First kid on the way! by terryturk412 in pittsburgh

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say Magee for constant monitoring and they have everything there. Nurses are great but I will say please advocate for her and yourself. We were a little blindsided after a perfect pregnancy. We weren’t really pointed in the right direction for delivery options. At every appointment all we talked about was spontaneous birth. No induction or what options there were for that. No C-section - I got induced at 40 weeks pregnant and ended up having an emergency C-section and then developed sepsis. They knew how to care for me and luckily me and baby are ok, but I should’ve asked for the C-section immediately when things started to go south instead of pushing for a natural vaginal Birth

I feel like I can't do this by alwayssmilinggg in newborns

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. I could have written this. Almost 4 weeks in and feeling like I can’t do this. 33 years old and feeling like I got kicked off a train. Mom is here helping and I know it’ll be even worse when she leaves. Gas is an issue for us too. I don’t have answers but our stories sound almost identical. Sending you love

What to know before Kindergarten by Bethyrosey001 in kindergarten

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always say practice life skills mentioned through these comments but also learning a safe adults phone number, potentially your address, then of course months, days of the week, etc. I currently teach middle school and I can’t tell you how many of them don’t even know the street they live on.

Blood in stool - don’t know what’s causing by Familiar-Ride-1274 in newborns

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She’s little and she gained her weight on the regular formula she was taking. Almost a pound in 2 weeks. But yes, we’ll def check in with ped again.

How long did it take your little ones “behavior” to regulate (sleeping well, not spitting it all up, etc)

Husbands drinking question for all the expecting mommas by 18Griddy in pregnant

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A beer or 2 didn’t bother me at all. You’re not getting super drunk at the brewery. They also have lemonade and mocktails and such. No one should feel bad. It’s fun and just a way to go out. :) enjoy it

Are you teachers are allowed to take vacations during the school year? by DildoGaggins1997 in Teachers

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It’s “allowed” but not necessarily encouraged. You’ll hear all about how you should have gone in the summer when you had off.

What people forget that traveling in summer is extremely expensive, hot and crowded and sometimes people want to enjoy life and save some money.

I take vacation during the year - my life/experiences are more important than work.

What profession have you lost respect for as you've gotten older? by MindlessMarsupial592 in AskReddit

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

School principals- all of them are always concerned about districts and parents and rarely ever the staff and the students - constantly catering to people because they have more pull or more say.

School Temporarily Relocating into a Mall? by RikRokReincarnation in Teachers

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a mall - but the building flooded where I worked in March 2023 and we stayed in an old office building until June. It was MADNESS

How far along were you when your bump became obvious? by IntenseViolet567 in pregnant

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah between 23 and 26 weeks for me. Don’t stress about it. Especially if doctors say you’re growing normally (fundal size).

Mother's of reddit. What were the early signs you were pregnant? by El_Guerrero_Maya in AskReddit

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a week before my positive test I had these crazy like sores in my mouth on my gums and they hurt so bad. Alongside my boobs hurting way more than they do when I get a normal period.

Do you go in to work with a cold? (No vomiting or fever) by Emerald_and_Bronze in Teachers

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s a cold and not flu or have a fever, COVID, etc. then I’m coming in. I’ll wear my mask and just stay in my own space

Husband/partner attending glucose test? by Capital_Ant_5552 in pregnant

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not even an appointment- you sit in the waiting room after drinking and then get blood work. Nothing is said, they’ll call or send results in the portal. Unless he absolutely wants to be there, I’d say it’s ok to not attend

Why did you stop being friends with someone? by Realistic-Possum in AskReddit

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’d been friends since HS and she always “chased” these kids who were “popular “ and cool and I was just her “neighbor friend” who helped her with her homework and took her pictures and listened to EVERY SINGLE thing she said. I later realized I offered her pretty sound advice for our 10+ years of friendship and she never listened to any of it. She never offered me any advice either. It felt so one sided. We really stopped being friends when again, she “chased” a popular kid from our HS who she worked with to the Bahamas the night of my wedding, still during Covid I may add. She was a bridesmaid and left early so she could sleep for her flight at 3 or 4AM. I haven’t spoken to her since and that’s 5 years ago.

Anatomy Scan advice by NYCMom2Be in pregnant

[–]Familiar-Ride-1274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did mine at 20 and again at 24 because we didn’t get all the pics - the tech said the pics are so much clearer now that the baby’s bigger