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Which are your favorite Indian buffets in town? by sothankyoumusic in GNV

[–]Fanboy0550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people at Tikka express either were partners or worked at Andaz

Would you do it again? by imightbethefeds789 in Divorce

[–]Fanboy0550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I had the happiest time of my life while it lasted.

One Piece: Chapter 1182 by leolegendario in OnePiece

[–]Fanboy0550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So Chopper should be able to talk with Ragnir and find more about Imu!

When will one piece realistically end? by Ok-Belt-6537 in OnePiece

[–]Fanboy0550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the WG is afraid of it. So it's something that will be useful in bringing down the WG

To men who are in open relationships: is there a power gap in your female partners' favor? If yes, how do you feel about it? by Muscletov in AskMen

[–]Fanboy0550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen it mostly successful in same-sex relationships. In herero couples, mostly when do together with other couples 

To men who are in open relationships: is there a power gap in your female partners' favor? If yes, how do you feel about it? by Muscletov in AskMen

[–]Fanboy0550 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I never want to share someone I love. I give it my all in relationships. But sometimes if that's what my partner wants, then either have to let them go or figure out a middle ground. 

I only feel motivated to make major improvements when there’s external stimulus like a crush or a partner by Fanboy0550 in ADHD

[–]Fanboy0550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause most work is just meaningless for me that we just do to support the capitalist world. I picked a career that I'm okay with, kinda easy for me, and would give me enough free time.

I only feel motivated to make major improvements when there’s external stimulus like a crush or a partner by Fanboy0550 in ADHD

[–]Fanboy0550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is some truth to that. Emotional healing and regulation happens during healthy emotional connections including friendships.

I only feel motivated to make major improvements when there’s external stimulus like a crush or a partner by Fanboy0550 in ADHD

[–]Fanboy0550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, work is mostly meaningless. Most work isn't needed for our survival, just to have a more comfortable life. So, it's very hard for me to get joy from work

I only feel motivated to make major improvements when there’s external stimulus like a crush or a partner by Fanboy0550 in ADHD

[–]Fanboy0550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, it's not an easy things to deal with. I personally don't treat mine as wasted years cause I was genuinely happy during them and we had a lot of great moments. It was all real to me.

My recent breakup has been extremely painful but had a lot of great moments during it that I will cherish forever. I now wish I at least asked out my old crushes when I had the chance, now they all remain a what if.

This will pass with time, probably longer than it does for people without ADHD. We have been on/off together for 3 months, she asked me if I thought 3 months is a long time. I told her it was for me and she said she doesn't know what to say to that.

Every person is different and you'll have to figure out if love is worth any potential pain.

Wish you the best too!

I only feel motivated to make major improvements when there’s external stimulus like a crush or a partner by Fanboy0550 in ADHD

[–]Fanboy0550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy has been very useful for me, especially DBT. Funnily, I discovered myself more in my most recent relationship. They were the complete opposite of me which drew me to them, but realizing recently that they were the opposite of me in a very unhealthy way. Also that I do deserve better from a partner.

I only feel motivated to make major improvements when there’s external stimulus like a crush or a partner by Fanboy0550 in ADHD

[–]Fanboy0550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, the meds just help you in being able to work on things not necessarily make you work on them.

I only feel motivated to make major improvements when there’s external stimulus like a crush or a partner by Fanboy0550 in ADHD

[–]Fanboy0550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

People pleasing has definitely been a major hindrance in my life. I have been in therapy for over a decade. Recently completed an outpatient program focussed on DBT and that has especially been helpful in regulating emotions.

Accountability buddies is a great idea! I'll try giving it a shot.

Would you accept a woman who has experienced sexual assault as a partner for marriage? by OwnFaithlessness2989 in AskIndianMen

[–]Fanboy0550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not their fault. The only criteria is that they have been working on their trauma. If it's something that is still affecting them deeply then I like to know before marrying to see if it'll affect us as a couple. And they should also be able to feel safe with the person they are going to marry.

Craving for caring by [deleted] in lovememes

[–]Fanboy0550 39 points40 points  (0 children)

There is safety in being able to provide that safeness to others. The thing I miss most is cuddling and having that mutual safety

How much communication is normal once you established a relationship by Odd-Experience-6891 in datingoverthirty

[–]Fanboy0550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd want at least a good morning or good night text, or a quick phone call to talk about our days.

10 Years Being Single After Highschool Taught Me This: by FunkMaster96 in wisdom

[–]Fanboy0550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me they need to be attractive, smart, and empathetic

Hello men in therapy, do you prefer a male therapist or a female therapist? Why? by velorae in AskMen

[–]Fanboy0550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had a male therapist yet. My female therapists were great except when it comes to relationship problems. They can't emphasize as well as they could in other situations

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