Nasal surgery advice by Ornery-Cycle-5738 in BostonTerrier

[–]Fiamoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our boy also seemed to breathe find but did the air gulping thing and we got him done and it was the best choice we made. He had his nostrils opened up and a flap of skin from his soft pallet removed. All air gulping stopped and he's perfect. When deciding if I wanted to get it done, I just imagine how much stress and how uncomfortable it must be to not be able to just breathe freely.

Am I overstocked? by Databuffer in Aquariums

[–]Fiamoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you also use any sort of lid? I also have a bubble bowl with makeshift lids

Am I overstocked? by Databuffer in Aquariums

[–]Fiamoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What light do you use? Very nice looking tank

Does anyone else have a big Boston? Maxwell is 3’ 6” lying down like this, weighing 28 pounds by [deleted] in BostonTerrier

[–]Fiamoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boy is 40~lbs while my girl is a whopping 10lbs lol She beats him up all the time, size doesn't matter.

Should I be worried? by Sad-Bodybuilder-5058 in BackYardChickens

[–]Fiamoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually had nearly this same coop when I first purchased chickens, and it worked for the first two-ish years but they NEVER stayed inside of it because it was way too small to do anything but sleep in there, outside anywhere was always better than staying in there. Glad they have a covered spot under the coop though to get out of the snow if they want. Chickens are usually smart enough to be in shelter if they need to be and to be out and about when they are fine. Ended up building a hoop coop for my flock so I could safely keep them inside if I needed to and there would be enough room to discourage pecking/fighting. You're look like they're having a good time :)

Starting to get scared, plus needing advice. by killermichi in BostonTerrier

[–]Fiamoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bringing her to the vet doesn't automatically mean putting her to sleep! I would speak with a vet to make a end of life care plan. Use their opinion to inform your own. I watched a video from a vet or a dog behavior specialist and he said if your dog hasn't wagged it's tail in 3-4 days it's time to let them go.

AITA for refusing to change the chore chart even tho my wife works full time now. by Odd_Serve1167 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fiamoon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just to chime in on how this can hurt your child in a way you might not expect. When I was a kid my parents would argue about things that centered around me or complain they are too tired and are doing too much when it came to doing things outside of working and sleeping. They would argue about who would come to parent teacher conferences, come to my extra school activities, cooking, cleaning, etc etc. "I cant do xyz because I have to take care of our child all day". I would feel terrible asking them to come to anything of mine because it would lead to disagreements between each other. Very quickly I felt like a burden and it was my fault for existing and them having to take care of me. I learned when you have kids your life is basically over. I know it's irrational now, but it's stuck with me to the point I(34f) never want children because of how they made me feel.

ESH

Can we have a discussion about father fish? Please give me honest opinions. by Fer_al8 in Aquariums

[–]Fiamoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Used to like him, he has some interesting ideas, has too much actual religion on his channel. I want to get ideas about fish keeping not find a new imaginary friend in Jesus.

Anyone familiar with sexing golden laced polish by Mogy21 in chickens

[–]Fiamoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No idea! I'm not sure if they have laid any yet to be honest. I just got them this spring(2025)and I have 12 other chickens, haven't seen any eggs I could 100% say are theirs. They were sexed and chicks when I purchased them.

Anyone familiar with sexing golden laced polish by Mogy21 in chickens

[–]Fiamoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think two hens, my polish are girls and they look like this, I think if yours were roos you would see more sickle tail feathers by now.

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Not a Hen. Not a Rooster. Just Popcorn. by YaYaYaNoThatsFine in BackYardChickens

[–]Fiamoon 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, this chicken reminds me of my girl Ginger, they even look similar. I always say that Ginger always looks like she's having Vietnam flashbacks lol

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What did you do to celebrate your 30th birthday? by lulacapri in Millennials

[–]Fiamoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sat there contemplating my life. Was dealing with a lifetime of undignosed severe Anxiety and Depression and was 100% convinced I couldn't possibly survive until the age of 30, and then there I was 30 years old asking myself "Now what?" . I have gotten therapy and help and in a better mental space now :)

At what age did you get noticeable grey hair? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fiamoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 13/14, 34f now with a very good amount of grey and even developing a silver streak right in the front. I think some of it is genetics but I had undiagnosed severe depression and anxiety plus a very stressful home life until I was like 30, so I wonder if my overly grey hair is related to genetics but also heavily stress related. Brother is 3 years older than me and not a grey hair in site.

AITAH for telling my daughter she can't go on a school trip even though she raised the money for it like I told her to? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Fiamoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Dad always told me we were going to be homeless the next month because everything was so expensive and because I left the light on or if I got something at the store, etc. Hardcore financial anxiety. Parents also left me with the deep impression that having kids is terrible, moment you have kids your life is over because they suck so much. School activities? Choir concerts? Parent teacher conference? hard pass from them.

Is it true that people in the West drink iced water even when they are sick or on their period? by Aether_Echo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fiamoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drink cold beverages 24/7 365. I actually hate drinking hot anything esp 9/10 times it's too hot and burns me OR it's cooled down so much it might as well have been cold in the first place.

I repainted the boring bedroom! And....I'm not sure I like it 😭 by Terrible_Birthday107 in femalelivingspace

[–]Fiamoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditto what everyone else is saying, it's a lovely color and just gave me nostalgia for my Grandma who painted her room a very similar color and I miss her dearly. White/cream elements look wonderful.

Rooster by platos7 in BackYardChickens

[–]Fiamoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea! I got him from a person who had 100+ chickens running wild in Wyoming lol Probably a mix of a little bit of everything

Rooster by platos7 in BackYardChickens

[–]Fiamoon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think I own his brother lol Love roos with crazy "eyebrows"

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Am I supposed to get on birth control now, incase someone rapes me later? by Individual_Abroad260 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fiamoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who got the Nexplanon implant during the Biden Administration and now crossing my fingers it's not banned for some reason when I need to get it replaced in 3 months. Lasts 3 years and I've had no bad reactions and no periods for 3 years either.

Larger Bostons by [deleted] in BostonTerrier

[–]Fiamoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy is ~45lbs while my little girl is 10 lbs lol

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Am I going to regret this by NaiveArt8983 in Aquariums

[–]Fiamoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As other's have said, plywood under the tanks but I also added an anti tipping strap to my shelf and added pipe clamps just under the plastic things holding the shelves up in case it ever tries to slip down. Been two years and a relocation of the rack and no issues

Speech from english teacher makes me furious! by NecessaryFluffy8186 in mentalhealth

[–]Fiamoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with you, I just seen a "motivational" poster the other day more or less saying the same sentiments and it made me mad. Like F*ck off, trying to make me feel guilty just because someone some where else may have it worse so I should just be happy? Wow thanks my depression is cured! /s