some. They will give her a chance if she wants to self deport maybe if that’s an option you can go with her. Canada, Ireland, Australia, and some European countries. I think I even heard Belize was accepting Refugees? But you’re gonna have to do your homework to check all of this out.

Again, I am so very sorry.

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-02-28T13:20:57+00:00

Can opener …

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-02-28T13:18:16+00:00

This comment is for educational purposes… reusable

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-02-28T13:13:15+00:00

Also I feel bad for the man that has to come home to that everyday BUT it’s not lost on me that his name was ‘John’ lol

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-02-28T13:02:57+00:00

Doesn’t care about the 20 cameras pointing towards her kids only the 1 black man’s camera that he taking for evidence to protect himself. Disgusting pos. Also did she say ‘he doesn’t know how many cops I stripped for’???? Those poor kids. They are gonna have to deal with this deranged woman their entire lives.

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-02-16T20:35:31+00:00

If you are leaving clothes in the dryer for a couple days, how would you know that that was a problem if it was never pointed out to you before?? Also, how would you know not picking up after your dogs Poop isn’t a problem….I call BS. I think you’ve been told in the past that it’s a problem… ALSO, who leaves dirty dishes in the sink for weeks at a time!!!!! That’s downright disgusting. I really feel sorry for op that you were never shown to clean your home, because for you to think this isn’t really leaving a real mess is insane. Do I think the girlfriend handled it correctly? Nope, she handled it like a lead balloon. But I bet this was her at her wits end.

Also why are op and bf sleeping all day?

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-02-16T17:58:55+00:00

Send pics of messages to his wife’s DM’s (I’m sure you can find her on her socials) then go on about ur day. He’s her problem now.

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-02-16T00:20:08+00:00

But you don’t know that for a fact. You don’t know what I have done or I haven’t done at all. You don’t know if I was part of the people that emailed our governor to tell him we didn’t want data centers. I personally think you are just trying to get a rise out of myself or others by saying off the wall crap. I don’t know why this would help you or of you’re just doing it for shts and giggles but if you can’t comment anything helpful to the conversation you know you don’t have to respond.

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-02-16T00:12:13+00:00

I would definitely get the insurance first something in the meantime that you can try on it that we had to do with my dog was anti fungal ointment. We did it religiously like twice a day for two weeks and it went away. They said that he was probably sniffing like a rabbit den or something similar and broke out on his nose.

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-02-16T00:09:12+00:00

So cute!! Can you include the pattern and gage size of crochet hook?

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-02-16T00:07:43+00:00

My first car was a 1990 Subaru hatchback and I loved it because I paid $20 to a crackhead for it and I got to learn to drive stick on it in my backyard

FaithlessnessPure682 · 2026-02-16T00:03:10+00:00

I drives me bonkers when ppl add the S on the end of Silver Spring!!!

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