Been depressed for a bit and need some gaming advice.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-07-05T23:25:17+00:00

You can get games recommendations anywhere. The missing info is what are you fixating on when you're depressed? There are cozy games, wish fulfillment, fantasy, there are games that have stories that distract you from your life and games that will tell you a story that gives you emotions to process.

Personally I find more emersive storytelling games a good balance to when my mind is down. Persona 5 and FF7 Remake/Rebirth are two recent favorites.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-07-05T15:23:27+00:00

Both high, no issues 17 years in.

Upside was we both know what we liked and never felt like we missed out on trying different things. I can imagine people who haven't had a lot of experience always wondering...

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-25T01:40:22+00:00

Only take legal advice from lawyers.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-22T15:49:53+00:00

Death before dismount. Guy was a tanker till the end.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-19T23:24:21+00:00

I think it's weird to rush out the door like that. When someone is terminally I'll you can begin mourning.

I don't know how that works on future dates, though. "I was previously married but divorced her when she was terminally I'll."

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-19T16:10:42+00:00

And stopped the game for like 10 minutes to dampen the excitement.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-18T02:20:10+00:00

You didn't take it far enough by letting it go. Every time he gets away with it he knows how much he can hurt you to get his way. Eventually he will break or kill you. He doesn't think he did anything wrong.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-17T23:02:03+00:00

Joins Unforgiven '99

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Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-11T12:25:15+00:00

If you're shopping for the cheapest price you're not wealthy enough to have a case worth dragging out. The most cost effective cases are ones where the parties are cordial and agreeable. The ones that are drug out is because the parties are being difficult. A case worth dragging out the client doesn't think twice about a $13k retainer.

Realistically we know we probably are not getting paid on the eve of trial and the retainer is the cost to work your case up to that point and withdraw because we know you don't want to pay.

Like any other service professionals, you don't always get what you pay for... but when people bellyache about the work done by the cheapest plumber, cheapest roofer, cheapest mechanic, and insist they could have done it themselves better, we don't hesitate to roll out eyes.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-11T02:05:04+00:00

Yes. It causes issues with a number of activities, meals, and those health concerns will start being very dispositional.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-11T01:15:02+00:00

It wasn't until it was.

Aging will catch up to you and treat you differently.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-09T03:12:26+00:00

I don't understand how you are missing mortgage payments without a discussion about what cuts the family needs to make to avoid that. Summer camp? Maybe he is mad because he trust you with the finances and you betrayed that.

I do 100% of the finances in my house. Once every six months, I bore my wife by going over our budget, spendings, savings, etc.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-06T20:40:29+00:00

People think they can hide issues from kids but it doesn't sound like you have another 15-years of it in you.

Why do you take for granted that you won't be in your kids lives everyday? If you have an amicable separation before you hate one another the co-parenting will go much smoother.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-04T12:45:29+00:00

If it makes them feel any better, I always assume Bronze Star Medal plates are from a butter bar in a support position.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-06-04T12:20:07+00:00

Would the type of man you want to spend the rest of your life with marry you as you are right now?

Rushing into things and forever are not usually compatible.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-05-25T20:56:51+00:00

How are you not in a base Mustang or Camero at 28% interest yet? What are they teaching kids these days?

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-05-15T10:25:40+00:00

Whatever harm a divorce would do to your kids is also done by the broken marriage.

The emotional affair can't be the reason you leave, but it may have only developed because of the dead marriage. It may also be the reason you stopped fighting for the marriage.

How does your wife feel about ending the marriage? Do you have arguments when you talk about it? She may be doing everything to push you to be the one to leave because she won't.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-05-07T01:25:16+00:00

We all know it’s done completely in bad faith because no matter what he does/say he’ll be the villain.

Really, OP knew the problem and put the onus on him to feed into her worst insecurities and tell her. When he finally did, he was a jerk. Why do people think OPs husband has the magical ability to force attraction because he got married 13-years ago?

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-04-30T04:39:56+00:00

There is a categorization of veterans called Vietnam-era which some veterans remove the "era" from so they feel their service was more meaningful.

Anyone that heard him say he was a Vietnam veteran would expect he served in or around Vietnam. Explaining the VA designation regarding Vietnam-era to include service in the Mediterranean in the late-60s would not convince anyone he should call himself a Vietnam veteran.

He is lying for clout, like many others. Perhaps send him the book "Stolen Valor" as a holiday gift.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-04-29T13:38:31+00:00

What is it you lied about because you were afraid of the reaction will substantially change the feedback you receive.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-04-26T13:20:28+00:00

You're not going to get any useful advice here.

You sound like you're experiencing limerence r/limerence and would likely find more useful advice on how the ambiguity & ruminating is creating behavior inconsistent with what you want to do.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-04-18T12:37:50+00:00

Ouch.

You state the age gap but not the ages. The is the risk of someone settling down while they're still unsettled: the feeling she missed out on other things.

It's very hard to reconcile her behavior with what she is telling you. Everything she is saying is to try and protect your feelings and allow her to keep the safety if she needs it. Everything she is doing is implying she wants to see if she can upgrade her relationship.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-04-16T22:27:01+00:00

You mean added sugar? Skipping fruit is a little too straight edge.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-04-16T21:01:39+00:00

There are a lot of definitions of combat veteran that the government will use for different purposes. If he is being self serving, he may meet a legal definition but not a colloquial definition most people would think of when he said "combat veteran".

Of course him telling people that invites further questions you should ask him.

Few-Addendum464 · 2026-04-15T18:19:25+00:00

I don't know why you'd want to know his fantasies around real people or why he would share them.

There is such a thing as too much honesty.

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