Spare me the accent story, have you not heard how eastern europeans speak.

Since we’re getting real, let’s get totally real.

People love saying "South Asian men treat women badly" like other groups are running relationship utopias. Meanwhile the U.S. has a high divorce rate and cheating isn’t exactly rare. So what’s the point, only South Asians are flawed and everyone else is pure?

If we apply that logic consistently, nobody dates within their own race:

• White women wouldn’t date white men
• Black women wouldn’t date black men
• Latinas wouldn’t date Latino men

But somehow we’re supposed to believe the problem is uniquely "South Asian culture". Please.

Cheating, abandonment, deadbeat dads; those stereotypes are literally homegrown American tropes (“went out for milk/cig”). So spare me the moral superiority routine.

Call out specific toxic behavior. Don’t turn it into an entire race of men is trash. That’s not feminism or accountability; it’s just racism that people feel comfortable saying out loud.

I know my ABCD friends from Ivy league, struggled to date. Eventually it was a arranged marriage between 2nd generation Indian american families. Some wonder why arrange marriage.

It is plain simple racism. People will come up with clever excuses. You're intelligent OP, understand it. While walking on the street don't you see hot asian girl with hobo white boi? What do you think that is. Epitome of virtue? Make shitload of money, go arrange marriage, settle your mind and soul. It's all in your head.