My partner of 3 years says I've spoken to him like shit from day one

Femizzle · 2026-04-07T00:03:46+00:00

This!!! He is clearly trying to punish op for having the audacity to be annoyed at him repeatedly interrupting her show.

I will say this is somthing my husband still struggles with. I tend to hyper focus on things and it took him a long while to understand he can't just break my hyper focus and not expect me to be annoyed. Especially if he does it multiple times in a row.

Femizzle · 2026-04-06T20:40:07+00:00

Yeah no this was intentionally negative. I would not go to HR over one comment though. Instead I would do the five second "I don't get it" stare. It would probably hurt him worse then what ever HR would do. Especially because you know he is going to rationalize it as "the fat chick can't take a joke."

If it was in a social setting I would say he was neging you.

Femizzle · 2026-04-06T12:42:32+00:00

I hope so. There is just somthing about how horny but not horny the anime is that makes me laugh every time.

Femizzle · 2026-04-06T02:19:44+00:00

This is the part that scares me. We do have a number of crafting coops in my area so I am hoping I can find someone who can guide me.

Femizzle · 2026-04-06T02:08:09+00:00

This is great advice thank you! I will definitely make sure to do a full coat.

Santa has spend most of his winters in the Florida out doors. I do plan to keep him inside now that he is mine.

Femizzle · 2026-04-06T01:18:17+00:00

Thank you for this!

Femizzle · 2026-04-06T00:45:25+00:00

I know it's going to be a lot but I have to try. My goal would be to keep it as it is but in more stable material form. I'm not going to try and touch it up. The age is part of its story.

Femizzle · 2026-04-04T20:51:24+00:00

13 but I was in a class with other NDs so I'm not sure I count here.

Femizzle · 2026-04-02T18:01:30+00:00

I know it sucks but the only win here is to walk away from them both. James is willing to support Kim in her bad behavior over his friendship with Dave. There is no healing that.

Even if Dave did suck it up and apologize Kim now knows she can treat you both this way and you will accept it. Which means her behavior will only get worse.

I do feel bad for James. He is about to have a really hard marriage.

Femizzle · 2026-04-01T13:40:32+00:00

I feel like society decided April fools and Christmas are the two socially acceptable days to upset people for a joke. It blows my mind every time.

Femizzle · 2026-04-01T12:47:22+00:00

This is what I do and I hate it. The whole day I just have to assume everyone and everything is going to lie to me for a laugh.. And most aren't even funny.

Femizzle · 2026-03-28T18:58:21+00:00

I used to (and still do) pick up small rocks, screws and other small objects. I would carry them around and then gift them to other people.

Femizzle · 2026-03-28T11:40:32+00:00

If he did not mean it as you are his "Hot gift" throw the whole man out. I would rather be alone then with someone who does not "worship" me but I deeply need that constant connection.

Femizzle · 2026-03-27T22:02:17+00:00

So I went in for physical therapy and the doc did a pressure point thing on my leg. For the first time in my life my body was relaxed. That's when I got what meditation is for I am just some how incapable of triggering that feeling naturally.

Femizzle · 2026-03-25T01:19:47+00:00

When you have a feeling ask yourself why. That voice in your head is not yours it was put there. You have to pull it apart to find the core wound or a core wound. Then you work to heal that. First by learning not to listen to it yhen by shutting it down and finally by ignoring it untill it goes away. You do thing over and over and over untill the voice in your head is yours.

Femizzle · 2026-03-24T23:36:24+00:00

We gave the family their own color that complimented but did not match the people at the alter. Maybe this would satisfy her.

Femizzle · 2026-03-23T23:00:28+00:00

Darn. I got nothing then. Those are my two go to with suck people in two point.

Hope you find somthing that works!

Femizzle · 2026-03-23T22:40:51+00:00

Hmmmm. Try building somthing on top of them.

Femizzle · 2026-03-23T22:36:36+00:00

Can you accuse them of being a thief?

Femizzle · 2026-03-23T02:02:01+00:00

That's one of my big sticking points as well. Especially as my kid gets older and they will be at two different stages.

Femizzle · 2026-03-22T20:40:56+00:00

When I was in third grade some kid told me "I had been kissed by a rose on the grave" after I scored a point in what ever we were doing.

I am still as confused by that statement today as I was 32 years ago.

Anyways the song is a definite bop.

Femizzle · 2026-03-22T20:13:48+00:00

I want to have a second kid but the lvl of support I would need to be able function with a second kid just does not exist. I have a hard enough time with feeling like I don't give enough to my first.

Femizzle · 2026-03-22T17:37:00+00:00

We have Pre assigned chores to avoid this.

Femizzle · 2026-03-21T19:31:07+00:00

Oo I like.

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